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I had been seeing a highly reviewed, european escort and former porn actor every time he came to the states over the course of 3 years.

 

We really connected, and eventually kept in weekly contact, and after his last US visit we would go out to eat, 'hang-out', and do normal things outside of the home. Shockingly he didn't charge me to hang out, or for the extra time we were spending together. It was bliss.

 

I knew that another US 'client' of his was flying him around the globe to go on vacations, and to his US home a lot, and he was really open about his other clients with me. He had some really wealthy ones.

 

I was in a long-term, monogamous, relationship at the time, and he was trying to date me, trying to get me to fly him out to my home, saying that the other 'client' was flying him into the states every month for a week or so, and sort of insisted I fly him into my state so that we could be have our time together. This was really unrealistic at the time, and the timing was impossible.

 

Long story short, after I cooled it off due to my circumstances, he ended up marrying that other 'client' of his in the states. I was actually heartbroken, but that's life. Through some online sleuthing I found out that the former escort and porn actor, is now vice president of the client's real estate investment firm. Not bad for someone with no real estate experience, and who used to be a gay porn star and escort!

 

Anyone else out there with a similar experience, or whose actually gone all the way and married your favorite escort?

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I've actually had this happen. Although It wasnt a client, I dated a guy who owned a company at 19 years old(long story, lets just say he Inherited ALOT of money). I was escorting at the time I was going on dates BUT when I fell In love(The heart wants what it wants...I TRIED not to!) I am not capable of cheating. Its just not for me. So I stopped escorting.

 

I told him I lost my job as a "server" and started legit job hunting, without hesitation about 3 weeks later he makes me the General Manager of his company. GREAT pay. But he was also a flirt(He was Bisexual and liked girls and guys) and we fought...alot. I think working with a spouse can be Poison to a relationship, personally. I'd go into work pissed from our fight the previous night and all the employees could sense the tension. We both were closeted so it was awkward. I'm not sure where I intended to go with this post but Life can be funny. We broke up. I left the job, Back to escorting(obviously).

 

 

If it doesnt work out between them and its meant to be between you two, It will happen. Just keep your options open.

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1. It happens. Sex workers needs and finds love too.

2. Not to be too crass, but i hope the former client now husband listened to Kanye when he say "WE WANT PRENUP". Love is good, protecting your assets is essential.

 

I have a sneaking suspicion that there may not have been a prenup involved, which was probably part of their '$$agreement$$' . He also wasn't a US citizen beforehand either, so now I guess he has a green card too. I know that the post-Rentboy.com fiasco had really jolted him. He had done really well for himself on 'RB', and everything had changed for him after that.

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" I found out that the former escort and porn actor, is now vice president of the client's real estate investment firm. Not bad for someone with no real estate experience, and who used to be a gay porn star and escort!"

 

1) everyone is VP these days

2) nepotism does not equal accomplishment.

 

However, it's a nice love story. I hope.

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I have a sneaking suspicion that there may not have been a prenup involved, which was probably part of their '$$agreement$$' . He also wasn't a US citizen beforehand either, so now I guess he has a green card too. I know that the post-Rentboy.com fiasco had really jolted him. He had done really well for himself on 'RB', and everything had changed for him after that.

Well i wish the guy a happy marriage, and i thought of another thing to: making your husband VP means he can draw a salary from company money, not personal money.

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I had been seeing a highly reviewed, european escort and former porn actor every time he came to the states over the course of 3 years.

 

We really connected, and eventually kept in weekly contact, and after his last US visit we would go out to eat, 'hang-out', and do normal things outside of the home. Shockingly he didn't charge me to hang out, or for the extra time we were spending together. It was bliss.

 

I knew that another US 'client' of his was flying him around the globe to go on vacations, and to his US home a lot, and he was really open about his other clients with me. He had some really wealthy ones.

 

I was in a long-term, monogamous, relationship at the time, and he was trying to date me, trying to get me to fly him out to my home, saying that the other 'client' was flying him into the states every month for a week or so, and sort of insisted I fly him into my state so that we could be have our time together. This was really unrealistic at the time, and the timing was impossible.

 

Long story short, after I cooled it off due to my circumstances, he ended up marrying that other 'client' of his in the states. I was actually heartbroken, but that's life. Through some online sleuthing I found out that the former escort and porn actor, is now vice president of the client's real estate investment firm. Not bad for someone with no real estate experience, and who used to be a gay porn star and escort!

 

Anyone else out there with a similar experience, or whose actually gone all the way and married your favorite escort?

Green card.

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" I found out that the former escort and porn actor, is now vice president of the client's real estate investment firm. Not bad for someone with no real estate experience, and who used to be a gay porn star and escort!"

 

1) everyone is VP these days

2) nepotism does not equal accomplishment.

 

However, it's a nice love story. I hope.

 

and I hope it lasts and he (the former escort) saves the money.

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It never happened to me!!!! :(

 

Actually, I don't think I want to marry anyone. However, there are two working guys, one active and one not that I would date in a nanosecond. The non-active retired one has said things that implied he would, but I'm not sure if he's actually ready for it. Oh well... if I end up marrying him down the road you will all know. :D

 

Maybe the guy really is in love with the other client or maybe it's a case of wanting a green card. Or just maybe it's a green card situation that turns into true love. Anyway, I say be happy for him and move on. If he is meant to be back in your life... it will happen.

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I know a young boy who got married an old man who brought him from another country to the USA.

But after he got his green card, he began to cheat on his husband whom he actually lives on because he has never worked in the states.

The poor old man doesn't want to divorce and has to be tolerant.

 

Before this marriage, the boy tried to marry several other old men too, and finally did the trick with his current husband.

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I know a young boy who got married an old man who brought him from another country to the USA.

But after he got his green card, he began to cheat on his husband whom he actually lives on because he has never worked in the states.

The poor old man doesn't want to divorce and has to be tolerant.

 

Before this marriage, the boy tried to marry several other old men too, and finally did the trick with his current husband.

I'm truly shocked but think of all the good gossip it gives to his family and friends. Priceless.

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Buying vs. renting...How much do you think is a fair 'salary' for this type of 'long term' arrangement is? If the escort charges $5000 for the week, would you say $150-200K annual salary for full-time, live-in escort would be the going rate for this? Or maybe less if theres a green card involved, Porsche, and all expenses paid, etc.?

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