Who should take the initiative?

[Mydavid]

Sometimes, when I contact an escort, he is traveling by chance. We will exchange some information, and they will tell me when they will be back. In the last mail, I usually ask them to let me know when they come back. But so far, nobody takes the initiative to contact me even if they have come back for a while.

 

Are they too busy to remember to contact me? Should I take the initiative to contact them after the date they are supposed to come back?

 

If they are not super attractive to me, I usually lose the interest to contact them again.

[+ oldNbusted]

If you still want to meet them, you should take the initiative. One's circumstances can change and they have no way to know that, so I can see why they wouldn't reach out to someone, esp. if they have never met.

[big-n-tall]

These men see a lot of people. Unless thy are super organized, you definitely should take the initiative. The only time you might not have to is if the guy has met you before. That is still no guarantee though.

 

Be the aggressor, and contact them... as opposed to you waiting for them to contact you.

[liubit]

I agree with @oldNbusted and @big-n-tall. It is for you to take the initiative, @Mydavid.

[+ poolboy48220]

That's got my vote too. I check rent.men / etc pretty regularly, so I usually know when they're back.

[gallahadesquire]

I got contacted a year after I originally contacted someone.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

A professional escort, in my opinion, should be well organized and should take the initiative to reach out to potential clients that have asked him to do such. I have seperate email folders for each of the cities I regularly visit as well as a folder for client requests in cities I haven't visited, but may some day. I usually email at least a month ahead to let them know a trip is planned. With this said, I have had a few experiences where I had forgot to move their email to the appropriate folder, or their email has been organized with another, and I've missed it, so it never hurts to reach out to them when you see they are traveling to you. For me though, regular email is the best way to organize, messages on Rentmen get deleted after so many months and there is no way to sort them.

[Rudynate]

 

If they are not super attractive to me, I usually lose the interest to contact them again.

 

Most important part of your message. If you were to ask yourself if you really wanted a date with him, and the answer were "Fuck, yeah!" you wouldn't have any problem getting in touch with him. Who should be taking the initiative wouldn't even be an issue. But, in a case where saving face is more important than setting up a date with the guy, probably best that you lose interest.