Hotel guests hesitant to give out room numbers????

[BearDad58]

Unless someone is very well reviewed I won’t give them my room number in advance if I’m at a hotel. What I will do is tell them to call or text me when they get to the hotel and then I tell them I will meet them at the elevator bank on my floor which is more discreet than meeting in the lobby. In my years of hiring I’ve never had an escort object to that. Now if it’s someone from Backpage then for obvious security reasons I will meet them in the lobby.

 

Like the OP of this thread (Mikey) says it is a fairly common practice for escorts to want to call back and verify that I’m at the hotel especially if I’m at a property that’s in the suburbs and requires a bit of travel for the escort. So when I check in if I know I’ll be hiring someone that night I will tell the desk clerk that I have another party that will be with me and make up a name for the registration. Then if the escort wants to call the hotel and verify I am there I will just give him the made up name and he won’t have a problem being connected to my room. Nice and simple.

[mike carey]

I hear the issues, but I have had few occasions where the room number issue arose. One, I had paid 25% of the fee in advance, told him the hotel and we met in the foyer, with another times had been agreed then the world fell apart and we had a succession of e-mails clarifying what was happening, then changing dates, then finally meeting in the driveway of the hotel before he drove me to our dinner engagement, then returning to the hotel for the evening. Both of them worked, but I wouldn't necessarily repeat with other gentlemen.

[Mocha]

I wouldn't go to a hotel without a room number if it was founded on text.

 

I may consider meeting in the lobby with a phone call.

 

But the real question is where the hell are all the hotel calls at nowadays? Haven't had any in a month atleast

[TopTierTop]

Guys I have hesitated to post this thread and I have held on to it for a while just to make sure that what I am seeing reflects a general trend in the biz. Now I am sure it definitely does. 95% of potential new clients in high end hotels absolutely refuse to give out the room number until you are in route to the hotel or actually on the property. Others insist on meeting in the lobby. The question of the conduct is not in doubt but I would love to hear forum members thoughts as to WHY????????

For me I do not leave my house without a room number and the hotel guests' last name so I am losing business here. I've had too many experiences where I have traveled up to an hour and the supposed client wasn't there or didn't answer............

As the OP I will go first and blame all the APPS and hook up sites. These people are not used to dealing with pros. Secondly I will say we have a new generation of escorts who do not value discretion as my generation does. They are also not on time if they show up at all. Lastly these guys don't read the reviews and they just hire on a pic and a headline.

I have never had a client not show up where he said we would meet, whether it was the lobby or his room. I would say most often they will give me the room number as soon as I tell them I am ready to head over. If I have any concern about where I am going, like if it is inconvenient to get there, I ask the client to send an Uber for me. That way I know they are serious or if they are not there, at least I didn't pay to get there. As I said, nobody has stood me up yet, but I have had more than a couple of clients arrange the transportation there and back.

[Guest]

I have never had a client not show up where he said we would meet, whether it was the lobby or his room. I would say most often they will give me the room number as soon as I tell them I am ready to head over. If I have any concern about where I am going, like if it is inconvenient to get there, I ask the client to send an Uber for me. That way I know they are serious or if they are not there, at least I didn't pay to get there. As I said, nobody has stood me up yet, but I have had more than a couple of clients arrange the transportation there and back.

 

Wow! I could see why no one has ever stood you up! You are one crazy sexy dude!

[TopTierTop]

Wow! I could see why no one has ever stood you up! You are one crazy sexy dude!

Haha! Thanks.

[TopTierTop]

Yes, you are going to lose a lot of business. I do tell escorts my real first name, but my last name is none of their business, especially when we haven't even met! Most escorts don't even tell me their real first name before we meet, let alone both first and last (some won't even tell me their real first name after we've done it!). If Michael Wayne is your real full name, you're one of the very few escorts who advertises with his real full name (although I've run across two in my life). I will usually tell escorts my room number, but I can understand more cautious clients who would want to meet in the lobby. I could especially understand if the person was married or had a sensitive job. And I've had escorts blow off appointments quite frequently. I guess if you don't know the person's last name, you probably won't be able to verify if the room number is fake or not. But although I don't consider myself closeted about my escort hiring, I'm among those who would never tell a potential escort I've never met what my last name was (usually not even necessary after we meet, unless I plan to take him on a trip/extended hire).

Never occurred to me to ask for a client's last name, and I never have. In fact, sometimes I just say "what would you like me to call you?" I do ask for stats and most often some sort of face pic so that I have an idea who I am meeting, but a last name doesn't tell me anything. Even if it means I can call their room if I have their last name, I would never do that without prior permission. The client's prerogative to cancel even after I am already there outweighs my interest in chasing them down and possibly putting them in an embarrassing situation or risking their privacy. I have never been stood up before, but to any escort who has I would say, get over it. All businesses incur losses. If your business cannot afford to take a loss, that is a problem with your business, not the clients. It is not something to be angry about.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Never occurred to me to ask for a client's last name, and I never have. In fact, sometimes I just say "what would you like me to call you?" I do ask for stats and most often some sort of face pic so that I have an idea who I am meeting, but a last name doesn't tell me anything. Even if it means I can call their room if I have their last name, I would never do that without prior permission. The client's prerogative to cancel even after I am already there outweighs my interest in chasing them down and possibly putting them in an embarrassing situation or risking their privacy. I have never been stood up before, but to any escort who has I would say, get over it. All businesses incur losses. If your business cannot afford to take a loss, that is a problem with your business, not the clients. It is not something to be angry about.

I like your new picture. You have a face to show off, kudos for doing it.

[BaronArtz]

A few escorts in LA and in NY have told me that outcalls to a hotel guest and the most dangerous / most likely to be prank appointments. I am squeamish about giving out my first and last name, with my room number. However, some escorts, I understand, like to call the hotel and ask to be connected to 'Baron Artz' in room 666. It is a verification of sorts that there is really somebody with that name in that room - and less likely to be a 'prank' appointment. While I don't like it, I can understand why some escorts do it.

[TopTierTop]

A few escorts in LA and in NY have told me that outcalls to a hotel guest and the most dangerous / most likely to be prank appointments. I am squeamish about giving out my first and last name, with my room number. However, some escorts, I understand, like to call the hotel and ask to be connected to 'Baron Artz' in room 666. It is a verification of sorts that there is really somebody with that name in that room - and less likely to be a 'prank' appointment. While I don't like it, I can understand why some escorts do it.

That's a really good idea! I haven't been pranked before, but if it ever starts happening a significant number of times, that could be a good way to do it. If it happens once in awhile, I would just consider it part of the business.

 

What I do if I have any reason at all to feel unsure, or it is far away, is have them send me an Uber or Lyft. This way they have to use their account and at least will have to pay for the ride there. I can also have them send me a link to where I am going which I can also share with my partner. Most client's are very willing to arrange the transportation, especially when they can use the app to see where I am and exactly when I arrive.

[Michael Wayne]

Guys as the OP of this thread I say thanks. It was a good discussion and it pretty much confirmed what I said was going on. Of course, as always, there are two or three of yall MIKEY haters out there who love to take a shot at me anytime you can but I love ALL my fans and followers even yall mean and nasty ones! lol....... only a couple new thoughts here: Several of yall brought up the term "well reviewed." Ok well anyone who has actually read all of my Daddys' reviews knows that I have some of the BEST reviews in the country so why is this happening to me and many of the other well reviewed escorts such as Nick Dc who has about 60 Daddys reviews?????

Also.... about the shot someone took at me on the DISCRETION issue. You could not be more ignorant about the subject sir! DISCRETION is knowing a clients' real name and job and keeping it a SECRET! IT involves TRUST. Lastly...TOP TIER is hot as hell and he represents the new generation in a GOOD way. Sadly that is not true of most of the younger boys. Mikey @ www.rentmen.com/magicmikeydc ps............don't forget to include that room number when you contact me from your hotel! lol

ps......... as an expert on hotels all over the USA I can say that only 10 percent of the elevators are actually totally secure. In New Orleans only the Ritz Carlton was when I worked there. In DC there are only 4 or 5........ Ft. Lauderdale resort hotels are mostly wide open....... so none of that is relevant and certainly it is not DISCREET to meet in a lobby where everyone is watching and the cameras are rolling 24/7.

[Guest]

DISCRETION is knowing a clients' real name and job and keeping it a SECRET! IT involves TRUST.

 

I'm sorry, but you're only looking at it from your perspective. If you've kept the clients real first and last name to yourself, you're being discreet as far as you're concerned. As far as the client is concerned, giving one's full name to someone whom one hasn't even met is not being discreet. You are running your own business, and can make whatever rules you see fit, and potential clients likewise can decide whether or not they want to do business by your rules. You have to weigh the loss of income from clients who won't give out their full names (which I suspect would be a majority of clients) versus the loss of income from the fake appointments. TTT's suggestion of having the client pay your way to the hotel seems like a reasonable compromise, though I would have to have the escort explain it to me, as the only times I've used Uber or Lyft is when the app tells them where I am by my phone's GPS, and then I enter the delivery address. (I would subtract the Uber/Lyft charge from the difference the escort charges between in-calls and out-calls). I've hired tons of escorts over the years, and I've never had one ask me for my real full name, and I would move on to another escort if he did. I strongly suspect most clients feel the same way. I imagine it would be difficult to get an adequate income stream if you only accept clients who are willing to divulge their full names before meeting (unless your business is mostly in-calls, when the full name issue is moot).