411 Cody Dean

[gersonides]

https://rent.men/CodyDean

 

Anybody want to comment?

[SROSFanboy]

Saw Cody earlier this month from his M4RN ad - http://www.men4rentnow.com/gay/escort/male/massage/boston_nh_ny_mevt/CodyDean/328972 - and he was outstanding - really great guy. I posted a review yesterday here on the site, so whenever that is published you will be able to see it.

[Guest]

Yum! He's why the word "stud" was invented!

[Guest RexB]

He's gonna be in NYC for a couple of days starting Monday. Anybody have anything to add to the above comments?

[bostonman]

His rates are "ask" (on Rentmen) - wondering what that translates to. ??

[+ poolboy48220]

Could mean anything, but I've always hated "Ask". I contacted a guy who just showed up on Rentmen in Detroit. Talked to him briefly about what I was looking for, and I could almost hear the adding machine ringing up. He came up with $400 for an hour, and I laughed.

[SROSFanboy]

From my own experience with Cody, he was very fair with his rates, and he's not a clock watcher. I cannot speak for him, but he's very approachable, so I'd suggest you consult him with what you're looking for in time, etc.

[GTMike]

Any other info or experiences with him?

[+ TheBigO]

CodyDean is heading to Tampa for a few days...I have reached out to him and hopefully we can set-up a meeting. He is most definitely a handsome man.

[Epigonos]

On their rentmen ads some escorts unfortunately DO NOT carefully cull the "I'm into" list. They simply leave everything listed thus guys who aren't into PNP appear to be. I wonder is that is the case here with Cody. If the list appears culled and PNP appears I immediately move on. In this case I might ask him directly.

Edited February 28, 2018 by Epigonos

[+ azdr0710]

his daddysreview page:

 

https://daddysreviews.com/search/Active/~/cody_dean_boston

[nsguy45]

https://rent.men/CodyDean

 

Anybody want to comment?

I made two disappointing choices in hiring escorts in 2017. He was one of them.

[bostonman]

I was in contact with him sometime back last summer I think. Since his rates are "ask me," I asked, and it was rather high. I politely said it was out of my price range, but then he said he could compromise. He initiated that. He agreed to go down to a rate that worked for me. But then after that he got kinda difficult - like he regretted that decision. He seemed friendly at first, but then he started seeming a bit dismissive. He said he couldn't meet that day, but that we should get in touch the next day. I said ok, and left it at that. It really seemed to me he was trying to put me off, which in turn put me off. So I never met him.

Edited February 27, 2018 by bostonman

[bigvalboy]

SROSFanboy seems to be the only fan...

[+ freecahill1965]

I was in negotiations with him once. His price was $400. I told him that was put of my range. He dropped it to $300. I passed. I do not negotiate price. As they say on the car commercial, "Give me your best deal first". lol

[azulpalido]

-1, difficult to set up time, slow to respond, definitely wouldn't hurt him to learn to be a bit more friendly on text. Eventually, he had to change times, and I wasn't available when he was free.

[+ JEC]

I also had a questionable exchange (email) with Cody which made me pause. I do wonder if it was attributable to being brand new to this line of work and “learning the ropes”. Might be worth another try.....

[former lurker]

I was in contact with him sometime back last summer I think. Since his rates are "ask me," I asked, and it was rather high. I politely said it was out of my price range, but then he said he could compromise. He initiated that. He agreed to go down to a rate that worked for me. But then after that he got kinda difficult - like he regretted that decision. He seemed friendly at first, but then he started seeming a bit dismissive. He said he couldn't meet that day, but that we should get in touch the next day. I said ok, and left it at that. It really seemed to me he was trying to put me off, which in turn put me off. So I never met him.

 

So the point is you're a cheap haggler? And he didn't dig that?

[nsguy45]

I was in negotiations with him once. His price was $400. I told him that was put of my range. He dropped it to $300. I passed. I do not negotiate price. As they say on the car commercial, "Give me your best deal first". lol

In December, he was advertising "holiday rates", so I shot him a text. He initially quoted me a price of $500 and when I responded that $500 was ridiculous, he immediately dropped his price to $350. In hindsight, I should have seen that as a red flag. My bad.

[former lurker]

His communication with me has been excellent. He says in his ad that he's new to this, so some adjustments are to be expected. The negative comments are about price and haggling, not meeting up. The only comments about actually meeting are complimentary.

 

There's a habit on this board of being cheap. These guys put a lot into their bodies, and they demand a price. Pay it. And stop being so cheap.

[bostonman]

His communication with me has been excellent. He says in his ad that he's new to this, so some adjustments are to be expected. The negative comments are about price and haggling, not meeting up. The only comments about actually meeting are complimentary.

 

There's a habit on this board of being cheap. These guys put a lot into their bodies, and they demand a price. Pay it. And stop being so cheap.

 

"Cheap" is not the point, nor the intention. The general rate in Boston right now, based on the RM ads I see, is 250/300. I think if you're going to ask for more than that, especially when you don't list the rates in your ad, so clients have to ask and only find out about your higher-than-average fee during the conversation, there's possibly going to be some "sticker shock." I tend to think that if he listed his fee upfront (which some escorts are doing in the body of their ad, so that it's visible to those who don't use the apps), he might avoid that conversation, and only get clients who would pay that price without hesitation.

 

I personally have never asked an escort to go below their listed price. But when a price isn't listed, there's a different dynamic set up. It puts both client and escort on the spot, and I don't think it winds up fair for either guy in the process. If an escort is demanding a higher price, he should list it upfront, and stop being so cagey.

[bostonman]

So the point is you're a cheap haggler? And he didn't dig that?

 

You're being ridiculous. I was not the one that asked for a lower price - he was the one that offered. Without my suggesting he do so. Period. It was totally his ball in this case. He has to decide if he's going to stand firm to his initial prices or not. Seems like he's the conflicted one here.

[bostonman]

He says in his ad that he's new to this

 

He posted his ad on RM on July 8, 2017. (That info is in the ad.) He's not "new to this" anymore.

 

I contacted him in August. At that point he may have still been new. (I don't know that any of us know if this was his first foray at escorting or not.) He's certainly not "new" at this point, so if he's still playing rate games, that cannot be an excuse any longer.

[former lurker]

He posted his ad on RM on July 8, 2017. (That info is in the ad.) He's not "new to this" anymore.

 

I contacted him in August. At that point he may have still been new. (I don't know that any of us know if this was his first foray at escorting or not.) He's certainly not "new" at this point, so if he's still playing rate games, that cannot be an excuse any longer.

 

So you say "if", meaning no real experience, yet you comment. Why?

[former lurker]

You're being ridiculous. I was not the one that asked for a lower price - he was the one that offered. Without my suggesting he do so. Period. It was totally his ball in this case. He has to decide if he's going to stand firm to his initial prices or not. Seems like he's the conflicted one here.

 

Look, I'm not going through a list of your past posts, but if I did, I'm pretty sure I'd find the sort of price bitchiness that invades this thread. Bottom line, you didn't meet him, and yet you comment based solely on you price haggling.