What Most Attracts You In An Escort's ad

[Cannon]

This is likely a subjective question. Im wondering what some common things are that lure you in to an escort's ad. Body? Face? Body parts? Smile? What an escort is wearing? The description? Sense of personality? What are the major things?

[+ HornyRetiree]

I like them younger (20s-40 if special) SLENDER, hairy:) and non-hairy okay IF that is natural -- just do not shave body hair! HAVE pubes!!! - then it is eyes/smile (they go together) and a sense of personality from ad, from communication and from here

 

All of which I found for my first experience and then got royally scammed the second time we had a session. So one can be fooled!

[MikeyGMin]

All of the above but what usually seals the deal for me is a smile or a smoldering look that highlights eyes and eyebrows. Even though I'm not a top, I am very much an ass man and have hired guys mostly because they have a beautiful ass. I want to see the curve of the ass though -- not one of those bent over and spread 'em shots!

[+ José Soplanucas]

The pictures. When they make me want to have him.

[LaffingBear]

This is likely a subjective question. Im wondering what some common things are that lure you in to an escort's ad. Body? Face? Body parts? Smile? The description? Sense of personality? What are the major things?

Many of those. Also dependent on my particular interest at that time. I dont always hire for same reasons.

 

Body - yes. Smile - definitely. Intelligent ad copy, demonstrating a genuine enjoyment of service.

 

Smile's a big one. More than anything else, if my initial interest is mild, scrolling through multiple pictures, several with a friendly smile, will heighten my interest. It tells me he's thought about it, and wants his ad to convey , "hey, I'm friendly, and I want us both to have fun."

 

I also look for themes. One picture in a harness, I interpret that the escort is flexible, has many interests, etc. Every picture in leather - I assume he's targeting a particular niche.

[bostonman]

I love an escort that can present himself as a real person. A friendly description that shows an affable personality, a sense of humor, a decent sense of self-assuredness but without being overly conceited. Someone who seems to invite you to get in touch with him, instead of making it seem like a skeevy dare. A smile is always a good sign. Pics that seem more off-the-cuff than posed - again, a guy that looks like a person, not a mannered model. I'm just not an ass man, lol, so I don't take much notice of ass pics (and I try to just ignore hole shots, which I find rather off-putting), but I certainly don't mind any manner of naked shots in general. A guy who's comfortable showing off his body (again, without too much attitude attached) is always hot.

 

But really, the big test in my view is the first response back to my inquiry. If it's all "wut u looking 4" or "wen and were you wanna meet", I'm gone. If it's a friendly response that tries to acknowledge anything I've asked about or mentioned, and the tone is enthusiastic rather than just businesslike, I'm a step closer to getting my wallet out lol.

[bostonman]

Intelligent ad copy, demonstrating a genuine enjoyment of service.

 

Yup. If I feel the escort is trying to share a sense that he loves what he does, that's a big help. And yes, intelligence adds points too.

[+ nycman]

A beautiful ass....and a willingness to get fucked.

 

Errr...I mean....a nice personality and a winning smile?

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I need to see a cute face first to entice me.

 

Then I'll read the description and check the other pictures.

[BabyBoomer]

Usually, the first picture. In your case that would be the avatar photo.

 

~Boomer ~

[Cannon]

Usually, the first picture. In your case that would be the avatar photo.

 

~Boomer ~

[Epigonos]

I like good quality (professional) photographs. I hate mirror selfies. I like it when the first photo really grabs my attention. I minimally expect a good nude torso shot. I appreciate face and cock shots but do not require either. I also expect literate, descriptive text. I want to know what the guy is and isn't into. I don't demand a long literary treatise but I'm not fond of all the short email and text shortcut expressions so common today. Yea you're right I'm old.

[bostonman]

I don't demand a long literary treatise but I'm not fond of all the short email and text shortcut expressions so common today. Yea you're right I'm old.

 

I don't think of it as an "age" thing as much as it is a matter of looking and sounding professional. Granted, there can be a connect there, but I have seen articulate younger guys express themselves in actual full sentences without txt speak, so it can be done.

[MikeyGMin]

I like good quality (professional) photographs. I hate mirror selfies

On the other hand a very wise young escort I have hired a couple times told me that I should never trust an ad without a couple good mirror shots -- or at least candid cell phone shots. In his experience the guys with nothing but professional pictures we're photoshopping the hell out of them. We were talking specifically about escorts in his hometown of Guadalajara, but I think it applies elsewhere. I like to see a mixture of both because I know the cellphone shots can be kept current more easily.

[+ Keith30309]

Smile

Personality

Depth of soul

Professionalism

Emotional intelligence.

[+ José Soplanucas]

On the other hand a very wise young escort I have hired a couple times told me that I should never trust an ad without a couple good mirror shots -- or at least candid cell phone shots. In his experience the guys with nothing but professional pictures we're photoshopping the hell out of them. We were talking specifically about escorts in his hometown of Guadalajara, but I think it applies elsewhere. I like to see a mixture of both because I know the cellphone shots can be kept current more easily.

 

Absolutely. That is why I like to see a variety of pictures. The "professional looking ones" are the ones I care the less, with the exception of cases like Timarrie Baker's ad. Professional and raw, without pretentions of photo art.

[+ oldNbusted]

I understand the question to be about the ad, not the person. For me, the most important thing is the ad look like some thought went into it. That signals the person can be thoughtful, which matters to me. That includes the pics, the ad text, and I'm on record as a big fan of the RM interviews.

 

My ad pet peeves: poorly composed pics (they don't have to be taken by a pro, just composed), bad mirror selfies, random junk in the picture, like dirty laundry and toilets (I find nice pics of a guy in bathtub alluring), repetitive pics (I'd like to see a variety of clothing, including little to none, if you say you are available for public outings, you need to show you can handle that), very short text that give no sense of personality, and what is up with the answers to the RM interview question of what 5 things can't you live without. It seems very few people understand the "you" to mean that individual person, not things that apply to everyone, so saying air, water, food, that's not a good answer.

[caliguy]

I need to see a cute face first to entice me.

 

Then I'll read the description and check the other pictures.

That and make sure they're legal.

[MartyB]

Good pics that show different looks that accentuate the face and body. Smiles are nice and like to see the legs ass and dick. If I don't see the face then I usually move on. It's important to state clearly what the escort prefers and he's open minded. Has to be in a place I can get to because I only do in calls. Reviews are important to me. Finally that first communication between us sets the tone.

[bostonman]

I hate when escorts post those double/triple composite pics (is there a trade name for those kind of shots)? I don't know what purpose they serve. Especially when the multiple shots tend to be almost identical, if not actually so.

 

Something like this, for instance:

http://images4.backpage.com/imager/u/large/296160088/2bfab2324098d52a0c79fde507afe76b.png

 

I dunno. I'm looking to meet an escort, not twins or triplets.

 

(Well, actually...that could be fun too under the right circumstances...)

[jawjateck]

Delish butt and legs fuel my desire to tear up the sheets for a couple of hours.

 

Add a winsome smile, and I begin to ponder extending the date to an overnight or weekend with a sensual, personable man.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

That and make sure they're legal.

 

Are you going to insinuate I don't care about this, or about consent every time I post something?

 

Because frankly, I can start questioning whether bondage-avatar-guys like you really care about consent. After all, it is unnatural to enjoy simulating sex slavery, which is the opposite of consent. Or inflicting pain, even if you claim that both are consenting. I don't see why we should believe you.

 

See, I can be just as dishonest as you.

Do you really want to start a war like this?

 

Or are you going to accept that we all have different preferences within the bounds of consent, and leave me alone?

[Chad Constantine]

I always just get a feeling from looking at the pictures. There is no one thing I look for like body size or body parts. I just wait for the feeling to come if it does not I move on down the list. Now once that feeling comes to me then I will read the description they wrote and look for their interests. If I see they checked off their into PNP I am turned off. If they put ask me for safe or bb I am turned off. If they put they into being worshipped I am turned off. lastly, after researching the escort if their profile is fake really turned off.

[MassageDrew]

A face picture. I can always guarantee that the escort/masseur will have a good body but I get annoyed if his ad doesn't have a face picture. I just move on. It's even worse when you pay for a membership and the private pics doesn't have a face pic either.

[+ José Soplanucas]

A face picture. I can always guarantee that the escort/masseur will have a good body but I get annoyed if his ad doesn't have a face picture. I just move on. It's even worse when you pay for a membership and the private pics doesn't have a face pic either.

 

Faces are under rated in ads and in porn. I agree 100%, it is the face what closes the deal in mi case rather than a dick or an ass.