Are You Disinclined to Hire a Escort Who Has (obvious) Mental Health Issues?

[+ dutchmuch]

I am not just talking about age shaving, picture theft, resume and blog puffery, et. al.

I am talking about Crazy / Kray Kray.

(you can fill in your own signs and symptoms)

[+ José Soplanucas]

It depends on the mental illness. If I find a schizophrenic that turns into puppy when he sees money, I permanently hire him.

[+ Steve yabsley]

Ummmmm.....YES.

Biggest concern is for my safety in this scenario (immediate, personal). Definite no for me.

[BaronArtz]

I hired a guy who used steroids and HGH a lot ... it messed up his mind. The mood swings were unbelievable. He was hot and deep down, a great guy. But I am glad it is over. Never again.

[nynakedtop]

I met up once with a guy who someone on the board after the fact rather generously described as having "anger management issues" - many months after our meet-up he "outed" me in some tirade on this site....

 

I have learned to be sensitive to such issues going forward.

[bigvalboy]

I don't do cray cray....The minute some rambling incoherent thought crosses his lips, I run for the hills.

[down_to_business]

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[marylander1940]

I am not just talking about age shaving, picture theft, resume and blog puffery, et. al.

I am talking about Crazy / Kray Kray.

(you can fill in your own signs and symptoms)

 

Hell yes, stay away.

 

btw, there's a lot of them unfortunately!

 

The problem is how to tell them apart from a nicer kind of person, you've only know they have "issues" if you meet them but sometimes the way they described themselves tells me we aren't a match.

 

I specially dislike guys who have in their ads: guns, confederate flags, or who say things like "white only" or "no blacks", but that's a sing of someone who isn't educated or just might be in the wrong kind of profession.

[nebula]

I hired a guy who used steroids and HGH a lot ... it messed up his mind. The mood swings were unbelievable. He was hot and deep down, a great guy. But I am glad it is over. Never again.

 

Seems to be a very common problem for bodybuilders.

[Traveler North]

I am not just talking about age shaving, picture theft, resume and blog puffery, et. al.

I am talking about Crazy / Kray Kray.

(you can fill in your own signs and symptoms)

 

I had a five year relationship with an escort who was very handsome as well as well built. He had a warm personality and was very considerate. His big problem was fits of depression which led to a nervous breakdown. He was hot but his mood swings led to an end of our relationship. I really felt sorry for him.

[nebula]

Hell yes, stay away.

 

btw, there's a lot of them unfortunately!

 

The problem is how to tell them apart from a nicer kind of person, you've only know they have "issues" if you meet them but sometimes the way they described themselves tells me we aren't a match.

 

I specially dislike guys who have in their ads: guns, confederate flags, or who say things like "white only" or "no blacks", but that's a sing of someone who isn't educated or just might be in the wrong kind of profession.

 

Another type I do not like is the ones overly stress they are straight and use this as an excuse to be lazy and not perform. If you are that straight, either go be a straight escort or find a real job. You make a living out of these people, have some gratitude and stop acting like you are doing them a favor.

[+ saminseattle]

I am talking about Crazy / Kray Kray.

(you can fill in your own signs and symptoms)

 

Does supporting Donald Trump count? Short answer: yes.

[marylander1940]

Another type I do not like is the ones overly stress they are straight and use this as an excuse to be lazy and not perform. If you are that straight, either go be a straight escort or find a real job. You make a living out of these people, have some gratitude and stop acting like you are doing them a favor.

 

I forgot to post about that...

 

Some of yinz have an obsession with alleged straight guys, I'd rather hiring a homosexual who is thinking of a guy while having sex with me instead of a guy who thinks of women, does it only for the money, and can't wait to get the hell out of my place.

 

Having said that, we all have our taste, some might enjoy hiring someone who only fucks guys for the money. Can yinz imagine fucking women for money? I'm 100% I just wouldn't be able to do it, if a straight guy has the stomach to have sex with mostly older and out of shape men, good for him and good for the ones he pleases.

 

One more thing to what I highlighted of your accurate reply: most of the times a male escort commits a crime against a gay client is a straight guy who hates himself and also hates the community that pays for him to make a living.

 

Does supporting Donald Trump count? Short answer: yes.

 

yes, and also 9/11 truther, birther, tea party, and "high hypocrisy"!

[BaronArtz]

I had a five year relationship with an escort who was very handsome as well as well built. He had a warm personality and was very considerate. His big problem was fits of depression which led to a nervous breakdown. He was hot but his mood swings led to an end of our relationship. I really felt sorry for him.

 

Right. That describes the relationship I was in. The depressions and the self-esteem issues got to be terrible. I tried to help him as well as I could, but in the end he broke it off. I miss him. I do occasionally send him a polite message saying, hey, the door is open if you want to talk. I sent the flowers he likes so much for his birthday. But he ignores everything. So many bodybuilders die young. Suicide is common. What can I do, if he doesn't want to talk/meet me? I can't be stalking him ... I truly hope he will turn his life around, before it is too late.

 

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[nebula]

Right. That describes the relationship I was in. The depressions and the self-esteem issues got to be terrible. I tried to help him as well as I could, but in the end he broke it off. I miss him. I do occasionally send him a polite message saying, hey, the door is open if you want to talk. I sent the flowers he likes so much for his birthday. But he ignores everything. So many bodybuilders die young. Suicide is common. What can I do, if he doesn't want to talk/meet me? I can't be stalking him ... I truly hope he will turn his life around, before it is too late.

 

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I think we should all go love twinks, much less of this kind of crap lol

[+ saminseattle]

Biggest concern is for my safety in this scenario (immediate, personal).

 

While this is certainly understandable, I should think there would also be an ethical impulse against “taking advantage” of someone who seems to be mentally impaired or “in his own reality.” I mean, doesn’t the whole ethical nature of this business rest upon the involvement of two consenting adults? And, depending on the nature of the mental health problems, doesn’t that raise questions about whether he really knows what he’s doing such that he can be considered consenting?

 

I hope he doesn’t mind, but I’m going to quote a question from Keith30309 in another thread because it describes what I’m getting at quite well:

 

has anyone ever come across an escort (or client for that matter) who appeared to have some organic brain disorder (being high doesn't count)? I met a guy several months ago via HOURBOY who just didn't seem 'right'. He was 100% functioning and living alone in an apartment, though his language skills were a little limited and seemed hindered (English was his only language). In thinking about it later I thought maybe it was a mild case of Aspergers but he was very physically affectionate and "touchy". He reminded me a little of someone I know who'd suffered a traumatic brain injury in an automobile accident.

What is the right thing to do if you encounter someone for an appointment and it's clear something isn't quite right?

[rvwnsd]

...What can I do, if he doesn't want to talk/meet me? I can't be stalking him ...

 

Wow. You are right, you can't stalk him. In addition to being a crime it could be a trigger that results in him acting in a way that causes him to harm you and/or himself. At the same time, your concern for and compassion toward him does not have an on/off switch, but you can't let that concern and compassion cause you to become sad or depressed. That is a tough situation to be in, Baron.

 

...I truly hope he will turn his life around, before it is too late.

 

I hope so, too. For his sake and for yours.

[+ DickyF]

I too met several times with a very sweet, funny, and adorable young man. I came to suspect though that he is somewhat bipolar - a debilitating condition. We talk once in a while and I know he is having a tough time with his mood.

[+ DERRIK]

People with mental/emotional PTSD issues need support

 

Friends - family - community - medical - business - social services etc

 

As an occasional client. I am note sure how much help I can be except treat him with respect and not further abuse him

[jjkrkwood]

CRAZY, but Hung....? OK works for ME !

 

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[jojo]

I am very leery of sociopaths. I have found them to be the most sinister!

[Kippy]

Young, dumb and full of cum works just fine for me. However, I draw the line at "It puts the lotion in the basket..." !

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

[Despardo]

I have never hired a crazy person on purpose. That does not mean that you won't get one. These days I try hard not to hire weirdos, crackpots, serious druggies, guys who want to move in with me--that day, the financially desperate and the emotionally overly needy. Been there, done that.

[+ dutchmuch]

Young, dumb and full of cum works just fine for me. However, I draw the line at "It puts the lotion in the basket..." !

 

Peace,

 

Kipp

 

 

Kippy, that should be: Young, hung, dumb and full of cum.

[Despardo]

I too met several times with a very sweet, funny, and adorable young man. I came to suspect though that he is somewhat bipolar - a debilitating condition. We talk once in a while and I know he is having a tough time with his mood.

Bi-polar is at least treatable. If one could pick one's form of mental illness (which of course one can't) it would be a better choice than many. At least 3 people in my life have suffered from bi-polar disorder to one degree or another. The problems arise when they go off their meds. Quite often they are highly intelligent and creative people, and the medication takes the edge off their creative enthusiasm which is why they don't like taking the meds. Without the medication, they tend to spin out of control and start hatching exciting sounding and ambitious plans that sound great at first, but upon closer examination prove to be wildly unrealistic and impractical.