Kyle Vong no longer escorting

[koakardred]

I saw a thread about Kyle Vong no longer escorting. He was one of the best escorts I met. I hope I can find another Asian escort who was versatile, nice, caring, and worked hard to satisfy people. I felt I built a friendship and he suddenly dropped off from the community. I hope he is fine. He will be missed!!

[jojo]

I saw a thread about Kyle Vong no longer escorting. He was one of the best escorts I met. I hope I can find another Asian escort who was versatile, nice, caring, and worked hard to satisfy people. I felt I built a friendship and he suddenly dropped off from the community. I hope he is fine. He will be missed!!

 

All will allow a "friendship" until they decided it is time to move on. I often hear some people claim it is more than "the money" and time and time again, facts prove otherwise.

[+ Charlie]

Many friendships that are based on work relationships tend to disappear when someone moves on to a different kind of career, particularly when one is fairly young. I don't judge an escort harshly if the friendly relationships he built with his clients aren't continued when they no longer have a working relationship based primarily on sex, especially if those friendships are awkward to explain to his new work colleagues. It is easy for a client to read too much into a "friendship" with someone whom he is paying for intimate relations, even if the escort honestly enjoys the interactions. It is like a boss expecting to continue the same relationship to a favored employee even after the employee has moved on to a different company.

[pubic_assistance]

Many friendships that are based on work relationships tend to disappear when someone moves on to a different kind of career, particularly when one is fairly young. I don't judge an escort harshly if the friendly relationships he built with his clients aren't continued when they no longer have a working relationship based primarily on sex, especially if those friendships are awkward to explain to his new work colleagues. It is easy for a client to read too much into a "friendship" with someone whom he is paying for intimate relations, even if the escort honestly enjoys the interactions. It is like a boss expecting to continue the same relationship to a favored employee even after the employee has moved on to a different company.

I agree. Escorting demands a special kind of relationship with people, and with the various social "judgements" against the profession, these young men often want to completely move on an forget about their past associations. I never take it as an insult from the individual when they disappear, only disappointed that American Society has yet to catch up with other more progressive countries in the world of sex 4 sale.

[MikeBiDude]

I agree. Escorting demands a special kind of relationship with people, and with the various social "judgements" against the profession, these young men often want to completely move on an forget about their past associations. I never take it as an insult from the individual when they disappear, only disappointed that American Society has yet to catch up with other more progressive countries in the world of sex 4 sale.

I've had a ten year friendship with a young man I met as a client to masseur/escort. Chemistry was off the charts, led to relationship/affair (no $$), later sex ended and became just friends. As his life moved on, the friendship became difficult, even toxic. Suddenly (and recently) he has become hostile and declared our friendship done. Won't talk to me

 

I get he is moving on, in a good relationship with someone, etc. I know it's the smart thing to do, to move on...but I'm kind of in the mourning stage of losing a good friend.

[pubic_assistance]

All losses of positive relationships are going to be mourned. We can only counter the sadness of loss with our intellect to say it's part of growing up for some people. Young people NEED support from more mature adults, whether it's friendship, relationship, sugar-daddy or otherwise....but very often when they feel more independent they want to fledge the nest, never to return. Always a sad moment.

[Moondance]

Many friendships that are based on work relationships tend to disappear when someone moves on to a different kind of career...

Bingo. This is not a phenomenon unique to escort-client relationships. People change jobs, move, get caught up in other responsibilities and some relationships fall by the wayside. Maybe those friendships were really friendships of convenience all along, or maybe they simply ran their course.

 

You discover the real friendships once the original reason to be in touch is past and you are both still making an effort to know one another.