Handling Rudy?

[TaylorREIGNXXX]

What's the best way to handle this? I constantly get people that will hit me up with incomplete sentences like "Seattle?" Or "you pro". They ask questions that are answered on my profile, and don't respond to any of my own questions, completely ignoring them. They will not respond for weeks and then try to hit me up again down the road asking all the same stuff again.

 

When I point out that the convo has been dragging out for weeks if not months, they get very aggravated and then start trying to touch nerves.

 

I mean I could just block them but always it's in the back of my mind that they'd just go make a bad review, not that any have yet. Idk. Maybe my profile doesn't give enough info, or maybe this is just how the escort world goes.

[LADoug1]

Maybe this thread should be in Ask An Escort. You might get some good advice.

[Bearofdistinction]

What's the best way to handle this? I constantly get people that will hit me up with incomplete sentences like "Seattle?" Or "you pro". They ask questions that are answered on my profile, and don't respond to any of my own questions, completely ignoring them. They will not respond for weeks and then try to hit me up again down the road asking all the same stuff again.

 

When I point out that the convo has been dragging out for weeks if not months, they get very aggravated and then start trying to touch nerves.

 

I mean I could just block them but always it's in the back of my mind that they'd just go make a bad review, not that any have yet. Idk. Maybe my profile doesn't give enough info, or maybe this is just how the escort world goes.

 

I am sorry I find the unwillfully literate (i.e. I may have a vocabulary -- but why should I appear to be literate when I can portray my white suburban ass as a ghetto thug = Sup . . .) to be such a turn off that my usual response is -- NOT

[rvwnsd]

What's the best way to handle this? I constantly get people that will hit me up with incomplete sentences like "Seattle?" Or "you pro". They ask questions that are answered on my profile, and don't respond to any of my own questions, completely ignoring them. They will not respond for weeks and then try to hit me up again down the road asking all the same stuff again.

 

When I point out that the convo has been dragging out for weeks if not months, they get very aggravated and then start trying to touch nerves.

 

I mean I could just block them but always it's in the back of my mind that they'd just go make a bad review, not that any have yet. Idk. Maybe my profile doesn't give enough info, or maybe this is just how the escort world goes.

There are some people who get their kicks behaving in this manner. They treat everyone from dry cleaners to banks to doctors to escorts the same way. The only thing you can do is be the best escort you can be and refuse to entertain these people. If I was an escort and someone sent me a note that read "Seattle?" I'd either ignore them or, being the smartass that I am, reply with "The largest city in Washington State, located on the Puget Sound approximately 75 miles north of the state capitol, Olympia."

 

@Bearofdistinction, when I am greeted with "Sup" I just ignore. My sister-in-law started using that term at the age of 43. My brother and their kids tease her mercilessly about it. I mean, really, middle-class suburban mom driving a minivan saying "'sup." Like you said, white suburban ass portraying herself as a ghetto thug.

[mike carey]

"Seattle?" I'd either ignore them or, being the smartass that I am, reply with "The largest city in Washington State, located on the Puget Sound approximately 75 miles north of the state capitol, Olympia."

Yup, that's the way to go. Not quite a 'clean coffee off the keyboard' moment, but close.

 

To be perverse, middle aged to older white guys appropriating young people-speak is an almost certain way to stop them using it.

[rvwnsd]

Yup, that's the way to go. Not quite a 'clean coffee off the keyboard' moment, but close.

 

To be perverse, middle aged to older white guys appropriating young people-speak is an almost certain way to stop them using it.

Word, bro'!

[+ poolboy48220]

I'm not getting the "Rudy" reference. All I can think of is that notre dame movie with Sam from Lord of the Rings.

[BabyBoomer]

I'm not getting the "Rudy" reference. All I can think of is that notre dame movie with Sam from Lord of the Rings.

 

Sean Astin.

 

~Boomer ~

[Nvr2Thick]

Kurtis Wolfe's answer is practical and reasonable. You're culling the nonserious. Odds are that they're lazy communicators and they won't take the time to give you a bad review.

 

An alternative approach would be to produce a cut and paste-able generic response that thanks them for their inquiry, provides location, and summarizes aspects of your service and preferred method of contact. I notice that a few escorts respond to every inquiry, or even to acknowledge that I've viewed their profiles, with a generic introductory paragraph. If you get subsequent questions, just cut and paste the section of your generic response that covers the question, or resend the entire response.

[+ GregM]

I would refer the person back to my profile. That usually hushes them up. If they continue to ask questions that are clearly answered in the profile I block them. Remember your time is money. Some of us can spend a good amount of time answering questions that are clearly answered in the profiles or we can be out having fun and living. Or even better already out with an awesome client.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[TaylorREIGNXXX]

Thanks guys! Super appreciate!

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm not getting the "Rudy" reference. All I can think of is that notre dame movie with Sam from Lord of the Rings.

 

I thought he meant Giuliani.

 

Gman

[Kippy]

I would refer the person back to my profile. That usually hushes them up. If they continue to ask questions that are clearly answered in the profile I block them. Remember your time is money. Some of us can spend a good amount of time answering questions that are clearly answered in the profiles or we can be out having fun and living. Or even better already out with an awesome client.

 

Hugs,

Greg

Greg,

 

To see you back, in good health and back in the game is great news! I've been wondering about you lately and your new post is the sweetest thing I've run across in months. We're all anxious to hear about your updates and wish you many "hugs", continued healing and success in every way!

 

Kipp

[rvwnsd]

Just ignore or block them, that's what I do. If they leave a bad review, just write the website where the review was left explaining that you've never had a session with that individual.

 

That's a great point. RM asks whether the meeting took place and if the client answers "no" they do not publish the review. Even if they lie and answer "yes," as @Kurtis Wolfe said you can always dispute it. On Daddy's Reviews, escorts get to reply to negative reviews. Believe it or not, when an escort replies in an even-handed, professional manner he is usually greeted with positive commentary.

 

I'm not getting the "Rudy" reference...

 

My guess was "Rudy" = "rude person."