Rude Escorts?

[SizeQueen16]

Has anyone ever been in a situation where they chose to endure an escort with a rude personality simply because previous sessions were very good/excellent? Do you call out the escort on their tone in which they address you or just stop seeing them? Or both?

 

Ex. You set a time with escort. Something comes up in your schedule that you fear might conflict the appointment so you contact the escort to see if there is flexibility. Their reply is that they are going to "pretend that you didn't ask them that" because the time was agreed upon. If you are late "That's on you!"

[Epigonos]

I know a couple of escorts well enough that if that made a similar comment to me I would assume the were kidding. If I thought there were serious my response would be that they need not worry about my being delayed because I would not be coming at all because I was cancelling and they would not be hearing from me again. Way too many fish in the ocean to put up with that kind of shit.

[bigvalboy]

Has anyone ever been in a situation where they chose to endure an escort with a rude personality simply because previous sessions were very good/excellent? Do you call out the escort on their tone in which they address you or just stop seeing them? Or both?

 

Both...

 

I called the escort out and I never saw him again. While I never mentioned the escorts name publicly, his forum friends got wind of it and blamed me. They got their panties all in a twist, and harassed me for the better part of 2 years. Things like this happens on public forums, but I believe that it is important, when appropriate, to call a spade a spade. I have no regrets.

[jawjateck]

Some folks may be into degradation fetishes, but I'm not. Since social skills are as essential as sensual skills for successful meetings, I neither tolerate nor compensate rude behavior.

[caliguy]

Their reply is that they are going to "pretend that you didn't ask them that" because the time was agreed upon. If you are late "That's on you!"

He must have a really big Hole Wrecker for you to be putting up with that. At least I hope.

[down_to_business]

It would depend on how good/excellent the previous sessions were. They would seriously have to be outstanding.

 

At the same time, however, I would be looking for a new service provider. I would never hire this person for anything other than a 1 hour engagement of purely for sex and all extras like gratuities, recommendations, gifts, friendship, travel, perks etc. would be 100% off the table.

[Tuffpie]

I had been in touch with a escort in NYC about a threesome with my husband.

We were looking for someone to bottom for us. In prior text chats he was up for it, no problem. Then as we got closer to the date he said, "Hahaha, you must not know who you're talking to. It's going to take a lot of money to make that happen." I actually went back to the text thread to be sure I didn't get it confused. Anyway, he quoted a stupid sum of money and I passed. Now, I can't even watch his scenes without getting irritated. The attitude in his delivery was what pissed me off. The arrogance and dismissal.

[rvwnsd]

Has anyone ever been in a situation where they chose to endure an escort with a rude personality simply because previous sessions were very good/excellent? Do you call out the escort on their tone in which they address you or just stop seeing them? Or both?

 

Ex. You set a time with escort. Something comes up in your schedule that you fear might conflict the appointment so you contact the escort to see if there is flexibility. Their reply is that they are going to "pretend that you didn't ask them that" because the time was agreed upon. If you are late "That's on you!"

 

I have never been in a situation where an escort treated me like that. If it was to happen I would take my business elsewhere, unless I knew they were kidding.

[Fyton]

Has anyone ever been in a situation where they chose to endure an escort with a rude personality simply because previous sessions were very good/excellent? Do you call out the escort on their tone in which they address you or just stop seeing them? Or both?

 

Ex. You set a time with escort. Something comes up in your schedule that you fear might conflict the appointment so you contact the escort to see if there is flexibility. Their reply is that they are going to "pretend that you didn't ask them that" because the time was agreed upon. If you are late "That's on you!"

Yes, kick the self-important delusional to the curb.

[BaronArtz]

Clients, on the other hand, are never rude ...

[marylander1940]

Has anyone ever been in a situation where they chose to endure an escort with a rude personality simply because previous sessions were very good/excellent? Do you call out the escort on their tone in which they address you or just stop seeing them? Or both?

 

Ex. You set a time with escort. Something comes up in your schedule that you fear might conflict the appointment so you contact the escort to see if there is flexibility. Their reply is that they are going to "pretend that you didn't ask them that" because the time was agreed upon. If you are late "That's on you!"

 

I've gotten some attitude... and I decided to move on.

[marylander1940]

I had been in touch with a escort in NYC about a threesome with my husband.

We were looking for someone to bottom for us. In prior text chats he was up for it, no problem. Then as we got closer to the date he said, "Hahaha, you must not know who you're talking to. It's going to take a lot of money to make that happen." I actually went back to the text thread to be sure I didn't get it confused. Anyway, he quoted a stupid sum of money and I passed. Now, I can't even watch his scenes without getting irritated. The attitude in his delivery was what pissed me off. The arrogance and dismissal.

 

Did you ever talk to him on the phone?

 

For how long did yinz (your husband and you) texted him?

 

Maybe he thought yinz were time wasters, that happens a lot in the business.

[marylander1940]

Some folks may be into degradation fetishes, but I'm not. Since social skills are as essential as sensual skills for successful meetings, I neither tolerate nor compensate rude behavior.

 

Don't miss this thread, I can't believe what some folks would stand for cute like him, as if they weren't any other hot guys in the world...

 

And it isn't Sheldon Adelson!

 

https://rentmen.com/SheldonSC

 

https://rentmen.com/SheldonSC

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/sheldon-in-vegas.117180/page-2#post-1145849

 

"What you should know before contacting Sheldon:

-Texts are preferred method of contact. Calls will NOT be answered.

-Allow up to 12 hours for a response -- if no response DO NOT continue sending more texts.

-Overnights and travel companions are rarely available for first-time friends.

-Sex is NOT offered. Do not contact if that's what you seek.

-If you are serious about connecting, the very first text you send should say "AbUn" -- this signifies that you've actually read through the entire profile. You will receive a reply "dance" to which you should respond with the following:

1) what you are interested in

2) the date(s)/time you are available

3) if the arrangement is for incall or outcall

This process makes it easier to identify compatible inquiries."

 

Is that from an escort advertisement or a hostage negotiation?

 

Sorry too many rules, I wonder if he knows he has to be more approachable.

 

"-If you are serious about connecting, the very first text you send should say "AbUn" -- this signifies that you've actually read through the entire profile. You will receive a reply "dance" to which you should respond with the following:"

Sounds like my uncle's stories of a code to make it into a speakeasy...

 

 

 

 

Maybe his manager wrote it, LOL

[+ poolboy48220]

I'm not defending the rudeness, but for those of us NOT living in a city with an abundance of escorts to choose from, there aren't that many other guys.

 

Still - a traveller showed up in the detroit listings, very much my type; I texted him twice asking about setting up a meeting & asking how long he'd be in town (the answer was "until Tuesday"), and next asking for the password to his private pics; no reply to that. So I did pass.

[robberbaron4u]

Handsone is as handsome does. . .

[gallahadesquire]

Both...

 

I called the escort out and I never saw him again. While I never mentioned the escorts name publicly, his forum friends got wind of it and blamed me. They got their panties all in a twist, and harassed me for the better part of 2 years. Things like this happens on public forums, but I believe that it is important, when appropriate, to call a spade a spade. I have no regrets.

 

Isn't that kind of racist?

[Tuffpie]

Did you ever talk to him on the phone?

 

For how long did yinz (your husband and you) texted him?

 

Maybe he thought yinz were time wasters, that happens a lot in the business.

Never talked by phone. Texted a half dozen times or so, and emailed through this forum.

[MikeyGMin]

Isn't that kind of racist?

 

Google it. There have been full-blown Papers written on the topic. The idiom predates any racial implications and literally refers to the garden tool. However, words can take on new context over time. I know that I avoid the expression because I cringe every time I hear a Brit refer to a cigarette as a fag.

[mike carey]

A commom expression here is to say that someone, 'Calls a spade a fucking shovel', to indicate that they are extremely direct. The racial connotation of spade isn't really used in Australia.

[BasketBaller]

I had to postpone the first appointment I ever had with an escort because of a sick kid. I was sure he'd think I was flaking and wouldn't believe me, but he was both kind and understanding, and adjusted his check-out time to help me reschedule. If he'd responded rudely I might not have ever tried to hire again, I was nervous enough about it as it was. While I've never had an escort be truly rude to me I've had plenty of terse, unhelpful responses to initial contact, and I have passed on those. I am only interested in guys with a friendly demeanor-- and I'm aware they may very well be putting that on for the job, but that's fine. I want to feel that I'm hiring someone who likes being hired by me, not someone who's condescending to let me hire him.

[BabyBoomer]

I had been in touch with a escort in NYC about a threesome with my husband.

We were looking for someone to bottom for us. In prior text chats he was up for it, no problem. Then as we got closer to the date he said, "Hahaha, you must not know who you're talking to. It's going to take a lot of money to make that happen." I actually went back to the text thread to be sure I didn't get it confused. Anyway, he quoted a stupid sum of money and I passed. Now, I can't even watch his scenes without getting irritated. The attitude in his delivery was what pissed me off. The arrogance and dismissal.

 

Never talked by phone. Texted a half dozen times or so, and emailed through this forum.

 

Your last post narrows the field of suspects considerably.

 

~ Boomer ~

[Tuffpie]

Your last post narrows the field of suspects considerably.

 

~ Boomer ~

It definitely isn't my intent to call anyone out. I'm sure he's a swell guy; we just hit each other at the wrong moment in the wrong way.

[MiamiLooker]

Then as we got closer to the date he said, "Hahaha, you must not know who you're talking to. It's going to take a lot of money to make that happen."

Was this the first time the fee had been mentioned or discussed in your communications?

[SizeQueen16]

He must have a really big Hole Wrecker for you to be putting up with that. At least I hope.

*sigh* I know it really shouldn't matter but yes he's HUGE

[BgMstr4u]

We are always repeating the mantra "all fees are for time spent together" or some variation of that. That being the case, rudeness is possibly the worst offense an escort can commit. Who wants to spend good money to be insulted? Or maybe this should get moved to the s/m forum, where guys who like other guys not to be nice to them hang out (joke!).

 

Otherwise, I'm with BasketBaller above: I like guys who are happy to be with me.