"Uninhibited" another way of saying Barebacking?

[Guest ncm2169]

Hey, in a thread a few months ago, Juan/Vancouver noted that he's discovered that "uninhibited" has become a synonym for barebacking among some gays. I've noticed a huge increase in the term in profiles on male hookup sites.

 

Any comments?

 

Btw, if this is true, escorts would be well advised to avoid using the term (unless they want to send that message, of course).

[+ Lucky]

If it has already been brought up, then what do you have to add? This subject has been discussed ad nauseum. It seems to me that bringing it up yet again on a whim is just an invitation to do some useless hand-wringing.

[Guest ncm2169]

Chill dude. My search did NOT turn up topics "ad nauseum."

 

Finally, Lucky, while I usually enjoy your posts here, in this case as always, my post was meant for those who don't spend all day here throwing bombs. Jesus dude, get a life. x(

[+ Lucky]

RE: Uninhibited; another way of saying I Love You?

 

I am having PMS today, but still think that the bb subject has been done... I do not dispute your right to post whatever you want...thanks for enjoying my posts

[+ deej]

Yes, that's exactly what it means. But I think it was Steven Draker who mentioned finding out about it when he, not knowing the meaning, used the phrase in one of his ads.

[Steven_Draker]

>Yes, that's exactly what it means. But I think it was Steven

>Draker who mentioned finding out about it when he, not knowing

>the meaning, used the phrase in one of his ads.

 

Nope, sorry Deej, it wasn't me. And I have a very good memory, believe me.

On a side note and for the record I have never engaged nor I will engage in any unprotected activity.

Thanks for your time.

 

Steven Draker ~

[+ deej]

>Nope, sorry Deej, it wasn't me. And I have a very good memory,

>believe me.

 

OH! Sorry!

 

I could swear it was you, but it must have been Juan.

 

Gosh, if I can't tell you two apart we should put you in the same room for comparison and I'd ....

 

oh dear....

 

the mental image alone is just too much! :+

[Guest ChgoBoy]

>Yes, that's exactly what it means. But I think it was Steven

>Draker who mentioned finding out about it when he, not knowing

>the meaning, used the phrase in one of his ads.

 

I take respectful exception to Uninhibited being a code word for barebacking. It simply goes further than that. Uninhibited is a state of mind. It speaks to one's ability to enjoy without hang ups, a variety of sexual activities (yes, BB may be part of it)that goes beyond the traditional fuck, suck vanilla sex. One who is uninhibited in his sexual activities may not necessarily engage in unsafe sexual activities...(I'm a case in point for this)To infer that the word "uninhibited" in any one ad indicates that the person is engaging in irresponsible, unsafe sex, is simply missing the bigger picture.

[Juan Vancouver]

What is hapenning to the language?

 

Thats the whole point of the original thread:

How internet language has been using and misusing english language and transforming it into something dangerous for those ones not acustomed to the "net" talk.

As a ESL, a new english speaker, a passionate vibrant latino proud of having very little inhibitions, I posted in one of my first ads that I was "Passionate and uninhibited".

Much to my surprise, I began to be bombarded with requests to all sorts of barebacking extravaganzas and I was about to abandon escorting thinking that people were all sick... until a kind soul told me what uninhibited meant (at least for them, wholehearted barebackers.)

It only took changing that word, and I haven't heard that kind of request in a long time.

 

Yes... I long for the times when unprotected sex was... just that! Unprotected sex.

 

A tea bag was that... not two testicles inside a mouth.

 

Greek was a man born in greece.... not anal sex.

 

And so on...

 

I barely speak english... and now I have to re-learn it!

 

x(

 

Who said that one doesn't have to study to engage in this profession?

[HotdadENYC]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

Juan, excellent reply. I laughed, I smiled, I symphatized.

 

I especially liked the reference to tea bag; that's a new one for me.

 

 

 

hd NYC

[Luv2play]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

Juan, if you "barely" speak English, what am to think of half the posters here? LOL Your command of English (ESL or not) is GREAT!!!

 

IMO, "uninhibited" is code language for many for barebacking activities, but for some it has the broader (or narrower) connotation of wild behaviour excluding, however,unsafe activities. Of course, one can get into a whole debate about what constitutes "unsafe" activities. As Deej is wont to say from time to time, there is no "safe" sex, only "safer" sex.

 

In sum, if you run across the expression and you need to know, it's best to ask in advance.

[Guest ChgoBoy]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

>Juan, if you "barely" speak English, what am to think of half

>the posters here? LOL Your command of English (ESL or not) is

>GREAT!!!

>

>IMO, "uninhibited" is code language for many for barebacking

>activities, but for some it has the broader (or narrower)

>connotation of wild behaviour excluding, however,unsafe

>activities. Of course, one can get into a whole debate about

>what constitutes "unsafe" activities. As Deej is wont to say

>from time to time, there is no "safe" sex, only "safer" sex.

>

>ChgoBoy then asks....Well, then Im just wondering then if its possible to have uninhibited bareback sex, or if that would be redundant. I think I need a drink, it must be 5pm somewhere....lol

[+ deej]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

>ChgoBoy then asks....Well, then Im just wondering then if its

>possible to have uninhibited bareback sex, or if that would be

>redundant. I think I need a drink, it must be 5pm

>somewhere....lol

 

Of course it's possible, but we're talking about language, code-words and assumed meanings in online profiles.

 

"Uninhibited" has most definitely acquired a meaning, as did "Blue Hanky Right" at one point in time.

[Rick Munroe]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

>A tea bag was that... not two testicles inside a mouth.

>

>Greek was a man born in greece.... not anal sex.

>

>And so on...

 

Eating out meant going to a restaurant, topping was done by Betty Crocker, and party was where Leslie Gore had a right to cry.

[Txpaytoplay]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

Where do you find these sayings?

[+ deej]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

Shrimping involved boats and a body of water, and deep throat was a *female*. :+

[flguy]

Please excuse my ignorance Deej, Shrimping?????

I'm still quite new to this.

[Guest zipperzone]

RE: What is hapenning to the language?

 

>Shrimping involved boats and a body of water, and deep throat

>was a *female*. :+

 

Or a Watergate informant........

[Juan Vancouver]

I was too shy to ask...

 

But...

 

SHRIMPING???

 

Reminiscing the smell of those little things is giving me terrible ideas of what that might mean...

 

Help!

[woodlawn]

RE: Is barebacking "sick"?

 

> I posted in one of my

>first ads that I was "Passionate and uninhibited".

>Much to my surprise, I began to be bombarded with requests to

>all sorts of barebacking extravaganzas and I was about to

>abandon escorting thinking that people were all sick

 

Why would you think that wanting to "bareback" means people are "sick"?

 

In a recent thread, didn't you state that in a civilized society each adult should be allowed to decide what is good or bad for himself, provided he does not cross the "personal boundaries" of other people by doing so? Doesn't that apply to having sex without a condom? Or does it only apply to things YOU think people should do?

[JT Brooklyn]

RE: Is barebacking "sick"?

 

"Shrimping" Toe Sucking Right? Have not heard that term in a long time. Because the Toes look like Little, or in some guys cases, BIG UGLY Shrimp! lol lol :+ :+ :+

[+ deej]

Our flung correspondent from Brooklyn got it. Toe sucking.

 

There's even a hankie color for it. LOL

[Guest ChgoBoy]

Deej are you just going to leave us all hanging about the hankie color...talk about a tease

[+ deej]

Google coughs them up in one click.

 

http://www.gaycityusa.com/HANKYCODES.htm

[joel304]

God help us ;(