411 Cody Dean

[former lurker]

...which is exactly what you're doing on this thread. Trolls do what they do for attention. I'm sad that you feel you have to do it this way. There would be friendlier and more rewarding ways of finding attention out here. And I mean this sincerely.

 

I thought about whether or not to respond. I decided that stuff stays on the net, and people read it quickly and may not evaluate credibility carefully without a response. So here goes. First, the word "troll" is offensive, and it's use is subjective. Second, your advice about how to find attention? Really? Do you have a degree in psychiatry? If so, do you feel free offering that sort of diagnosis/advice based on postings on a board?

 

I must have said/posted something that set you off. Not sure exactly what that was. Perhaps I said you seemed cheap. A lot of posters on here seem overly focused on whether the escorts charge them too much. My view on that is you pay what you're willing to pay, and don't spend a lot of time carping about what you're not willing to pay.

 

Finally, you used the word "sincerely". I hope you realize that to be sincere, you have to have perspective.

[former lurker]

His communication with me has been excellent. He says in his ad that he's new to this, so some adjustments are to be expected. The negative comments are about price and haggling, not meeting up. The only comments about actually meeting are complimentary.

 

There's a habit on this board of being cheap. These guys put a lot into their bodies, and they demand a price. Pay it. And stop being so cheap.

 

I regret my comments. He's a bit of a hustler. He's cute, he'll perform, but he's a hustler. He'll upsell after a quote, then back down if you remind him of the original quote. He may, as he did with me, say he hoped I forgot.

 

He's quite attractcive, and did evereything I wanted. But he's a bit pushy.

[former lurker]

former lurker doth protest too much, methinks.

I was thinking more along the lines of The Women

I was thinking more along the lines of The Women

 

You strike me as a real dick. Try, just try, and be constructive every once in a while.

[former lurker]

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Again, you are trolling. I am not sure the purpose but I hope you have a great weekend otherwise.

 

Honestly, I don't get you. We seem to like the same guys, and we get harassed by the same posters. So what's up with you

[bostonman]

It's not Festivus. Why all the airing of grievances on a thread that hasn't been active in 2 months?

[former lurker]

...which is exactly what you're doing on this thread. Trolls do what they do for attention. I'm sad that you feel you have to do it this way. There would be friendlier and more rewarding ways of finding attention out here. And I mean this sincerely.

 

Reread what you've written. Look up the definition of troll, and see how it applies to you. You project negativity.

[bostonman]

What a needlessly sour individual you are. Time to ignore...

[nsguy45]

It's not Festivus. Why all the airing of grievances on a thread that hasn't been active in 2 months?

Seems like someone had a bad experience with CD.

[adventurous old guy]

Ok, back to Cody...anybody with recent experience in actually seeing him who is willing to share that experience?

[bostonman]

Seems like someone had a bad experience with CD.

 

But he's not really attacking Cody - he's attacking me, and freecahill1965, and Reluctant Daddy. For comments made over 2 months ago. Why resurrect this all now? Hoping he can just let this go now.

[Golem]

bostonman, he did actually make a post about Cody Dean, in which he stated he was wrong about some of his earlier assumptions to correct them for the record. An excellent and helpful thing to do.

 

He then immediately made two additional posts in which he insulted other posters.

 

@former lurker , the last thread you did this in got hidden away from public view. Please stop turning threads with ACTUAL, USEFUL INFORMATION -- that should be accessible via the search function -- into bar brawls. It hides the information and is a public disservice. This needs to not be a pattern.

[bostonman]

bostonman, he did actually make a post about Cody Dean, in which he stated he was wrong about some of his earlier assumptions to correct them for the record. An excellent and helpful thing to do.

 

Yes, he did. And, as we Jews sing on Passover, "Dayeinu" - meaning, "that would have been enough."

 

But...

 

He then immediately made two additional posts in which he insulted other posters.

 

Three additional posts in which he insulted other posters. As if two wasn't enough. As if even one was necessary?

[former lurker]

Yes, he did. And, as we Jews sing on Passover, "Dayeinu" - meaning, "that would have been enough."

 

But...

 

 

 

Three additional posts in which he insulted other posters. As if two wasn't enough. As if even one was necessary?

 

So, I guess you are entilted to express your views. We should be able to disagree about experiences without defensiveness and personal attacks. You like who you like, I share my own sense of the guy. He's hot. When he's with you, he does his best. I found him to be a bit of a flake on one occasion, and then a hard sell when I was ill and couldn't meet. That's my experience. I shared it. You don't need to make choices based on that info, but it's hardly a "troll" situation to share that info.

 

Golem and bostonman, I'd just suggest growing up a bit. Just because you're a "client" rather than a provider, and you're on a website where you are anonymous, doesn't mean you are either free from question, counterpoint, or any other bit. You may not like what I have to say, but pony up. Or don't, and just leave it alone. Up to you.

[GBoi]

So, I guess you are entilted to express your views. We should be able to disagree about experiences without defensiveness and personal attacks. You like who you like, I share my own sense of the guy. He's hot. When he's with you, he does his best. I found him to be a bit of a flake on one occasion, and then a hard sell when I was ill and couldn't meet. That's my experience. I shared it. You don't need to make choices based on that info, but it's hardly a "troll" situation to share that info.

 

Golem and bostonman, I'd just suggest growing up a bit. Just because you're a "client" rather than a provider, and you're on a website where you are anonymous, doesn't mean you are either free from question, counterpoint, or any other bit. You may not like what I have to say, but pony up. Or don't, and just leave it alone. Up to you.

 

You really need to stop playing the victim card here. Hypocrisy is quite unattractive. Looking back at your history of posts, it's clear you like trolling other people's threads and once you get called out on it, you expect people will be sympathetic to you?

 

For once you added value to a thread and instantly derailed it. What's the point?

[+ JEC]

#Ignore

[Golem]

We should be able to disagree about experiences without defensiveness and personal attacks.

Yes, we should:

 

Look, I'm not going through a list of your past posts, but if I did, I'm pretty sure I'd find the sort of price bitchiness

Finally, you used the word "sincerely". I hope you realize that to be sincere, you have to have perspective.

You strike me as a real dick.

I'd just suggest growing up a bit.

 

I am just going to repeat my request. Please stop turning threads with ACTUAL, USEFUL INFORMATION -- that should be accessible via the search function -- into bar brawls.

[Guest TheOtherGuy]

Yes, we should:

 

 

 

 

 

 

I am just going to repeat my request. Please stop turning threads with ACTUAL, USEFUL INFORMATION -- that should be accessible via the search function -- into bar brawls.

THANK YOU! It's so frustrating to be searching for relevant info amongst all of this fucking petty back and forth.

[former lurker]

What a needlessly sour individual you are. Time to ignore...

 

Oh the irony. You attack me for attacking you and others, and you call me "needlyesly sour". I never said anything about you or any other poster that comes close to being so offensive. I've suggested you're immature, that your posts on certain escorts lack knowledge or perspective, but I've never trashed you as a person.

[former lurker]

A few thoughts:

 

First, some of the the accusations that I've (unfairly?) attacked other client posters are too reflexive and not at all perceptive. The main example cited by one poster is my set of responses to "fromcali" about Jay in Boston. Fromcali said in his posts that he used a burner phone, sent a fake pic, and had a State Trooper get Jay's real name, etc. I found that creepy. As I've said in other threads, these guys are in a risk-filled business, and have to try their best to protect themselves. In this case, it seemed to me Jay was spot on, and that fromcali was more of the problem than was Jay. I understand it's orthodoxy on the board that the client is always right, but in this case, I thought not so much. Notice that fromcali backed off after my post calling him out. Radio silence.

[former lurker]

A few things about Cody and my comments on posting on this thread.

 

First, I regret those postings calling other posters "cheap" or hagglers. I wrote those things before interacting over time with Cody. I had the same experience. He quoted a price. When I called him to book a time, he raised the price. When I pointed out the raised price, he reverted to the original and frankly admitted he hoped I forgot the original quote.

 

Second, I did meet up with him. He was superlative in person. Handsome, great body, very personable and provided all I asked for and more.

 

Third, I scheduled another appointment and had to cancel due to illness. He hounded me for days until I finally stopped responding.

 

Fourth, I've given enough detail about my interactions with Cody that I'm fairly sure he knows who I am, and we have no probability of seeing each other again. That should add some credibility to at least the positive comments I make about him.

 

Fifth, I'd just add that he's a wonderful companion if you get past the hustle. How much of that you're willing to navigate is up to you. In my case, I wasn't.

 

Again, I deeply regret questioning those who made similar comments. Frankly, I wasn't prepared for the hustle/scam aspect of dealing with Cody, and found the comments of other posters harsh until I lived the same experience. I am sorry I made those comments.

[+ poolboy48220]

I've got to admit I am just checking this post for the drama now. I don't even remember what Cody Dean looks like.

[nsguy45]

Has anyone contributed to his Go Fund Me page?

 

https://www.gofundme.com/cody-camp

[Scott Virginian]

Cringing at the risk of starting another "who shot john" flame war, I cautiously, oh so cautiously, ask:

 

What y'all think about the new review today on Cody Dean? (https://daddysreviews.com/cruise/2019-10-28)

 

It doesn't come with an ad or URL, just a phone number and email. Seems like the poster had a good time. I wonder if Cody's taken up a new approach in the past year?

[+ poolboy48220]

true, the original link (from 2017) just leads to the Boston rentmen page, and I didn't find Cody with a quick pre-coffee-impaired search this morning.

[gersonides]

so curious to hear more about our mysterious cody dean and if anybody can confirm he's the real thing