Need Ideas For a Special Evening Date

[BeHappy]

Hi Guys, Looking for some fun things to do for a great date!

I am so apprecitive of what you all do, and would like your perspective on what were some exciting things that clients did for you guys?

[+ Truereview]

Hi Guys, Looking for some fun things to do for a great date!

I am so apprecitive of what you all do, and would like your perspective on what were some exciting things that clients did for you guys?

Hey @BeHappy. Is this a first date? What do you like to do? Have you asked him what he likes to do? Planning together can be fun and rapport-building, but there are guys who just like the evening planned for them. Give us some more details so we can help you better.

[BeHappy]

It is a second date. He is putting a list together and I am putting a list together. Then we are going to choose. OK with dinner and a show, just want to be more imaginative.

[+ Truereview]

I love picnics by the water (lake, ocean). It is an excuse to see him in shorts and possibly take a dip together. Water seems to bring out the playful side in most people. You can make it fully romantic and watch a sunset while sipping wine and nibbling or you can make it sporty by throwing a ball or frisbee. It can also give you a sense of how low/high maintenance the other guy is. I've had many a beach picnic where the guy is more worried about his hair, tan, or sand in the toes than the company he is keeping - red alert for me. Then again, there are guys whose playful, carefree side excels. I also like picnics bc the only distraction should be each other and the environment- this gives you a chance to get to know each other better.

[MasterMaxRR]

Best times I ever had were when I went Go-Karting and putt putt golf on a date. I find its always fun to imagine you're a kid again and decide activities based on that perspective! Best of luck!

[+ Kufrol]

Bowling can be fun too.

[+ glennnn]

Is there an interesting micro brewery where you can sip a few samples of their in house brews? Not enough to spoil the evening. Just enough to discuss together and relax.

[BeHappy]

Nice ideas!!

Has anyone taken there date to a fetish store and try on/purhase some leather or sexy undies to play with later?

[+ Funguy]

Sounds like FUN

[+ quoththeraven]

Nice ideas!!

Has anyone taken there date to a fetish store and try on/purhase some leather or sexy undies to play with later?

 

I've read at least one review where the parties did that, although I believe the purchase was a sex toy.

[Meo]

I'm obsessed with Champagne myself (buy by the case and always have 4 dozen+ bottles on hand) and I have been shocked at how rarely guys I see have been able to taste ANY real French Champagne EVER let alone a FLIGHT of French Champagnes that are truly, discernibly different. Ditto for single malt scotches. My single malt "tray" contains a dozen bottles and easily cost $1000+. Even other simple liqueurs like Grand Marnier, Nonino Picolit grappa, limoncellos. I have been with a couple of guys who remarked that they danced in jocks next to thousands of dollars of fancy alcohol for YEARS assuming they would never get to taste it. Maybe it's the Henry Higgins in me but I love giving guys this experience and seeing their reaction. It's very thoughtful drinking and not a way of getting them hammered and into bed...although it's a great way to do that too!

[+ Truereview]

...Maybe it's the Henry Higgins in me but I love giving guys this experience and seeing their reaction...

Ty for this @Meo . Some of the best dates I ever had were with my clients - back when I was in the biz. I had a particular client who was so generous in planning experiences. Over Christmas dinner, I once told him I felt so awkward that I could not do more in return. He told me that my facial expressions and genuine wonder were reward enough. In just a few words, he had gently reminded me that the "exchange" wasn't material in all aspects. I had to plant a kiss on him right there and then, in the middle of Xmas brunch at The Plaza - a big deal back in the day.

[Bearofdistinction]

Hi Guys, Looking for some fun things to do for a great date!

I am so apprecitive of what you all do, and would like your perspective on what were some exciting things that clients did for you guys?

 

Invite him into your house lead him into the dining room.

 

Spread him facedown on the table - bind his hands tightly with slip knots then take your time stripping the rest of him and then bind his feet to the table legs. Shove a full beer bottle up his ass then lickup what foams comes out and go from there.

 

I do love romance!

[+ Funguy]

I'm obsessed with Champagne myself (buy by the case and always have 4 dozen+ bottles on hand) and I have been shocked at how rarely guys I see have been able to taste ANY real French Champagne EVER let alone a FLIGHT of French Champagnes that are truly, discernibly different. Ditto for single malt scotches. My single malt "tray" contains a dozen bottles and easily cost $1000+. Even other simple liqueurs like Grand Marnier, Nonino Picolit grappa, limoncellos. I have been with a couple of guys who remarked that they danced in jocks next to thousands of dollars of fancy alcohol for YEARS assuming they would never get to taste it. Maybe it's the Henry Higgins in me but I love giving guys this experience and seeing their reaction. It's very thoughtful drinking and not a way of getting them hammered and into bed...although it's a great way to do that too!

 

Single malt - you have my attention, and I am at attention over this one!

[Meo]

Ty for this @MeoHe told me that my facial expressions and genuine wonder were reward enough.

YES! And a nice antidote to my annual Pride Parade brunch where the caviar and smoked salmon are barely noticed or criticized for too many calories! Seeing someone appreciate good things is a huge part of my enjoyment of them too.

[+ nycman]

I'm obsessed with Champagne myself......how rarely guys I see have been able to taste ANY real French Champagne EVER let alone a FLIGHT of French Champagnes

 

You had me at Champagne!

 

Baby, I'd fuck you for a flight of good Champagne.....no problem!

 

Throw in the Caviar...and I might even kiss!

[Meo]

You had me at Champagne!

 

Baby, I'd fuck you for a flight of good Champagne.....no problem!

 

Throw in the Caviar...and I might even kiss!

 

Lol I'm currently barraged with questions from someone who had a great flight of champagne with me in early August but neither of us can remember what we actually drank!

[gallahadesquire]

Lol I'm currently barraged with questions from someone who had a great flight of champagne with me in early August but neither of us can remember what we actually drank!

 

how do you do a flight of champagne? Do you open, say, four bottles; pour; and recork immediately?

 

Or do you hire three escorts at once, and have a hearty pour for each, and no leftovers?

[Meo]

how do you do a flight of champagne? Do you open, say, four bottles; pour; and recork immediately?

 

Or do you hire three escorts at once, and have a hearty pour for each, and no leftovers?

LOL for an intimate flight for two, I tend to use splits and half-bottles so that total consumption is about one bottle each...which is normally just enough!

[+ Truereview]

LOL for an intimate flight for two, I tend to use splits and half-bottles so that total consumption is about one bottle each...which is normally just enough!

Like this?

[Meo]

Like this?

That's less of a "flight" and more of a "parachute jump"! And I'm NOT sure hers is going to open!