Escorts and texts

[pubic_assistance]

Like every relationship: COMMUNICATION is important. If it makes you uncomfortable. Say "this makes me uncomfortable" and negotiate a system that satisfies your desires but doesn't get in the way of their needs. 20-somethings are HARD WIRED into their social media. It makes them crazy to be disconnected for too long.

[hunterlee]

I agree with you but don't forget the bathroom breaks for texting or talking if Millennials still talk on the phone...

 

Almost none of my friends my age ever talk on the phone.

 

For 24 hour sessions it is okay for an escort to have some alone time to communicate be it text, email, or even calls if people still do that. Lol.

 

"You used to call me on my cell phone"

- hot line bling

 

Like every relationship: COMMUNICATION is important. If it makes you uncomfortable. Say "this makes me uncomfortable" and negotiate a system that satisfies your desires but doesn't get in the way of their needs. 20-somethings are HARD WIRED into their social media. It makes them crazy to be disconnected for too long.

 

Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram and Facebook!

 

All my friends ask me to get on twitter or snapchat or instagram. Why can't you just send me the photo directly!

When I went over to Europe, I sent over 40+ hand written postcards to my friends, family and some client friends. Why do I need to "snap" a photo with the caption "wish you were here" and add eggplant emojis. Call me salty but that's just tacky.

[+ FreshFluff]

Speaking of straight boys that's who most of my guys are straight or bi

And that's the problem straight guys are cock slaves to their bitches and when the whores text they must respond!!!!

 

Cock slaves? More likely, they just don't want questions about their whereabouts.

[marylander1940]

Almost none of my friends my age ever talk on the phone.

 

 

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Do they even talk to their families? I know young guys who refuse to do it.

[Becket]

I walked past a family seated at a restaurant recently. Mom, Dad, Daughter, Daughter, Son. Each head was bowed and each set of hands in laps, as if at prayer. Nope, each was using his or her phone. Texting, gaming, surfing, who knows. Five people at dinner. Not one looking at the other.

 

Just shoot me now.

[BasketBaller]

I haven't had that happen yet, but I hire guys in their 30s, mostly. I wouldn't mind a guy checking a text before or after we got down to it, but once we get started I'd nix it.

 

Now one time, I was the bad guy. I had forgotten to turn off my phone and it rang when I was ahem, unable to answer (since I was on my back being banged into next week). I just ignored it, but it rang again, and again. The escort, who knew I had kids stopped and said, "do you want to check that?" I nodded, he helped me up, and I looked at my phone where, indeed one of my kids had called three times. But no emergency, he'd left a message and the other two calls were pocket-dials. So, I apologized, we laughed, he bent me over, slammed back in,� and continued my rear end alignment. I tipped well.

[alexslaveboy]

***Update****

 

I decided to head the majority advice and I spoke up with 2 of the worst offenders

One apologized and now leaves his phone in the car, the other has indeed gotten very comfortable at my house so he leaves the phone upstairs during the session in the basement but does continue to text before and after the sessions

Baby steps....I tell myself , baby steps

[JayCeeKy]

When I was managing a large mental health clinic, it was amazing (to me, at least) that I had to demand that psychotherapists (supposedly professional people) to put their cell phones out of sight during sessions with patients. I received several complaints from patients who stated that their therapists would sneak glances at their cell phones even during highly emotional moments of their sessions. When paying for a service a client should expect the UNDIVIDED attention of the provider, whether that provider is a doctor, lawyer, or escort. No ifs, ands, or butts.

[Juan Vancouver]

Something happened yesterday that made me chuckle and I thought I would post it here.

 

I was in the middle of the session and my client was having trouble "opening up". He was fairly inexperienced so we were very, very slowly trying to relax and gain confidence so that he might feel ready to try the whole meal deal. In the middle of this very tender, very deliberately calming part of the session music started playing that felt loud and distracting, so without moving away from him, without going out, so to speak, I reached for my phone to advance a track and lower the volume.

 

I noticed that all of a sudden he was less relaxed and seemed to have become distant. I asked him how he was doing and he said everything was ok. Normally clients who are unable to fully relax tend to be on the incommunicative side, so I didn't think much of this. I tried a couple other things, but he was just not present anymore. All of a sudden he asked what time it was, to which I responded I had no idea, that I had to check. (I thought he had realized he had forgotten something and he had to leave). When reaching for my phone he said hurt "But you JUST checked the time!".

 

When I explained what I had done and he remembered the track changing and the music getting quieter he realized his mistake and we had a good laugh. We re-grouped and then continued our session much closer to one another.

 

Since I know some clients might be tempted to read into things, normally I narrate my actions when I do something like this: "I am going to change the music, this is too intrusive", "I have to go to pee, I will be right back", "I'll go re-fill your drink". This time, since the situation was too intimate, I didn't, he made an incorrect assumption and got hurt.

 

Don't assume and withdraw or get angry. Ask politely. Then -like an adult- share with him how you feel about this and what would be your preference. Sometimes he might be texting, sometimes he might be trying to make your session better.