Indians (from India) escorting

[+ DickyF]

I do know escorts who get hired often by young Indian immigrants who are closeted in school or after they are done with studies working as doctors or in Silicon Valley.

 

I don't know why there not many South Asian men advertising as escorts. Maybe they think in a long term other professions/activities are better.

 

Ps.: They're a very successful community, I knew an Indian who unlike most of his countrymen came over here not for school but because he got a visa. He slept on the floor of a Dunkin Donuts and after saving money bought his own franchising, now his kids are in school.

 

Not even during the great recession Americans thought about doing something like...

Indeed! People who emigrate are probably more motivated and long term thinkers and sacrificers. Another very successful immigration group are Jamaicans. There are a lot of such groups.

To be clear - I am not an immigrant and not sure I would be a successful one! Soft American who has had everything handed to him.

BTW if you want to learn how Indian society abuses and brutalizes their poor read Behind the Beautiful Forevers about the residents of a Mumbai slum.

[TruthBTold]

Well like a lot of "unspeakable" acts they do exist. RM has an India domain rentmen.in with a couple 100s listings - which isn't a lot for a huge country.

Transvestism is more accepted than gayness evidently so go figure.

 

Homosexuality is mostly a taboo subject in Indian civil society and for the government. Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code makes sex with persons of the same gender punishable by law. On July 2, 2009, in Naz Foundation v. Govt. of NCT of Delhi, the Delhi High Court held that provision to be unconstitutional with respect to sex between consenting adults, but the Supreme Court of India overturned that ruling on December 11, 2013, stating that the court was instead deferring to Indian legislators to provide the sought-after clarity. On February 2, 2016, however, the Supreme Court agreed to reconsider its judgment, stating it would refer petitions to abolish Section 377 to a five-member constitutional bench, which would conduct a comprehensive hearing of the issue. Of course, even if it overturns the law, this does not in any way envision how long it will take the culture to accept the concept.

[Good Grief]

Saw the below a few years ago:

 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/nish-gera/manvendra-singh-gohil-out-proud-and-princely-in-india_b_3132955.html

[+ DickyF]

Numerous Conmonwealth countries have severe anti-homosexuality laws, including Jamaica. Ironic since the U.K. is very liberal.

[fedssocr1]

I agree that South Asian is the term I usually use - India, Pakistan, Nepal, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka, Bhutan... What I think all of those places also have in common is that homosexuality is largely a taboo subject. They are culturally quite conservative. And full of devastatingly handsome young men.

 

Not that that necessarily means a lot with respect to escorts in America.

 

I stayed at Dickman Resort (yes, that's really the name) in Sri Lanka for a few days last year. Several guy working around the hotel available for "massage". Spent an hour or so one afternoon with one of them. And my tour guide tried really hard to get me laid on our trip around the island. Ended up spending an afternoon with a guy he knew in Kandy who was a very sweet kid...I think probably bisexual if his FB postings are anything to go by, or maybe just gay for pay. College kid, probably about 20 or 21. Judging by his hole-y clothes he needed the money I gave him a lot more than I did. My guide is married with kids. I presume his wife knows he's basically gay but it's probably not something they talk about. I think living in that society would make a person crazy. But he's got friends around the island that he parties with when he's in town. So, I think the gay community such as it is, is very much underground.

[marylander1940]

Numerous Conmonwealth countries have severe anti-homosexuality laws, including Jamaica. Ironic since the U.K. is very liberal.

 

Good point, similar laws were repealed in the U.K. yet they remain in its former colonies.

 

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/content/dam/news/rights-exempt/nat-geo-staff-maps/2016/06/LGBTmap/LGBT_map_Artboard%202.jpg

[+ Gar1eth]

Numerous Conmonwealth countries have severe anti-homosexuality laws, including Jamaica. Ironic since the U.K. is very liberal.

 

The U.K. being liberal is a fairly recent phenomenon. The laws in many of these Commonwealth and former Commonwealth countries are holdovers from when Great Britain ruled them.

 

Gman

[Kenny]

I'm confused, though. The OP is looking for escorts of Indian ethnic origin. While Pakistani and Bangladeshi escorts might also fit his description, considering those countries were carved out of the territory historically identified as India, "South Asian" and "Mediterranean," which is what RichardLA's profile on Daddy's says, are not the same thing.

His ad says that because "India" (Maharashtra, to be precise) is not one of the site's options, plus he's partly Italian; so he's getting as close as possible.

[MikeBiDude]

Dev Patel has gone from adorkable to sexy

 

Hands off Dev, he's mine!!!

[+ quoththeraven]

His ad says that because "India" (Maharashtra, to be precise) is not one of the site's options, plus he's partly Italian; so he's getting as close as possible.

Thanks for the clarification. It doesn't help when the information a site permits is limited like that.

[+ quoththeraven]

As I understand it, same-sex attraction is not even acknowledged to exist in India - it is unspeakable. That might give you some clue as to why there are so few Indian escorts.

That wouldn't surprise me. That was (and may still be) the official party line in Iran and until the early 2000s, when a well-known actor came out as gay in response to a direct question and immediately lost all his acting and hosting jobs, South Koreans denied the existence of homosexuality among their population.

 

Just FYI, the actor became a successful restauranteur and has done some acting and TV hosting in the meantime, so the long-term consequences have probably rewarded his honesty, but at least one other celebrity who came out years later committed suicide because of his family's reaction.

[LADoug1]

Most indians in the US from India are usually overeducated and extremely smart. I doubt many of them need to "escort".

Many escorts do so because they want to, not just because they need to.

[Rudynate]

Most indians in the US from India are usually overeducated and extremely smart. I doubt many of them need to "escort".

 

That's true. The India population in the US is skewed to the wealthy and highly educated. The Last time I was in Canada, I noticed a different demographic from that in the US. I saw lots of South Asians working in retail, hospitality, driving taxis, etc. Down the street from where I stayed there was a great bakery staffed by a very sexy young south Asian man, I got the impression that he was the owner.

 

It was a pleasure to go in every morning for coffee and danish served by such a handsome guy.

[+ Axiom2001]

An East Indian, now a naturalized citizen of the U.S. formerly escorted. When he was out there, I saw him often; after he retired he sent me emails desiring my company, and I took him up on his invitation.

Today he escorts but does not advertise and only sees former clients. Although he earns a super-great salary in Silicon Valley, he says that he continues to escort and please gentlemen because he likes sex.

 

He's not as handsome as the gents here, but he has a big, beautiful, uncut cock, kisses and fucks divinely, fires up the nips, and carries on a great conversation;he's educated and fairly well-traveled.

 

I'll continue to see him selectively: I like a variety of men!

 

 

Most Indians in the US from India are usually overeducated and extremely smart. I doubt many of them need to "escort".

[scorpio1988may]

On 7/6/2017 at 5:52 PM, DickyF said:

Indeed! People who emigrate are probably more motivated and long term thinkers and sacrificers. Another very successful immigration group are Jamaicans. There are a lot of such groups.

To be clear - I am not an immigrant and not sure I would be a successful one! Soft American who has had everything handed to him.

BTW if you want to learn how Indian society abuses and brutalizes their poor read Behind the Beautiful Forevers about the residents of a Mumbai slum.

i'm indian living in the west - 2 main reasons for lack of indian escorts - extremely strong family links and tight-knit social circle so it would be devastating if word ever got out and bring shame to the entire family who would be shunned by everyone and second reason very few of us are hot - we're lean untill our mid 20s then suddenly we turn to flab. also homosexuality is reviled in india and people are forced into marriage or kicked out and if word gets out are frequently killed - so there's a lot of fear among the immigrants as well

btw i loved that book about the mumbai slum - the only correction is that "slum" is india's middle class - true slums are much worse

[scorpio1988may]

On 7/6/2017 at 1:34 PM, DickyF said:

Well like a lot of "unspeakable" acts they do exist. RM has an India domain rentmen.in with a couple 100s listings - which isn't a lot for a huge country.

Transvestism is more accepted than gayness evidently so go figure.

Yes you do see transvestites called "Hijra" in india but i wouldn't say they are accepted - they live on the margins of society begging and selling sex to survive. BTW the word "Hijra" means "rejects" because their families threw them out.

[CuriousByNature]

1 hour ago, scorpio1988may said:

i'm indian living in the west - 2 main reasons for lack of indian escorts - extremely strong family links and tight-knit social circle so it would be devastating if word ever got out and bring shame to the entire family who would be shunned by everyone and second reason very few of us are hot - we're lean untill our mid 20s then suddenly we turn to flab. also homosexuality is reviled in india and people are forced into marriage or kicked out and if word gets out are frequently killed - so there's a lot of fear among the immigrants as well

btw i loved that book about the mumbai slum - the only correction is that "slum" is india's middle class - true slums are much worse

I have found that there are quite a few very attractive South Asians - both male and female.  In particular, the Punjabi guys at university used to have girls trailing after them.

[bostonman]

There's this guy in Boston. I haven't met him, but he's on my list...;-)

https://rentmen.eu/thewildwizard

[shadowcatzxxx]

12 hours ago, scorpio1988may said:

i'm indian living in the west - 2 main reasons for lack of indian escorts - extremely strong family links and tight-knit social circle so it would be devastating if word ever got out and bring shame to the entire family who would be shunned by everyone and second reason very few of us are hot - we're lean untill our mid 20s then suddenly we turn to flab. also homosexuality is reviled in india and people are forced into marriage or kicked out and if word gets out are frequently killed - so there's a lot of fear among the immigrants as well

btw i loved that book about the mumbai slum - the only correction is that "slum" is india's middle class - true slums are much worse

Conservative culture/family, etc. makes (unfortunately) very good sense. I've been dating a young gentleman (not Indian or other south asian, but from a very conservative culture) and the relationship is likely to tail off eventually, because he sees no way to come out to his family and close family friends, so building a fullsome relationship is difficult. And it does seem to me - given a substantial amount of history in the original cultures of south, east, and southeast Asia - that the extreme rejection of homosexuality was powerfully reinforced - if not created - under the Raj, while the Brits were exploiting and screwing up the cultures and economies of their entire empire, from the Middle East across Asia.

My opinion on looks, however, differs from yours, scorpio. I find a GREAT MANY South Asian men to be  devastatingly handsome, whether they are here in the U.S., In india, or in South Africa, Singapore, or elsewhere. Personally, I like the lean look.

https://rentmen.eu/thewildwizard  ... is a perfect example. Drop dead gorgeous! (And looks sweet and fun also.)

[Guest]

I realize this string is many years old, but it looks as though @Tarte Gogo is still active on this forum. I'm curious as to why a special interest in Indian men. Speaking for myself, when I look at men's photos, I'm looking for traits that turn me on, rather than nationality or ethnicity. Men from India do have certain traits I tend to find attractive, such as dark hair and caramel-colored skin. I was with a Pakistani dude for 5 months in between my 13.5 year relationship  with a former Russian and my 2 year relationship with the Lyin' Paraguayan. The traits which I associated with men from India, mainly skin color, are also seen with men of a lot of other ethnicities, notably Latinos or Middle Eastern men. Latinos are very plentiful, especially in California, so most of the men I hired before I hooked up with "Chris" were Latino--not because I have a "thing" for Latinos, but rather because they usually have features, in particular the skin tone and hair color, that I find attractive. 

You're right that it's unusual to find Indian men who escort. I'm curious as to what features Indian men have which are lacking in men from other nationalities? Or am I missing something?