Reviewed escort offering threesome with unknown non advertising "friend"

[gwguy]

I am currently visiting Vegas, my last night here and zero hires :/ I have and have always had anxiety problems with this hobby. I finally worked myself up to contacting a escort and his first communication back to me was telling me he has another bottom friend that I can hire along with himself.

 

Is this common? Is my anxiety the problem here? Either way, this threw me off and I knew right away I wasn't up for it. But him asking this ultimately cost him a client and a potential repeat client as I visit Vegas many times every year (a lot less now that there are zero reliable escorts in this city - Ben Atwood come back!!!). To be fair, maybe that's not a big deal to him to not get clients.

 

Idk, I feel like this type of request should come from the client. Or maybe from the escort after they have built a relationship with the client.

Thoughts? Am I wrong? Am I just frustrated that Vegas sucks for hiring now? :/

[+ azdr0710]

Las Vegas has always had a mixed reputation for escorts, it seems.....lately (the last year), it looked like things were on the upswing, but it's still a very transient, surreal place.....

 

the guy you contacted may be entirely fine (we'll never know).....maybe he wanted a friend along as security....or it might be his boyfriend.....or maybe they were going to rob you.....or a buddy who needs the money.....???

 

you are definitely not wrong!!....operate at your own comfort level!....stay in control.....there are several decent guys in LV, according to recent reviews and forum chatter......you say you visit several times a year.....look for the well-reviewed ones and make 411 inquiries here at the forum.....gotta say I'm very hesitant to even contact Derek Atlas again, who I've met with five or so times with always-successful results, because I don't want to finally get a no-show from him!

[+ José Soplanucas]

If you go often to Vegas, hire Perfect Package (Ron). The best.

[+ nycman]

I agree that it's odd that an escort would offer to "bring a friend" on your first hire.

You did the right thing and listened to your gut. Congratulations. As Azdr states

above there are many "possible" answers to the question and we'll never know

which one is right.

 

Escorts should take note. When a client is contacting you for the first time....

KISS....keep it simple stupid. Just because your last five clients jumped at the

chance for a three way with your buddy...doesn't mean the next one is even

comfortable discussing it. Get to "know" him first...then open the bag of tricks!

[wklucas]

If an escort that I was calling for the first time made that kind of suggestion "out of the blue" / on his own initiative, I would tell him to go fuck himself, errrr to go fuck his bottom buddy instead of me & then hang up the phone.

[+ ArVaGuy]

If an escort that I was calling for the first time made that kind of suggestion "out of the blue" / on his own initiative, I would tell him to go fuck himself, errrr to go fuck his bottom buddy instead of me & then hang up the phone.

 

Wow! You guys are tough customers. This seems more like an up selling offer. He was just letting the client know there's an additional option with a second guy if interested. Yes, it's a bit awkward for some but the escort has likely had other clients who take up the offer. Otherwise he wouldn't have proposed it I'm sure.

[wklucas]

Wow! You guys are tough customers. This seems more like an up selling offer. He was just letting the client know there's an additional option with a second guy if interested. Yes, it's a bit awkward for some but the escort has likely had other clients who take up the offer. Otherwise he wouldn't have proposed it I'm sure.

 

Did not mean to sound that harsh. I have no idea about the exact context of the conversation between the client & the escort which would have prompted that suggestion. If it was an unexpected, out of the blue suggestion by the escort, my reaction stands.

My absolute best 3-way experience involved a wholly non-pro friend brought along by 1 of my regulars. I had expressed the interest & my regular guy made the selection.

[corymonroe]

I wouldn't tell the guy to "go fuck himself," but I would view the attempted upsell as a red flag, and I would walk away. It's one thing to mention in your ad the option to work with a partner. It's a whole other thing to push that idea on a 1st time encounter. If a customer is interested in a 3-way, I think any mention of it should come from the customer only.

[+ MostlyLurking]

I didn't see any suggestion that the escort was pushing. I am not offended if the escort asks. I've declined: these days it's tough enough to keep track of one person. But maybe next time I'll ask. If the guys had worked together frequently it could be great. (See my post on "My First 3-Some.") But I probably will decline. One gentleman is an indulgence; two is a reckless extravagance.