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What would you do if a regular client paid less for one time? I'm thinking he might have his reason for this time will bring this up if happen again?

What I think I understand is that

1) you have a regular client who always pays $x - some agreed upon amount for a meeting of a set duration,

2) you recently had a meeting of that duration, with nothing else unusual like early departure, and he "gave" (for example, in a plain envelope) something less than $x, and,

3) he did not mention anything unusual about the meeting or allude to the amount $x?

 

It sounds like a simple accident. If he were a regular and it were not a huge amount I would casually ask him when you set up the next appointment "Oh, by the way, the last time you left me $y instead of our usual $x. I hope there was nothing wrong with our time together?" Assuming it was a casual mistake it would give him an opportunity to discreetly make up the difference. If it wasn't a mistake then it opens up a discussion so it doesn't become the defacto new-normal.

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As a client who really appreciates my regular escorts, it's a no brainer as far as I'm concerned. I would never presume to pay one of my regulars less than his fee. If I see him on a regular basis, it means he always continues to give me the BFE I want. Therefore, it would be disrespectful for me to pay him less than his usual fee (what his services have always been worth to me) as one of my regular guys. If I am short on my budget, etc., I would rather not hire the guy and perhaps ruin the great rapport we have developed, than ever try to pay him less than his services have always been worth in our previous sessions!!! JMHO

 

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Client here. It happened to me once. My regular simply called me to state that I had paid him $100 less than usual and asked if that was an accident. It definitely was an accident and I was quite embarrassed. I paid him the missing $100 next time I saw him. So my answer is that an escort should simply contact the client to discuss this, but approach it as a simply accident versus having an accusatory or offended tone.

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What I think I understand is that

1) you have a regular client who always pays $x - some agreed upon amount for a meeting of a set duration,

2) you recently had a meeting of that duration, with nothing else unusual like early departure, and he "gave" (for example, in a plain envelope) something less than $x, and,

3) he did not mention anything unusual about the meeting or allude to the amount $x?

 

It sounds like a simple accident. If he were a regular and it were not a huge amount I would casually ask him when you set up the next appointment "Oh, by the way, the last time you left me $y instead of our usual $x. I hope there was nothing wrong with our time together?" Assuming it was a casual mistake it would give him an opportunity to discreetly make up the difference. If it wasn't a mistake then it opens up a discussion so it doesn't become the defacto new-normal.

 

Yep That's basically what happened and it's the first time, so as a relatively freshman, I just want to figure out what happened, I got the same acknowledgement of good service provided, left a bit confused... :p

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Yep That's basically what happened and it's the first time, so as a relatively freshman, I just want to figure out what happened, I got the same acknowledgement of good service provided, left a bit confused... :p

 

Without any indication, and because we had a wonderful history, so just confused here :p

I'd send him a note mentioning it to him. It is very likely an accident.

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3 years ago a client I had seen for probably a dozen overnights when I was visiting VA shorted me $100 on my rate. He always sent me PayPal after our appt, as I felt I could trust him. I texted to ask why he shorted me, but I never received a reply. A couple months later I discovered online that he had passed away. I couldn't help but wonder if he knew of his ailing health and was intentially trying to push me away.

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I have accidentally shorted an escort before.

 

Sometimes in the "afterglow" it's hard to have good math skills.

 

Politely mention it to the client. I'm 95% sure it was an innocent mistake,

and he will be mortified. Nonetheless, he will learn a valuable lesson

and in the future he will do the math BEFORE his dick gets hard

and have your payment counted out ahead of time....at least that's what I now do.

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I have accidentally shorted an escort before.

 

Sometimes in the "afterglow" it's hard to have good math skills.

 

Politely mention it to the client. I'm 95% sure it was an innocent mistake,

and he will be mortified. Nonetheless, he will learn a valuable lesson

and in the future he will do the math BEFORE his dick gets hard

and have your payment counted out ahead of time....at least that's what I now do.

 

"Afterglow" lessens math skills !!!???......could I please meet some of those men....no matter how good, no guy has ever had that exact effect on me :(.....anyway, my own job has me on constant, worldwide travel with a few "regulars" in my more frequent ports of call....for the most part I have other payment methods in place for these guys rather than COD (cash on delivery).....(in part for my own convenience too with not wanting / needing to travel with large amounts of cash - either USD or foreign currencies.....for hires that are "one & done" - almost always counted out beforehand & put in an envelope for them to stuff inside their jockstrap, errrr backpocket right before they leave.....for 1-time hires, I simply pay the asked for/agreed upon price....I don't get caught up on "impulse" tipping, so no need to ever add to the envelope...If I invite a guy out for a meal together afterwards & he accepts, that's a separate expense that has nothing to do with the cost of the "date".....(for guys who become my regulars, I go above & beyond with all manner of perks & favors in a variety of ways)

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"Afterglow" lessens math skills !!!???......could I please meet some of those men....no matter how good, no guy has ever had that exact affect on me

 

The one I remember having that effect on me the most was the legendary Mike Grey.

We would fuck so hard and so long....I couldn't remember how to work an elevator....much less count to ten.

Goddamn he was fun! I'd leave his apartment and wonder around NYC like a kid from Nebraska for hours.

After Sex with him everything about NYC was suddenly new and fucking incredible.

 

You need to keep looking!

Escorts who are that great at sex do exist.

And when you find one...treat him like a king!

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The one I remember having that effect on me the most was the legendary Mike Grey.

We would fuck so hard and so long....I couldn't remember how to work an elevator....much less count to ten.

Goddamn he was fun! I'd leave his apartment and wonder around NYC like a kid from Nebraska for hours.

After Sex with him everything about NYC was suddenly new and fucking incredible.

 

You need to keep looking!

Escorts who are that great at sex do exist.

And when you find one...treat him like a king!

 

Mike Grey - a name from the past....def one of the best reputations ever.....sorry to never have met him when I remember all the praise heaped on that apparently multi-faceted, talented stud.....apparently a guy with both quality (class/intelligence/more) & quantity (his cock).

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Guilty here, too. It was a mistake on my part and I am thankful to the escort for calling me immediately and asking. I was walking out of the hotel and on my way to the car. I apologized profusely for the oversight and offered to return to his room to make it right unless he had another appointment conflict, but instead we settled on meeting in the hotel bar for me to buy him a drink, settle things up, and after a couple of cocktails and an hour + great conversation, gave him a nice tip as well.

 

Sadly, I have also given far more than I thought to an escort when I looked at my wallet once the appointment was over. I had one escort question it as being too much and offer to refund it to me (we settled on it as a down payment for the follow up good time) and another who set me a heartfelt message of thanks for how much it meant to him and the money given helped him out in his cash strapped situation.

 

All can be well and end well.

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"Afterglow" lessens math skills !!!???....

 

Afterglow can lessen basic functions with the right guy. Had an amazing time with Chris Eisenhower at his place one night and was just about out the door before I realized my brain was so addled that I forgot to give him the envelope (double-counted beforehand) in my backpack. Figured it out when he loudly cleared his throat at me and smiled. Miss you, Chris!

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So fess up time, 15 years of hiring, I have errored thrice and twice I have had the gentleman thought I errored but did not. The first time I shorted, did not end well and he still thinks I did it on purpose and tried to get away with something. I squared up with him right away, meaning he texted me a couple of minutes after leaving I returned and paid him his correct fee. I was wrong and corrected it.

 

The other two times same person, one was a big error on my part but VENMO is great for make up. He contacted me about the issue. He trusted me and we accounted for all. We have been on several trips together. The second time was only because we did not discuss the rate ahead of time, I assumed one thing he another. Usually the financial end of things is easy between us it's just we did a time frame we had not done in past. Again he contacted me and I addressed the issue immediately. To say I was embarrassed does not even begin to cover how I felt about my mistake.

 

So I would contact the client and just ask, VENMO can work well to correct the issue.

 

As the other two, one did not see I left the funds on the table next to him. The other one he was very good in bed but math was not his strong skill, but that happens. Math is my skill and I fucked up, happens.

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