Offended by vetting

[LivingnLA]

I don't "need" to keep my wife happy. I chose to do so because I love her and want her to be happy and healthy. Why does it creep you out or seem ironic? My personal life doesn't affect either of you in any way.

Edited September 1, 2017 by LivingnLA

[LookingAround]

I don't "need" to keep my wife happy. I chose to do so because I love her and want her to be happy and healthy. Why does it creep you out or seem ironic? My personal life doesn't affect either of you in any way.

Apologies but don't touch me.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

@LookingAround, why do you assume we're sneaking around on our wives? Mine knows, and she has her own hobbies. Life is bigger and more beautiful than you imagine.

[+ quoththeraven]

With apologies, a bunch of older, married men talking about needing to keep their wives happy while on the prowl for gay male escorts is creeping me out a bit.

There is such a thing as bisexuality. It's not just clients, either. Some escorts are bisexual also.

 

Does it creep you out if a client has a husband? Why should it matter if he has a wife? If the issue is being closeted or non-monogamous, how is that your call?

 

Your lack of sexual interest in women is coming across as "ooh, girl cooties"! Someone else's sex life is not contagious. Really.

[mike carey]

Someone else's sex life is not contagious. Really.

What? You mean the Australian 'Christian' Lobby™ was lying in their 'vote no' ads? Does it also mean that if we have equal marriage here, that won't also mean that boys will be forced to wear dresses to school?

[LivingnLA]

Apologies but don't touch me.

 

Did I offer to touch you? I'm a stickler about consent, so I can assure you I would not touch without permission. Though, if we ever meet in person, I'll probably offer my hand to shake, a fist bump, or even offer a hug depending on cultural context. It's just common courtesy.

 

https://www.forgetfulgentleman.com/blogs/forgetfulgentleman/6013490-handshake-or-hug-the-mysterious-world-of-men-acknowledging-men

[+ José Soplanucas]

http://ilikepinga.com/2017/08/29/clients-escorts/

http://ilikepinga.com/2017/08/31/first-contact/

 

This thread was an inspiration.

[phraughy]

I have a friend who is a PI do a search and background check before I hire any escort. I never disclose this to the escort. I want to know if you have a tendency for violence, theft or drugs. I know this freaks some out but I had a really bad experience years ago and lesson learned.