Using Toys with an Escort

[cruiserdude1234]

I have always had a fantasy about having an escort use a dildo on me. Would that me something that would be ok to try and play out with an escort or would they find it rude.

[big-n-tall]

I would say it all depends on the escort. Asking is not rude, so ask away.

 

Some working guys are very much into additional play, including toys.

[cruiserdude1234]

So your saying I should ask before we meet. I guess I thought it would be fun if we were hot in the session and I pulled a dildo out of a drawer.

[Bearofdistinction]

So your saying I should ask before we meet. I guess I thought it would be fun if we were hot in the session and I pulled a dildo out of a drawer.

 

Toys are the most common of requests -- don't worry as long as you are the one receiving -- I you want to use the toys on the gentleman you are with -- Then YES -- ask in advance

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

So your saying I should ask before we meet. I guess I thought it would be fun if we were hot in the session and I pulled a dildo out of a drawer.

 

You should always ask first. Imagine if pulling a toy out and trying to use it was what ended up killing the mood.

 

Other have said it here many times, but communication before and during a meet is the single most important thing you can do.

[Bearofdistinction]

You should always ask first. Imagine if pulling a toy out and trying to use it was what ended up killing the mood.

 

Other have said it here many times, but communication before and during a meet is the single most important thing you can do.

 

 

Really Benny? Someone bringing out a non-pre-authorized dildo would be of concern or bother to you? As long as you were not the recipient what would be the cause of your consternation?

[+ Eric Hassan]

I have always had a fantasy about having an escort use a dildo on me. Would that me something that would be ok to try and play out with an escort or would they find it rude.

 

It's unlikely to be a big deal, but it can't hurt to mention it ahead of time - if for nothing else than to set expectations and make sure YOU know it's going to be ok.

 

In this case, it's BYOD(ildo). I had one stolen out of my trunk that is now out of stock. If anyone has seen a battery-operated Matt Ramsey, let me know.

 

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[+ glennnn]

@Eric Hassan ,

You are an endless font of information!

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Really Benny? Someone bringing out a non-pre-authorized dildo would be of concern or bother to you? As long as you were not the recipient what would be the cause of your consternation?

 

Again, his recommendation is to talk through it. In my experience, I have had an escort bring out a cock ring for me (not a problem), a butt plug - small (not a problem) and nipple clamps (complete mood killer for me.).

 

While I don't think bringing out a dildo would bother Benjamin, a newer escort may not have experience using a dildo on someone else and may be concerned about doing it safely and not comfortable in that scenario.

[wolfgangdc]

If that is your dream experience then certainly mention that it's an important aspect before you meet

[Keenan]

It should be fine, just make sure you bring your own toys. Don't expect the escort to bring any unless they will be used on the escort.

 

Keenan

[Guy Fawkes]

If the escort shows up with a duffle bag; you can be sure that it wouldn't be a problem. A simple: "Do you like toys?" is the best policy.

 

I have always had a fantasy about having an escort use a dildo on me. Would that me something that would be ok to try and play out with an escort or would they find it rude.

[+ purplekow]

[Bearofdistinction]

@Eric Hassan ,

You are an endless font of information!

 

I love a good font!

[LADoug1]

A professional escort should have no problem using toys on a client. Nothing that unusual about the request. I would only use my own though. Safe that way.