Regulars vs newbies

[adventurous old guy]

OK, I get a big thrill from meeting and experiencing a new man for the first time. I bet that's true for many of us, right? The excitement of anticipating the object of desire, the rush that occurs when the door opens or the first kiss or touch. The risk is that what one gets may not be what one expected or hoped for. There are thousands of comments on this board of experiences in this vein.

 

The search for thrill is what naturally drives me, and it prompts me to prowl for who is new on the smorgasbord, who haven't I tasted, LOL. But I've now found three guys who I connected with enough to rehire, and the rehire experiences have been extremely satisfying. They know what I like, I know what they like, and the magic is there right away. We catch up for a few, then va-voom we're off to the races. Another take on this is that the three guys in question all seem to genuinely love sex, so even with a dude like me well past my prime in terms of attractiveness, they are into it. I should also say that I feed them with genuine appreciation about how hot they are and how well they are pleasing me, tip well and write enthusiastic reviews, so they know to expect that kind of performance reward for a job well.

 

So, I think I'm at a tipping point -- why continue to take as many chances on newbies when there are three that I can count on to exceed expectations. Am I growing up LOL, maturing as a client/connoisseur? Wonder how others are processing the dilemma of regular vs newbie?

[+ WmClarke]

I am in the same boat. Always hire the same, great guys.

 

So this spring I have set up sessions with three new guys. Just to keep from getting in a rut. And have a tentative plan with a fourth.

 

And I'm also seeing "my 3" at various dates in the next couple of months.

[+ purplekow]

There are several men who travel to my area with great regularity and each satisfies a different need. Intimacy, imagination, insatiability, indefatigability. And despite my desire to have these men in my life and in my bed as much as possible, the lives they live and my own responsibilities make it impossible to get enough of their attentions to fully exhaust my need for more.

 

So, while I would always opt for one or the other or the other or even, in a perfect world, all three at once, I still find that I need to select on a regular basis from a different section of the man menu. This might not be the case if one of these men or two of them or even all three of them, accepted the proposal of marriage I make each time they need to move on with their life, leaving me as fading image in their rearview mirror. But so far, all those proposals have gotten me is a tighter hug, a deeper kiss and a more fervent promise to return as soon as possible. Not a bad return on investment, but until one of them or two of them or all three of them come to their senses, there will always be a new in New Jersey.

[+ José Soplanucas]

If you all fund me, I volunteer to try the newbies and recommend only the ones who deserve to become your regulars.

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[adventurous old guy]

So, while I would always opt for one or the other or the other or even, in a perfect world, all three at once...

 

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[caliguy]

Why do some guys get off on cruising the bathrooms or parks? If there's no risk then there's no excitement.

[+ purplekow]

Why do some guys get off on cruising the bathrooms or parks? If there's no risk then there's no excitement.

I like Risk! but I also like Trouble. I try to avoid Sorry!. I do not think I have a Monopoly on that.

[sexymonk]

I like the same guys! We understand each other better and things are easy between regulars! At the end all have same thing-pole or hole ! Only their attitude and behavior differentiates from others! I am not big fan of newbies!

[rvwnsd]

For me, it isn't an "either/or." If a guy whom I've not hired strikes my fancy and I'm horny and I want to try someone new I will hire him. Otherwise, I hire a regular.

[docjim]

Been doing this for more than 14 years and I definitely settled with my regular, he's not on the market ads anymore but continues to see me for the past 7 years now. It started as an hourly meet then two then multi to overnights and weekends, watch shows, dinner dates and travel together couple of times. Things are just on a different level when you feel very comfortable and know each other better than hiring a newbie. Though one in a while I still try if someone crosses my way when travelling and is really my type with great reviews but at the end of it, all of them still fall short of my expectation and experience as compared to my regular guy.

[+ purplekow]

Been doing this for more than 14 years and I definitely settled with my regular, he's not on the market ads anymore but continues to see me for the past 7 years now. It started as an hourly meet then two then multi to overnights and weekends, watch shows, dinner dates and travel together couple of times. Things are just on a different level when you feel very comfortable and know each other better than hiring a newbie. Though one in a while I still try if someone crosses my way when travelling and is really my type with great reviews but at the end of it, all of them still fall short of my expectation and experience as compared to my regular guy.

[MartyB]

I'm a client that tends to be loyal. However we cannot help but be tempted by the new. It's human. But I'll always opt for the man I'm seeing now so long as it remains hot sweaty sexy and curls my toes.

[+ Bullakaun]

There are several men who travel to my area with great regularity and each satisfies a different need. Intimacy, imagination, insatiability, indefatigability. And despite my desire to have these men in my life and in my bed as much as possible, the lives they live and my own responsibilities make it impossible to get enough of their attentions to fully exhaust my need for more.

 

So, while I would always opt for one or the other or the other or even, in a perfect world, all three at once, I still find that I need to select on a regular basis from a different section of the man menu. This might not be the case if one of these men or two of them or even all three of them, accepted the proposal of marriage I make each time they need to move on with their life, leaving me as fading image in their rearview mirror. But so far, all those proposals have gotten me is a tighter hug, a deeper kiss and a more fervent promise to return as soon as possible. Not a bad return on investment, but until one of them or two of them or all three of them come to their senses, there will always be a new in New Jersey.

 

On a separate note, I love the way you write #purplekow

[big-n-tall]

When I first started... yeah, I think there was a thrill of finding a new compatible partner to dance with. However, that faded rather quickly. I rather enjoy my rehires more than finding someone new.

 

With the guys I see frequently, that first time nervousness doesn't exist as much. (I still get a tad nervous around some of them though.) My attraction seems to grow with every visit, not fade. It has allowed me to reach a level of intimacy which I rarely experience with new guys (with the exception of maybe Myrtle Tony and Kristian Elix).

 

Occasionally, someone new pops up I would be interested in seeing. Ultimately though, if I were given the choice of a new guy or a rehire... it probably be the rehire 90% of the time.

[Tonyko]

"Waiting for a newbie to arrive is the FOREPLAY" That's what a scort I hung with once at The Townhouse back when I was young enough to glide from front room to rear room with equal believability once said to me. And it always stuck with me. He said when ever he showed up for a first-time client the guy would "pop" within 20 mins of his getting there because he'd prolly spent hours or the whole day imagining prepping himself wondering if "I" was as hot in person or what my face looked like etc etal. So by the time he got there hours of foreplay had already taken place Makes sense no?

[+ oldNbusted]

I dread meeting new people and find social situations extremely stressful. At one point in school I was concurrently in the remedial program and the gifted program, which is now generally recognized as a marker of an education system that didn't know how to deal with kids on the spectrum or even that the spectrum existed. Most people find me somewhat odd, so finding people who have the patience to deal with that is not easy and I'm grateful for the ones who have. So I'm very biased to repeating with people I get along with.