SEXUAL DEVIANT / BDSM TEST

[whipped guy]

So is kink synonymous with use of toys (handcuffs, ropes, chains, etc.)? People can restrain and be restrained without these devices.

As I have mentioned, I was never good with rope and knots. Plus, unfortunately at the bondage club in NYC my favorite location is the upper loft where there is a large wooden framework where the sub can be handcuffed. Unfortunately for the last couple of years the cuffs have fallen off so I instruct the sub to hang on and "take it like a man". I really need to talk to someone about that the next time I visit. So it can be done without restraints. Plus many escorts don't own restraints and that's how it's done under those conditions as well. So the answer is that restraints are not necessary, but having them available is nice!

 

Plus, in my book simpler is better. I need to look into some Velcro cuffs. Quick and easy!!! Heck, I carry other accoutrements, a couple of small cuffs would not be a hardship!

[+ FreshFluff]

Plus, in my book simpler is better. I need to look into some Velcro cuffs. Quick and easy!!! Heck, I carry other accoutrements, a couple of small cuffs would not be a hardship!

 

It's also possible to pin someone down with one's own body, but you don't see this discussed much among kinky people. I guess it's hard to pin someone down when you're whipping him.

 

I've always wondered whether the stylized nature of BDSM scenarios makes people more comfortable with the whole thing.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I was actually left pretty cold with this test. I feel that it only covered power dynamics, whereas kink has so many more aspects than that.

 

I have explored and I am very adept in pretty much all the kink forms they mention in the test, have done almost everything and understand the enjoyment and excitement that derive from them, and yet, what gets my cock rock hard and my ass hungry is when two people, two equals, come together because of mutual attraction and decide to explore each other passionately.

 

It's funny. I think most of my friends who know me well would be laughing for days if I told them that a BDSM test determined that I am actually not kinky at all.

 

Strongly agree!

 

When taking this test I felt like I might get "pedophile" or "murderer." Turns out I got 97% switch, so I guess I'm both?

[+ Funguy]

Strongly agree!

 

When taking this test I felt like I might get "pedophile" or "murderer." Turns out I got 97% switch, so I guess I'm both?

 

Is that pedophile AND murderer?

[+ Eric Hassan]

Is that pedophile AND murderer?

 

I guess?!

 

The test seemed very skewed towards age play and exploring pain/torture limits.

[whipped guy]

It's also possible to pin someone down with one's own body, but you don't see this discussed much among kinky people. I guess it's hard to pin someone down when you're whipping him.

 

I've always wondered whether the stylized nature of BDSM scenarios makes people more comfortable with the whole thing.

I guess there is a perception that the scene is practiced according to certain conventions or patterns. However, at times it is best not to be a conformist and go with the natural flow of things or whatever conditions and situations present themselves at the time. Still, when playing with certain people we do tend to feel comfortable with certain scenarios .

 

As for getting pinned down that can be a major turn on and especially when one is dealing with someone who has wrestling skills. No rope is needed in such situations, but as you mention it's not an easy situation for any sort of flogging unless a small accoutrement or a bare hand is utilized.

[mike carey]

When taking this test I felt like I might get "pedophile" or "murderer."

If that happened it would prove what others have said, that the test is flawed.

[whipped guy]

Nothing in life is ever perfect, and certainly not the test under consideration. However, I was impressed that there was that optional final page where the administrators seemed to be genuinly interested in making the test as accurate as possible. Plus, given the complexity of the subject matter I thought that the questions and situations referenced were quite appropriate. Let's assume that the test is a work in progress and it will improve. As such I hope that those who were not happy about it paid attention to that particular page. Perhaps there's a better test out there... Or it might encourage others to try to develop one.

 

As for my results... I would say close enough and certainly closer than some of the silly tests comprised of a dozen or so questions that have been posted here in the past where one had to pick colors and hidden designs in various pictures as an indication of their sexual inclinations...

[+ Funguy]

Interestingly, the same answers given with different ages gives different percentages.

Mine, at my real age (ha ha) comes out fairly on target:

 

98 - voyeur

97 - switch

94 - experimentalist

84 - exhibitionist

84 - primal hunter

84 - rope bunny

76 - dominant

68 - primal prey

66 - submissive

66 - vanilla

61 - brat

58 - master

54 - brat tamer

34 - daddy

30 - age player

18 - degradee

17 - masochist

16 - sadist

14 - degrader

13 - owner

9 - slave

6 - pet

 

I would say that, for the most part, the upper ranges are very much my interests. In fact, when I have indicated my wants when meeting new escorts, these are the areas I mention. This is very inaccurate in the last few as the categories for degrader, owner, slave, and pet were all answered in total negatives so they should be zeros.

[+ Funguy]

Nothing in life is ever perfect, and certainly not the test under consideration. However, I was impressed that there was that optional final page where the administrators seemed to be genuinly interested in making the test as accurate as possible. Plus, given the complexity of the subject matter I thought that the questions and situations referenced were quite appropriate. Let's assume that the test is a work in progress and it will improve. As such I hope that those who were not happy about it paid attention to that particular page. Perhaps there's a better test out there... Or it might encourage others to try to develop one.

 

As for my results... I would say close enough and certainly closer than some of the silly tests comprised of a dozen or so questions that have been posted here in the past where one had to pick colors and hidden designs in various pictures as an indication of their sexual inclinations...

 

Maybe it will also encourage others to try to experiment more, too.

[+ Funguy]

I was actually left pretty cold with this test. I feel that it only covered power dynamics, whereas kink has so many more aspects than that.

 

I have explored and I am very adept in pretty much all the kink forms they mention in the test, have done almost everything and understand the enjoyment and excitement that derive from them, and yet, what gets my cock rock hard and my ass hungry is when two people, two equals, come together because of mutual attraction and decide to explore each other passionately.

 

It's funny. I think most of my friends who know me well would be laughing for days if I told them that a BDSM test determined that I am actually not kinky at all.

 

Juanito - we must speak before you and Thor travel my way again!! As you can see from my answers, I received a score of 94% with Experimentalist and i would concur with that score.

[whipped guy]

Interestingly, the same answers given with different ages gives different percentages.

Mine, at my real age (ha ha) comes out fairly on target:

 

98 - voyeur

97 - switch

94 - experimentalist

84 - exhibitionist

84 - primal hunter

84 - rope bunny

76 - dominant

68 - primal prey

66 - submissive

66 - vanilla

61 - brat

58 - master

54 - brat tamer

34 - daddy

30 - age player

18 - degradee

17 - masochist

16 - sadist

14 - degrader

13 - owner

9 - slave

6 - pet

 

I would say that, for the most part, the upper ranges are very much my interests. In fact, when I have indicated my wants when meeting new escorts, these are the areas I mention. This is very inaccurate in the last few as the categories for degrader, owner, slave, and pet were all answered in total negatives so they should be zeros.

Hmmmmm... A rope bunny and an exhibitionist all rolled into one fun package!!!!! RAAV! I already knew about the "fly on the wall" voyeur part!

[mike carey]

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

69% Submissive

69% Vanilla

50% Non-monogamist

43% Switch

40% Experimentalist

32% Rope bunny

27% Exhibitionist

24% Voyeur

22% Dominant

18% Ageplayer

17% Brat

17% Primal (Prey)

16% Girl/Boy

8% Master/Mistress

8% Slave

7% Rigger

5% Daddy/Mommy

5% Primal (Hunter)

5% Pet

4% Masochist

2% Brat tamer

2% Degradee

2% Owner

1% Degrader

1% Sadist

 

Whatever that means!

[+ WilliamM]

Nothing in life is ever perfect, and certainly not the test under consideration. However, I was impressed that there was that optional final page where the administrators seemed to be genuinly interested in making the test as accurate as possible. Plus, given the complexity of the subject matter I thought that the questions and situations referenced were quite appropriate. Let's assume that the test is a work in progress and it will improve. As such I hope that those who were not happy about it paid attention to that particular page. Perhaps there's a better test out there... Or it might encourage others to try to develop one.

 

After reading your comments, I did the test a second time. You are absolutely right about the importance of the last page. In a few cases, I thought my responses on that page make too big a difference. But, I really liked the comparison information at the end. I am very sorry I missed it the first time. That page alone was worth taking the test. Thanks very much, whipped guy.

[pubic_assistance]

What kind of sexual deviant are you?!?!?! Take the test to find out!

 

Warning it is a bit long and complicated but it pegged me just about perfectly regarding the top five categories of Switch, Masochist, Sadist, Submissivness, and Dominance. There are a ton of other categories, but these are probably the most important. (Incidentally you have the option to give your contact info. I declined.)

 

91% Switch

86% Masochist

72% Sadist

69% Submissive

65% Dominant

 

Have fun seeing exactly how perverted you may or may not be at least as far as BDSM is concerned! Incidentally the survey covers many aspects of sexuality many of which are not unique to BDSM. So the survey is interesting and useful for that particular feature as well.

 

https://bdsmtest.org/index.php

I am 97% DOMINANT. Sounds right. Takes a special sort of man to make me 'give it up'.