I'm super new to this world

[30somethingnewbie]

i apologize in advance if I'm posting this in the wrong place. I've always been so curious to hire an escort but I'm too nervous and downright scared. However, the urge to hire continues to grow. What are the ins and outs to hire someone successfully and to have a blast? What are red flags, what are the Do's and dont's on the client and on the escort sides? Ps: any recommendations for someone a first timer should hire in vegas? Thanks everyone!!!

[TruHart1]

Welcome to the forums, @30somethingnewbie. It is very important that you vet any escort you are interested in by checking for reviews online and inquiring about any specific experiences any members here may have had with a particular guy. When requesting recommendations in Vegas as you did, it would also help us help you if you describe the type of guy, physically, that turns you on.

 

With no knowledge of your "type" let me recommend Peter Hung (@peterhung85) who knows exactly how to make a first time hirer feel special! I have had wonderful experiences with him, myself! Here are his 108(!) positive reviews on Daddy's Review page: http://www.daddysreviews.com/review/peter_hung_lv

His RentMen ad with contact info here: https://rentmen.com/peterhung

 

If Peter is not what you are looking for, let us know what kind of man you would be interested in (physical description, etc.) and hopefully some members here will be glad to make recommendations! Good luck, and whatever you decide, have fun! There are some really fine escorts out there who can rock your world!!!

 

TruHart1

[+ Gar1eth]

i apologize in advance if I'm posting this in the wrong place. I've always been so curious to hire an escort but I'm too nervous and downright scared. However, the urge to hire continues to grow. What are the ins and outs to hire someone successfully and to have a blast? What are red flags, what are the Do's and dont's on the client and on the escort sides? Ps: any recommendations for someone a first timer should hire in vegas? Thanks everyone!!!

Welcome!!! We've all been in your shoes at one time or the other. I was, please pardon the expression, scared stiff the first time I hired. I was afraid it might be a sting operation. I remember circling the hotel parking lot looking for police cars. It wasn't. He was an escort who had, at the time, a reliable web presence. So I shouldn't have been so worried.

 

For a 'newbie' I'd say you need to pick someone with overwhelmingly good reviews. And in your pre-meeting conversations whether by voice, email, or text, you need to let them know this is your 1st experience hiring.

 

For me I was 41 and a total virgin. Aside from a few quite chaste kisses on the lips with the few girls I had had dates with in my teens to early adulthood (and there were probably less than 20 as I knew I wasn't attracted to girls but was hoping it would develop), I had no experience at all. I hadn't even Fr. Kissed anyone. I had never been with a guy at all. I hadn't even been part of a circle jerk when younger. My 1st escort not only introduced me to sex, but he also taught me how to kiss. ( And while I hope this isn't TMI, I found out that if you blow in my ear or nuzzle my neck, I'll follow you anywhere.) So along with letting the escort know that it is your first hiring experience, you definitely need to let them know if you are inexperienced as regards your sexual experiences with men.

 

As for recommending escorts, there are probably well-known escorts whom many of us could suggest for a newbie. But 1st we'd have to know what type of guy are you looking for-ie average body, athletic, or muscular; top/bottom/versatile; kisser or non-kisser; and etc.

 

Vegas can be a tough place to hire. @TruHart1 is definitely correct about Peter Hung having a stellar reputation. (Note -I never managed to meet him. But he was always quite friendly by email).

 

Gman

[30somethingnewbie]

Thanks you guys for your help, openness and honesty. I don't have a set type. I'm vers but I love beautiful in shape guys, preferably taller than me but it's not a deal breaker (I'm 6ft), I love a big ass, a pretty dick to suck. I love jocks, daddies, fit bears, otters, white, Latin, Asian, and everything in between...it depends on my mood.

[TruHart1]

Thanks you guys for your help, openness and honesty. I don't have a set type. I'm vers but I love beautiful in shape guys, preferably taller than me but it's not a deal breaker (I'm 6ft), I love a big ass, a pretty dick to suck. I love jocks, daddies, fit bears, otters, white, Latin, Asian, and everything in between...it depends on my mood.

That's excellent, @30somethingnewbie. You are a man after my own multiple-men tastes, although height is not a factor with me, since I'm only 5'7" LOL!

 

TruHart1

[+ bigjoey]

Welcome. If you let us know where you are located, we can all recommend some "first time" escorts who are wonderful in this situation. Where are you?

[+ Gar1eth]

Peter's ad currently says he is a Top. I thought in the past he had indicated he was more versatile

Welcome. If you let us know where you are located, we can all recommend some "first time" escorts who are wonderful in this situation. Where are you?

 

He's in Vegas. I almost missed it too.

 

Gmam

[+ nycman]

Vegas is a minefield as far as escorts go.

 

I'd suggest a field trip to NYC for your first hire.

 

The are more options and the men have more reliable reviews.

 

Wherever you decide to hire, start a thread with that cities

name and "411" in the headline and post a few links to guys you're

interested in hiring. Usually, that will yield the best results for info here.

 

Good luck, stay calm, have fun....and remember...even if

your first hire doesn't go great....you get to try again!

[30somethingnewbie]

About 6 years ago, i went to NY and I was going to hire Tommy Delucca but my nervousness got the best of me, sadly. I cancelled a day or so before we were to meet. He was really warm and understanding. I'm dying to go back to NY and if I do, I'm going to try again.

[+ Gar1eth]

About 6 years ago, i went to NY and I was going to hire Tommy Delucca but my nervousness got the best of me, sadly. I cancelled a day or so before we were to meet. He was really warm and understanding. I'm dying to go back to NY and if I do, I'm going to try again.

 

You're much closer to LA or San Francisco. There are

many noteworthy escorts there.

 

In Vegas I see Derek Atlas is advertising again. When he is on his game, he's reportedly great. But he's been known to cancel without any warning. When I looked at Rentmen briefly for Vegas, Peter had the most reliable reputation of all the guys I saw advertising.

 

Gman

[30somethingnewbie]

This all started because I was interested in hiring an escort Dalton Prescott but he's since disappeared it seems. Because I'm so new, I wonder about things with the transaction part: when to give the money, when not to, how to know if it's a set-up, stuff like that. I'm so glad I stumbled on this forum. It's been an eye opener and has helped.

[rvwnsd]

This all started because I was interested in hiring an escort Dalton Prescott but he's since disappeared it seems. Because I'm so new, I wonder about things with the transaction part: when to give the money, when not to, how to know if it's a set-up, stuff like that. I'm so glad I stumbled on this forum. It's been an eye opener and has helped.

Welcome to the Forums, @30somethingnewbie. I agree with @Gar1eth's observation about a trip to LA or SF or Palm Springs, even, given the propensity for bad eggs to visit Vegas. Here are a few suggestions for you:

 

1. Think carefully about what you want from your appointment. Are you looking for a tender experience such as that you would have with a boyfriend or porno-style sex you would have with an f-buddy? Or something else? You don't have to answer this question here, but think and be clear about it before you contact someone.
   
2. Once you are clear on what you are looking for, check out ads and determine who seems to be able to deliver the experience you want and you find physically attractive.
   
3. Ask questions. You can always post a "411" thread and ask Forum members to PM you with information about the guy or guys who interest you. "PM" stands for "private message," a holdover from a previous incarnation of the Forum. The current Forum software calls it "starting a conversation," but SAC just doesn't have the same ring to it.
   
4. Check out reviews, but understand that reviews are one person's impression of how a meeting went. The guy I think is all that with a bunch of raspberries and freshly whipped cream on top could be a dud in your book. Likewise, someone else's dud could be your dreamboat.
   
5. Understand that reviews are on person's impression of how a meeting went. This is important enough to mention twice.
   
6. When you finally select the guy you want to hire, let him know he will be your first man-on-man experience. Also, don't be afraid to let him know what you are looking for. Escorts, like the rest of us, are not mind-readers. If you are not comfortable using explicit language, you can still express yourself without sounding like you are describing a porn scene.
   
7. RELAX AND ENJOY!
   

Should you visit LA, I can recommend a couple of guys. Nate in Long Beach is very, very sexy and like to play with first-timers, @Rod Hagen in West Hollywood is also very sweet and sexy as hell. In Palm Springs is Dane Scott, whom I have never hired but was super-sweet in messages and comes highly recommended by other Forum members. He and I never met because my schedule did not allow me to make a visit to Palm Springs.

[30somethingnewbie]

Thanks so much!!!

[+ Funguy]

Welcome to the Forums, @30somethingnewbie. I agree with @Gar1eth's observation about a trip to LA or SF or Palm Springs, even, given the propensity for bad eggs to visit Vegas. Here are a few suggestions for you:

 

1. Think carefully about what you want from your appointment.
   

Should you visit LA, I can recommend a couple of guys. Nate in Long Beach is very, very sexy and like to play with first-timers, @Rod Hagen in West Hollywood is also very sweet and sexy as hell. In Palm Springs is Dane Scott, whom I have never hired but was super-sweet in messages and comes highly recommended by other Forum members. He and I never met because my schedule did not allow me to make a visit to Palm Springs.

 

I am in LA and I concur with all 3 choices. I have seen all 3 and they are all wonderful, and would be for a newbie.

 

BUT, I think it's very important to let any of these guys know that you are a newbie, if you are looking for a particular experience, and then let him take over.

Just enjoy yourself.

[Jose305]

Damn I haven't hired an escort yet and this is awesome advise! I live in Miami and I guess like vegas it's also a minefield of escorts

[+ Keith30309]

Damn I haven't hired an escort yet and this is awesome advise! I live in Miami and I guess like vegas it's also a minefield of escorts

What type of guy are you looking for?

[Jose305]

What type of guy are you looking for?

It's easier if I write what I don't like lol - definitely not into twinks, skinny guys, blond guys and ultra smooth guys. What I definitely like is facial hair ++++ husky guys, built guys, bear guys, cub men, muscular men, dark feature, African American men, Latino men (I speak Spanish fluently)

There you go

[+ Gar1eth]

It's easier if I write what I don't like lol - definitely not into twinks, skinny guys, blond guys and ultra smooth guys. What I definitely like is facial hair ++++ husky guys, built guys, bear guys, cub men, muscular men, dark feature, African American men, Latino men (I speak Spanish fluently)

There you go

 

And position-wise? Do you like to kiss? There is more than the physical.

 

Gman

[Jose305]

And position-wise? Do you like to kiss? There is more than the physical.

 

Gman

I'm more bottom, kissing a HUGE plus for me as well as chemistry I'm all about chemistry. I can't fake I like you and I hope you the same.

[+ Keith30309]

It's easier if I write what I don't like lol - definitely not into twinks, skinny guys, blond guys and ultra smooth guys. What I definitely like is facial hair ++++ husky guys, built guys, bear guys, cub men, muscular men, dark feature, African American men, Latino men (I speak Spanish fluently)

There you go

Weeeeel then... you're in luck. Our very own @Maarrkk recently joined the Forum and I can affirm that he meets your requirements.

[Jose305]

Weeeeel then... you're in luck. Our very own @Maarrkk recently joined the Forum and I can affirm that he meets your requirements.

Hopefully he likes bear guys like me

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm more bottom, kissing a HUGE plus for me as well as chemistry I'm all about chemistry. I can't fake I like you and I hope you the same.

 

It's sad. I didn't really recognize any of the escorts but 2 or 3. I used to at least recognize escorts even if I hadn't hired them. But it has been years since I have looked at Miami ads on a regular basis. I always wonder that with so many tops who is bottoming in Latin America.

 

I did recognize one escort who has been escorting for years. When he first started, he wasn't bald (although he was receding). As far as I know he's always gotten stellar reviews- Matt Stevens- https://rent.men/MattStevens

 

You should be able to YouTube him. He's done some porn. He does or used to do interviews.

 

I hope this helps.

 

Gman

[Jose305]

It's sad. I didn't really recognize any of the escorts but 2 or 3. I used to at least recognize escorts even if I hadn't hired them. But it has been years since I have looked at Miami ads on a regular basis. I always wonder that with so many tops who is bottoming in Latin America.

 

I did recognize one escort who has been escorting for years. When he first started, he wasn't bald (although he was receding). As far as I know he's always gotten stellar reviews- Matt Stevens- https://rent.men/MattStevens

 

You should be able to YouTube him. He's done some porn. He does or used to do interviews.

 

I hope this helps.

 

Gman

 

In Miami, actually, there are more bottoms than tops by a huge margin...I guess the few tops here figured out it can be lucrative so got into escorting

[+ Funguy]

By all means give Maarrkk a shout!

[+ Gar1eth]

It's sad. I didn't really recognize any of the escorts but 2 or 3. I used to at least recognize escorts even if I hadn't hired them. But it has been years since I have looked at Miami ads on a regular basis. I always wonder that with so many tops who is bottoming in Latin America.

 

I did recognize one escort who has been escorting for years. When he first started, he wasn't bald (although he was receding). As far as I know he's always gotten stellar reviews- Matt Stevens- https://rent.men/MattStevens

 

You should be able to YouTube him. He's done some porn. He does or used to do interviews.

 

I hope this helps.

 

Gman

In Miami, actually, there are more bottoms than tops by a huge margin...I guess the few tops here figured out it can be lucrative so got into escorting

 

You know I've heard that said about two large cities I've lived in-Dallas and Seattle. And going by the number of top escorts in NYC, I'll bet they say that there too. So if it's true, why are a large number of the guys I'm attracted to on the hook-up apps only tops? I'm wondering if it's a total myth, maybe bottoms hire more often, or maybe supposedly straight guys when they hire like to bottom as they top in their 'normal' life?

 

Gman