"The "best" guys are scooped up & "kept" by the wealthy" - true? false?

marylander1940 · April 12, 2017

Well that's a case of the adage "if it's too good to be true, it probably is." how is that $30k per month delivered? Who is paying the taxes handling the accounting on that? Or are you sitting on wads of cash that are kept in a safe on the premises that your sugar daddy can change the combo to at any time? Or does he just give you a credit card to run around with that he can likewise cut off?.

When it comes to a sugar daddy-kept men relationship you should stop thinking about a client hiring an escort 1 hour or overnight deal...

Maybe the kept guy receives a house, a deposit in his account in the Cayman Islands, jewelry or a Porsche per year. Becoming the vice-president of a company own by his lover or simply his personal assistant with a huge salary is also a good way to keep the money he earns in his 401k.

Do yinz remember this guy? I keep wondering how he became a top reporter in the White House?

http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/img/eb98/JJ/5852l.jpg

One more thing: John Ensign's parents gave his mistress 96,000 as a gift in installs of 12k.

http://www.politico.com/story/2009/07/ensigns-parents-paid-mistress-96k-024748

The typical 21-year-old usually isn't financially savvy enough to do this the "right" way. Hell just read Tim Adonis' weekly emails about all the travails of his dancers. They're not typically noted for their smart decision-making skills.

I love this love-hate & desire-underestimation relationship towards the guys we hire.

+ *bigjoey* · April 12, 2017

Best advice ever for our young "kept boy"

marylander1940 · April 12, 2017

the fact that he's been ridden more than a schwinn isn't appealing

perhaps but I happen to enjoy the idea that the guys i hire have the good sense to protest themselves

it's one thing to sleep around but another to invite a life long problem

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/armond-rizzo-pocket-gay.104243/page-2

is this a reason why you @jimboivyo and others hire guys who don't hookup/get hired as much as others?

marylander1940 · April 12, 2017

Best advice ever for our young "kept boy"

Diamonds could be stolen... I'd rather getting paid a huge salary as a personal assistant.

+ *sniper* · April 12, 2017

When it comes to a sugar daddy-kept men relationship you should stop thinking about a client hiring an escort 1 hour or overnight deal...

Maybe the kept guy receives a house, a deposit in his account in the Cayman Islands, jewelry or a Porsche per year. Becoming the vice-president of a company own by his lover or simply his personal assistant with a huge salary is also a good way to keep the money he earns in his 401k.

Do yinz remember this guy? I keep wondering how he became a top reporter in the White House?

http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/img/eb98/JJ/5852l.jpg

One more thing: John Ensign's parents gave his mistress 96,000 as a gift in installs of 12k.

http://www.politico.com/story/2009/07/ensigns-parents-paid-mistress-96k-024748

I love this love-hate & desire-underestimation relationship towards the guys we hire.

I don't hate anyone. I'm just saying there are risks with the arrangement and it's really not that simple. And my comment about guys in their early 20s is just based on empirical evidence. If someone can get such an arrangement and it works out fine. But the risks are real. I don't think most people have parents like John Ensign's. And that ultimately blew up, so it's not a great example of it working out, nor is Jeff Gannon.

Rudynate · April 14, 2017

There's a couple who have been friends of mine for thirty years, and a couple for roughly the same time. (When we met, I was amazed at their "long-term commitment" - which had reached the amazing length of three months.) They decided to marry on the advice of their accountant. Much to their surprise, however, they found their relationship - already profound - deepened even more. I think I may have seen that in their interaction. (Though other things happened at the same time which might have caused the change. Or of course I may simply have imagined it.)

FWIW

I agree. My partner and I have been together for 25 years. We married 18 mos. ago. On the surface, nothing has changed, but the intimacy and acceptance of each other as exactly who we are has become profound. Pretty amazing.

Rudynate · April 14, 2017

I understand Benjamin's point also. However, anyone can still say "No" and just
leave. A mansion is not a prison cell. Does the "kept" lifestyle actually cause really dreadful levels of dependency and

But think what that entails- a massive disruption of his life at the outset of the relationship followed by another massive disruption when the relationship ends. I wouldn't blame anyone for wanting to avoid that.

+ *newguy* · April 15, 2017

But think what that entails- a massive disruption of his life at the outset of the relationship followed by another massive disruption when the relationship ends. I wouldn't blame anyone for wanting to avoid that.

Good point, and understood. Do you think most "kept" male sex workers don't prepare for the disruption with discrete private savings? It would seem to be logical...

NG

+ *newguy* · April 15, 2017

But think what that entails- a massive disruption of his life at the outset of the relationship followed by another massive disruption when the relationship ends. I wouldn't blame anyone for wanting to avoid that.

Good point, and understood. Do you think most "kept" male sex workers don't prepare for the disruption with discrete private savings? It would seem to be logical...

NG

+ *newguy* · April 15, 2017

I agree. My partner and I have been together for 25 years. We married 18 mos. ago. On the surface, nothing has changed, but the intimacy and acceptance of each other as exactly who we are has become profound. Pretty amazing.

Did your relationship involve a wealthier partner with a younger dependent?

This is another amazing story! - NG

+ *newguy* · April 15, 2017

I agree. My partner and I have been together for 25 years. We married 18 mos. ago. On the surface, nothing has changed, but the intimacy and acceptance of each other as exactly who we are has become profound. Pretty amazing.

Did your relationship involve a wealthier partner with a younger dependent?

This is another amazing story! - NG

jawjateck · April 15, 2017

That's interesting. What were the reasons for them saying that?

They lost control of their life and future. It was all very stalkerish. They realized that they had voluntarily trafficked themselves to become servants of men who didn't give a damn about them or their well-being. In both cases, it was difficult to break-away and start living again. To their credit, they succeeded and moved on.

jawjateck · April 15, 2017

That's interesting. What were the reasons for them saying that?

They lost control of their life and future. It was all very stalkerish. They realized that they had voluntarily trafficked themselves to become servants of men who didn't give a damn about them or their well-being. In both cases, it was difficult to break-away and start living again. To their credit, they succeeded and moved on.

Michael Wayne · April 15, 2017

It happened to me back in 1999. I had retired for the first time and was moving out of the business. I retired because a very wealthy client wanted this type of arrangement and when I said no he then threatened me , stalked me and harassed me.

I had to drop out and basicly go into hiding for a while. He said , "If I cant have you exclusively then no one will have you.''

So....after he cooled down and , sadly, got advanced cancer, I resumed my career. I did better than ever and began to do national travel and national advertising along with some touring. The ''offers'' were numerous but I didn't like any of them beyond 24 hours... in other words...for a long term exclusive.

There was one though who captivated me. He was nice, handsome and rich!!! He became my full time sugar daddy and I was his kept boy for years. That was my second retirement. We had a GREAT run . I knew his family and was a part of his business. This must be said though: despite all his attributes I was NOT in love with him...ever...and it was a biz deal. He was never ''my type'' and those of you that know me know what my type is!!! lol

Sadly in these type relationships they almost NEVER end well. In 2,007 he went flat broke after he left his wife and 5 kids for me and came out. I stood by him and we built a gardening company together. In the process of building the biz until it turned a profit I had to unretire. My ''Daddy''said ok and actually joined me on lots of calls and we made it fun.....for a while!

Eventually he grew jealous and possessive. Even though my income was keeping a roof over our heads and paying the bills he began to actively try to destroy my career. He could not handle it. My regular clients know all the details and specifics which I will not post in public. It was nasty!

In the middle of this he died of a massive heart attack in 2012 at only 58. What did I learn from it all? Well.......NEVER GIVE UP YOUR INDEPENDENCE AND NEVER GO EXCLUSIVE unless it is with a husband who puts a ring on my finger!!!!!

My thoughts were always that male adult entertainers like me had an expiration date as far as work was concerned but the evidence shows now that DADDYS like me are IN DEMAND! I love it..................@ www.rentmen.com/magicmikeydc

Michael Wayne · April 15, 2017