Is escort playing me?

[Jose305]

I don't know where to post this so trying here. I've only hired masseur before and this guy was my first "real escort." Saw this escort last Saturday had a great time very cool guy got along fine. I paid his fee and gave him a tip cause I was nervous as hell he calmed me down lol. Anyways 2 days later he texted if I can post a good review on RM (definitely) and if I wanted to meet up during week. I live an hour away from him and with weekday traffic make that 2 hours. I told him I can't. Lord and behold he texts me again today Friday if I wanted to meet up this weekend. I left that tentative. Question for you guys - are these frequent requests for repeats from escorts common? I don't want to be played with since he knows I'm a newbie. What are your thoughts. Thanks!

[+ azdr0710]

I don't think requests as frequent as what you're receiving are common......he may just be looking for business and is a bit aggressive about it.....

 

if your meet was comfortable and you didn't receive any bad vibes during it, I wouldn't sweat it......just politely tell him you'd love to meet up again, but the drive plus other things you have to do and have planned make it hard to plan something definite so soon......

 

if he continues to drum up business, tell him you'll get hold of him when ready to meet again

[+ José Soplanucas]

In my experience that can of insistence is uncommon.

[BaronArtz]

Was it SimplyAdam in NYC by any chance? That guy is horrendous about it. Even a single click on his rentmen page will yield an incessant flood of solicitations and emails ...

 

https://rentmen.com/SimplyAdam

[+ HornyRetiree]

Was it SimplyAdam in NYC by any chance? That guy is horrendous about it. Even a single click on his rentmen page will yield an incessant flood of solicitations and emails ...

 

https://rentmen.com/SimplyAdam

LOL -- if it is, he will be kept busy as everyone clicks your links and checks him out !!!!

[BaronArtz]

LOL -- if it is, he will be kept busy as everyone clicks your links and checks him out !!!!

 

He sent me an 'annoyed' PM here to say he gets 700 inquiries per day and has a personal assistant respond to them. Gimme a break!

 

HAHAHAHHAHAHHA

[Jose305]

Was it SimplyAdam in NYC by any chance? That guy is horrendous about it. Even a single click on his rentmen page will yield an incessant flood of solicitations and emails ...

 

https://rentmen.com/SimplyAdam

 

Nope I'm in Miami he's in Fort Lauderdale.

[MichiganMan]

Follow the money trail.....you were "Easy money"......

[Jose305]

Follow the money trail.....you were "Easy money"......

That's exactly what I was thinking

[instudiocity]

That's exactly what I was thinking

Not sure why that is a problem IF you enjoyed him.

 

Remember also, rent is due the 1st, and late the 3rd most places.

[Jose305]

Not sure why that is a problem IF you enjoyed him.

 

Remember also, rent is due the 1st, and late the 3rd most places.

Hahaha you're right!

[Good Grief]

That's exactly what I was thinking

 

Not sure why that is a problem IF you enjoyed him.

 

Remember also, rent is due the 1st, and late the 3rd most places.

 

Hahaha you're right!

 

 

IMO, whether the OP enjoyed him (or not) the stated communications are bothersome to him.

 

Have either of you been inundated with texts, emails, voicemails, messages to meet again with a great or so-so?

 

Not always fun, it can be a pain.

[Jose305]

Actually I had great time with him was planning definitely see again but was not expecting this type of communication so fast afterwards and the tinge of desperation of wanting to meet so fast again. He's a "niche" escort for he's a bearish hairy cub type guy and probably doesn't attract a wider mainstream clients so maybe making less money - saw me who likes his type and Ching Ching $$$

[instudiocity]

IMO, whether the OP enjoyed him (or not) the stated communications are bothersome to him.

 

Have either of you been inundated with texts, emails, voicemails, messages to meet again with a great or so-so?

 

Not always fun, it can be a pain.

The answer to your question is yes.

 

And said gentleman shared a nooner with me.

 

I also suggested that if he wasn't charging he could call me anytime. Problems solved.

[MassageDrew]

It's not uncommon for your hire to contact you again to ask if you're interested in setting up another appt. I get those from time to time though not as often as yours sound. In any case, he knew it was your first time so maybe he's wanting to build a good escort-client relationship with you. Frankly, I prefer to initiate the appt. Remember those salespeople at dept stores who follow you around and ask how you're doing? Yeah that's right. That's how I feel feel about escorts who contacts me constantly.

[+ goosh69]

It's more common than not but usually more like once a week. For me. I tend to pay well and book for multiple hours. But sometimes get annoyed with repeated requests to meet again.

[nynakedtop]

He sent me an 'annoyed' PM here to say he gets 700 inquiries per day and has a personal assistant respond to them. Gimme a break!

 

HAHAHAHHAHAHHA

Did the same to me and persisted despite my requests that he stop. I had to block him from several "points of contact" -- something about the tone and manner was also quite troubling.

[+ Gar1eth]

Actually I had great time with him was planning definitely see again but was not expecting this type of communication so fast afterwards and the tinge of desperation of wanting to meet so fast again. He's a "niche" escort for he's a bearish hairy cub type guy and probably doesn't attract a wider mainstream clients so maybe making less money - saw me who likes his type and Ching Ching $$$

 

It doesn't seem to me to be the worst thing unless he keeps doing it, and you'd rather he didn't. As someone else suggested, I'd tell him you really enjoyed it, but considering the distance meeting him on the spur of the moment is usually impossible. Tell him it's something you need to plan and budget for in advance. And you're not sure when your schedule and budget will work out next.

 

Gman

[+ bashful]

Only one of my hires has been a local guy, whom I've seen 5 times. I've always been the one to initiate a meeting. He's never sent me a "lets meet" message.

[+ WilliamM]

That happened to me very early in hiring. I met a young escort in a bar but could not see him right away. I did give him my phone number, forgetting I would be away for a few days. He did call a several times and left messages. Since I liked him very much after that initial long conversation, the calls were welcome.

 

I agree that @Jose305's situation is very different.

[Mount N Do]

I genuinely don't mean to come off too harsh here, but I think this post needs context and the narrative scrutinized. Don't we typically celebrate those escorts we meet and provide the service they advertise? I was hesitant to drop in here, but I'm very familiar with the person being judged and felt compelled to bring a different angle to the concern being raised, cause the inference was that the client felt he was being hustled. The escort being discussed is 23 years old, probably a little green, and perhaps a little over zealous. He's younger than I've typically hired, but one of the nicest guys I've met escorting. Friendly, a great time and surprisingly genuine. Everything in his ad is legit. He recently relocated to South Florida from the Northeast. He holds a regular job with a large hotel chain, but I suspect he's probably not making a lot of money. I've spent a little time with him in the last month and I've seen zero evidence of a drug problem, which typically can be associated with "hustling". He's a self described "grinder", fends for himself, despite having a good support system back home from what I understand. Everything I've observed is a young man, moving out on his own and trying to make his own way. Working and saving money to enroll in nursing school. All signs of a pretty well grounded individual. So to the OP... from your first contact with this kid, you've done nothing but rave about him. First with how friendly he was while chatting with him, then to what a great experience you had after you met. You described your apprehension because of your limitations and indicated how he didn't judge you and indeed exceeded your expectations. How have you rewarded him? You've posted several times, to be fair, without mentioning him by name, about his contacting you to meet again and that he asked you to give him a positive review on RM. Both times suggesting skepticism of his intentions. The latter request is fair and as far as I know, you still haven't done it. I'm just curious as to why? Your posts are beginning to smack of nothing but forum fodder and that's my beef. If this kid was everything you were looking for, why do you feel the need to this? Lemme tell you how I've rewarded him. I've given him money to help him move. I've paid him extra for his time, bought him lunch a couple times and I'm even gonna pay his FPL bill this month. And he's asked for none of this. I'm doing it because he's everything I need in an escort, because he never looks at the clock and because I know he's struggling to make ends meet. And yes, because I can. But you know how we can really reward him, and all he's really asked for.? We can recommend him highly for his service and geez, maybe give him props for a job well done. That's right gents, if you're looking for a lovable, genuine, hot, hairy young stud? Call him. He'll show you a good time.

https://rentmen.com/italianboyph

[+ goosh69]

I genuinely don't mean to come off too harsh here, but I think this post needs context and the narrative scrutinized. Don't we typically celebrate those escorts we meet and provide the service they advertise? I was hesitant to drop in here, but I'm very familiar with the person being judged and felt compelled to bring a different angle to the concern being raised, cause the inference was that the client felt he was being hustled. The escort being discussed is 23 years old, probably a little green, and perhaps a little over zealous. He's younger than I've typically hired, but one of the nicest guys I've met escorting. Friendly, a great time and surprisingly genuine. Everything in his ad is legit. He recently relocated to South Florida from the Northeast. He holds a regular job with a large hotel chain, but I suspect he's probably not making a lot of money. I've spent a little time with him in the last month and I've seen zero evidence of a drug problem, which typically can be associated with "hustling". He's a self described "grinder", fends for himself, despite having a good support system back home from what I understand. Everything I've observed is a young man, moving out on his own and trying to make his own way. Working and saving money to enroll in nursing school. All signs of a pretty well grounded individual. So to the OP... from your first contact with this kid, you've done nothing but rave about him. First with how friendly he was while chatting with him, then to what a great experience you had after you met. You described your apprehension because of your limitations and indicated how he didn't judge you and indeed exceeded your expectations. How have you rewarded him? You've posted several times, to be fair, without mentioning him by name, about his contacting you to meet again and that he asked you to give him a positive review on RM. Both times suggesting skepticism of his intentions. The latter request is fair and as far as I know, you still haven't done it. I'm just curious as to why? Your posts are beginning to smack of nothing but forum fodder and that's my beef. If this kid was everything you were looking for, why do you feel the need to this? Lemme tell you how I've rewarded him. I've given him money to help him move. I've paid him extra for his time, bought him lunch a couple times and I'm even gonna pay his FPL bill this month. And he's asked for none of this. I'm doing it because he's everything I need in an escort, because he never looks at the clock and because I know he's struggling to make ends meet. And yes, because I can. But you know how we can really reward him, and all he's really asked for.? We can recommend him highly for his service and geez, maybe give him props for a job well done. That's right gents, if you're looking for a lovable, genuine, hot, hairy young stud? Call him. He'll show you a good time.

https://rentmen.com/italianboyph

 

Uggghhhh! Learn how to use paragraphs. No way I'm reading that word blob.

[Mount N Do]

Uggghhhh! Learn how to use paragraphs. No way I'm reading that word blob.

Cool, thanks for your input.

[Mount N Do]

That happened to me very early in hiring. I met a young escort in a bar but could not see him right away. I did give him my phone number, forgetting I would be away for a few days. He did call a several times and left messages. Since I liked him very much after that initial long conversation, the calls were welcome.

 

I agree that @Jose305's situation is very different.

I'm not sure it's different. And that's what I cant reconcile. @Jose305 has acknowledged that he had a great time and the kid has texted him twice. I fail to see the harassment.

[+ nycman]

I genuinely don't mean to come off too harsh here, but I think this post needs context and the narrative scrutinized. Don't we typically celebrate those escorts we meet and provide the service they advertise? I was hesitant to drop in here, but I'm very familiar with the person being judged and felt compelled to bring a different angle to the concern being raised, cause the inference was that the client felt he was being hustled. The escort being discussed is 23 years old, probably a little green, and perhaps a little over zealous. He's younger than I've typically hired, but one of the nicest guys I've met escorting. Friendly, a great time and surprisingly genuine. Everything in his ad is legit. He recently relocated to South Florida from the Northeast. He holds a regular job with a large hotel chain, but I suspect he's probably not making a lot of money. I've spent a little time with him in the last month and I've seen zero evidence of a drug problem, which typically can be associated with "hustling". He's a self described "grinder", fends for himself, despite having a good support system back home from what I understand. Everything I've observed is a young man, moving out on his own and trying to make his own way. Working and saving money to enroll in nursing school. All signs of a pretty well grounded individual. So to the OP... from your first contact with this kid, you've done nothing but rave about him. First with how friendly he was while chatting with him, then to what a great experience you had after you met. You described your apprehension because of your limitations and indicated how he didn't judge you and indeed exceeded your expectations. How have you rewarded him? You've posted several times, to be fair, without mentioning him by name, about his contacting you to meet again and that he asked you to give him a positive review on RM. Both times suggesting skepticism of his intentions. The latter request is fair and as far as I know, you still haven't done it. I'm just curious as to why? Your posts are beginning to smack of nothing but forum fodder and that's my beef. If this kid was everything you were looking for, why do you feel the need to this? Lemme tell you how I've rewarded him. I've given him money to help him move. I've paid him extra for his time, bought him lunch a couple times and I'm even gonna pay his FPL bill this month. And he's asked for none of this. I'm doing it because he's everything I need in an escort, because he never looks at the clock and because I know he's struggling to make ends meet. And yes, because I can. But you know how we can really reward him, and all he's really asked for.? We can recommend him highly for his service and geez, maybe give him props for a job well done. That's right gents, if you're looking for a lovable, genuine, hot, hairy young stud? Call him. He'll show you a good time.

https://rentmen.com/italianboyph

 

I think somebody hit a nerve!

 

Seriously though, I think it's really nice that you came to the kid's defense.

 

He sure looks like fun to me!