What Most Attracts You In An Escort's ad

[MikeyGMin]

A face picture. I can always guarantee that the escort/masseur will have a good body but I get annoyed if his ad doesn't have a face picture. I just move on. It's even worse when you pay for a membership and the private pics doesn't have a face pic either.

As long as your talent pool is deep enough that you can afford to dismiss the guys who require extra discretion, then I don't blame you. It does take an additional bit of work, but you can discover some real jewels. I can think of two guys right now who do not show their face in their ad but are extremely handsome. One will send you his pic after you've expressed interest and the other will unlock his private gallery. Believe me, both are worth the extra effort.

[bigvalboy]

Body/Face/Nipples...in that order.

 

End of story.

[caliguy]

Do you really want to start a war like this?

 

Why do you feel that I'm attacking you? That's good information to know don't you think? Way too sensitive dude.

 

I will keep posting my opinions and if you consider that war then bring it on.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Why do you feel that I'm attacking you?

 

Because you didn't mention this on other people's replies to the same question. (What is important in an add?)

 

And you know very well why you quoted me, and not the OP when you made that comment.

 

I think you have just proven that you are a fundamentally dishonest person.

[caliguy]

Because you didn't mention this on other people's replies to the same question. (What is important in an add?)

 

And you know very well why you quoted me, and not the OP when you made that comment.

 

I think you have just proven that you are a fundamentally dishonest person.

The title of the post was .."what attracts you do an escorts ad". I know that you're attracted to them being as young as possible. I've actually saved some members here from getting into trouble because the guy advertising was lying about being legal. I've seen this time and time again.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Ok good, thanks @callguy.

 

I guess since I am a 45 yo man who has been punting for over 15 years in 9 different countries, has hired 120 different escorts so far, since I am being extremely careful in everything I do in my life in general, not just punting, having checked IDs several times in the past in my escort experiences (whenever i was in doubt), I could not imagine that I would need advice on how to chose my escorts.

[MikeyGMin]

who has been punting for over 15 years in 9 different countries,

Totally off topic but I'm not interested in getting in the middle of any forum spats.

 

I'm interested in the meaning of the word "punting." If it's used in the US I'm not familiar with it. I can obviously infer its general meaning based on context, but is it specific to hiring escorts/rentboys? Or does it just mean man on man sex? It's a British expression, no?

 

Provincial, poorly travelled American minds want to know.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Totally off topic but I'm not interested in getting in the middle of any forum spats.

 

I'm interested in the meaning of the word "punting." If it's used in the US I'm not familiar with it. I can obviously infer its general meaning based on context, but is it specific to hiring escorts/rentboys? Or does it just mean man on man sex? It's a British expression, no?

 

Provincial, poorly travelled American minds want to know.

 

Not sure, actually, my punter-buddies in Hong Kong where using it for any type of paid sex when I was living there. They were nearly all straight, so it might be a "guy hiring a working girl" thing, and I thought I could extend the meaning to hiring working boys. They were finding the language natural when I was telling them I was a "punter who likes boys" they never corrected me.

 

But I may very well be wrong and maybe I shouldn't use it in that sense.

[MikeyGMin]

Not sure, actually, my punter-buddies in Hong Kong where using it for any type of paid sex when I was living there. They were nearly all straight, so it might be a "guy hiring a working girl" thing, and I thought I could extend the meaning to hiring working boys. They were finding the language natural when I was telling them I was a "punter who likes boys" they never corrected me.

 

But I may very well be wrong and maybe I shouldn't use it in that sense.

I think that sounds about right. I know I've heard the term on BBC dramas. I certainly like it better than the US version -- "John."

[mike carey]

I'm interested in the meaning of the word "punting."

A punter is not specifically a client of a sex worker. In Australian English a punter is first a gambler. You take a punt on a horse race. More broadly a punter is a member of the public who might be interested in something. It's broader than someone who would make a bet but is an extension of that. So, 'The average punter wants to see ...'

[+ Tarte Gogo]

A punter is not specifically a client of a sex worker. In Australian English a punter is first a gambler. You take a punt on a horse race. More broadly a punter is a member of the public who might be interested in something. It's broader than someone who would make a bet but is an extension of that. So, 'The average punter wants to see ...'

Interesting, I only knew the horse race meaning and the John meaning, I assumed they were completely separate and a coincidence. So there is a very wide meaning linking them both.

[+ not2rowdy]

Back to the OP Question:

Actually two variations to answering the question.

1. What attracts me to Ad?

 

As part of my “hobby”, pretty much on a weekly basis, I gather advertising stats on my local market. I occasionally share them here on the forum. So I look at RM, M4RN, MF, MM4M, Sexymasseur, RentMassuer, Backpage and Craigslist.

 

What “attracts” me? Well the overall “presentation”. First and foremost is the “lead-in” photo. It doesn’t have to be a professional photo. But is does need to be well composed - and maybe strays a bit from the “norm”. You’re avatar photo would certainly be one that would catch my initial attention. It’s unusual to see coat and tie photos. Maybe a half dozen photos in the ad in wide variety of settings. I like outdoor photos in a nature setting. A photo with a smile is very helpful. A photo or two should leave little to the imagination as to your total body. But maintaining a little mystery in reserve is ok too. It helps to establish legitimacy if you rotate out photos regularly. Then next comes the description. I understand that English might not be a first language. But it’s usually pretty apparent who has taken effort into trying to put them themselves forward with intelligence and creativity. I hate the damn “hearts and cucumber” symbols you often see on BP and CL. The ad should give sufficient info to assess whether we might be compatible.

 

2. Now - what attracts me to actually hire? (The second variation to the question).

 

This one becomes a more complicated. It starts as above with that initial “capture of my attention” with interesting photos and write up. But now the “compatibility” aspect becomes increasingly important. Is the provider “my type”. Pricing rears it’s ugly head. And so does availability and scheduling. Ease of communication and, for me, comfort IRT discretion are factors. I’m older - so an “older friendly” comment in the write up is helpful.

[bostonman]

But it’s usually pretty apparent who has taken effort into trying to put them themselves forward with intelligence and creativity. I hate the damn “hearts and cucumber” symbols you often see on BP and CL.

 

I agree completely - I really hate the ads with all the crazy symbols in the headlines, etc. But ironically, I wonder if at least some of them do think they're doing that for "creativity's" sake.

[+ Tarte Gogo]

I think that sounds about right. I know I've heard the term on BBC dramas. I certainly like it better than the US version -- "John."

I just checked, the word is still in use in Hong Kong, see this escort report:

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=58397

[+ HornyRetiree]

I guess since I am a 45 yo man who has been punting for over 15 years in 9 different countries, has hired 120 different escorts so far, since I am being extremely careful in everything I do in my life in general, not just punting, having checked IDs several times in the past in my escort experiences (whenever i was in doubt), I could not imagine that I would need advice on how to chose my escorts.

 

As long as both are legal age and consenting -- no one should be criticizing another's choice & preference - It goes all ways -- there are those that enjoy men who are a similar age, those younger (legal) men who want older men and older men who enjoy younger (legal) men - Enjoy what YOU enjoy! There is no need to judge and berate others!

 

I have always enjoyed men younger than myself. Their age range says the same and I get older -- they get older IF they grown older while playing with me -- like the awesome FB I started playing with when he was 23 and I was 55 -- it went for 10 years and he moved away when he was 33 and I was 65 -- I still see him once or twice a year when he visits family in the area and I am 69 now -- so he is OLD for me but he grew old with me:)

 

For escorts I usually go for those 40-50 years younger than I am -- Just the way it is and it is for no one to judge -- you do what floats your boat and I will do what floats mine! AND @Tarte Gogo can do the same!

[OnlyTheBest]

A beautiful ass....and a willingness to get fucked.

 

Errr...I mean....a nice personality and a winning smile?

Should checkout rentmen.com/BryceJordan for a nice ass, he travels to NYC at least he used to. He's hot and a lot of fun

[+ HornyRetiree]

Interesting, I only knew the horse race meaning and the John meaning, I assumed they were completely separate and a coincidence. So there is a very wide meaning linking them both.

 

would not have understood this headline w/o this post:)

 

http://www.express.co.uk/news/royal/820814/Royal-Ascot-2017-Queen-outfit-mint-colour-Her-Majesty-bookies

[+ José Soplanucas]

THIS is an escort ad that hooks my attention.