New Horizons Of Acceptance And Self-Confidence!!

[JDXXX]

In three days you will be posting another faux epiphany about how horrifically you have been treated and yet managed to come through by “taking the high road” and “rising above” and whatever Kool-Aid you have drunk this time.

 

:eek:. See my point, folks!! What kind of reference were you referring to by mentioning "Kool-Aid"? Hmmm, makes one wonder does it?

 

I was going to suggest that Mocha could truly learn something from you regarding his anger-centric approach to escorting, but really the both of you are two sides of the same coin. Neither of you knows a whit about accepting criticism in the slightest, and both of you post threads that are not intended to actually generate any responses or constructive feedback. You talk only because you are entranced by the sound of your own voice.

 

Maybe because what me and Mocha are speaking could be related to truth about certain experiences we face in every day society unlike you who have no idea to such relations, and it speaks just now in your insensitive post unfortunately which also implied something negative about you mentioning the word/reference "Kool Aid". Wrong choice of words to use, sweetie which proves Mocha's point more and more due to "references" such as to what you just made, buddy.

[WorldwideTraveler]

:eek:. See my point, folks!! What kind of reference were you referring to by mentioning "Kool-Aid"? Hmmm, makes one wonder does it?

 

 

 

Maybe because what me and Mocha are speaking could be related to truth about certain experiences we face in every day society unlike you who have no idea to such relations, and it speaks just now in your insensitive post unfortunately which also implied something negative about you mentioning the word/reference "Kool Aid". Wrong choice of words to use, sweetie which proves Mocha's point more and more due to "references" such as to what you just made, buddy.

 

JD, this is where I put your education into question myself. It's common knowledge when someone says "drinking the Kool-aid" it means that they're believing the bullshit. In this case, you're believing your own. Your mind immediately went to it's that your black. Stop being ignorant and insecure. I think you're highly sensitive to being black because you think it's worked against you, for whatever reason. Has it? Have you not won escorting's greatest achievement? But yet you still feel suppressed. It's in your mind, Mr masters degree in psychology, with honors. You desperately want to blame everything on being black. It takes the blame off the things you can actually control. In your mind it's leaving you with acceptable reasons to be unaccountable and therefore there's no need to "grow." You clearly are unaware of acceptable references, which explains a lot. If he said grape soda, that's a questionable use of words It's like that headline a few years ago when the word niggardly was used during a ceremony speech, everyone went nuts yelling racism, when the word was never even used in that context. So once again, stop being ignorant, as I'm sure that wasn't his "intention."

[YoungAD]

Exactly. Your cultural ignorance is astounding.

 

Especially since this is a term that goes hand-in-hand with psychology.

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I agree - it's sad to see happening at times, but true.

 

 

Thank you, Jeep as it's nice that some of the members notice what my intentions are which are mostly good and real - not anything self-promoting or fake. It's not like I mean to upset people on purpose by sharing life experiences. However - I will be sure to use caution when posting "certain" aspects about my life from now on being how it disturbs or offend others who think post such things are ways of gaining attention which is NOT the reason I post or intended to be. Very sorry for certain individuals it tends to come off or rub them the wrong way. .

 

 

JD I do want to point out you misunderstood my message. yes while I think you are a good person with good intentions I think you are a HUGE self promoter and as I said in my first post I feel like your posting these to get attention and as self promotion. I don't want you to never talk about your experiences. that's how you became the man you are today. it's more about bragging on a discussion what you accomplished. I think worldtraveler pointed it out very well the Dallas threads tendency to highlight your accomplishments in the post. I don't think your posts are fake but I do feel some are disingenuous.

 

youngad has some excellent points in his posting. but I don't want to pile on, so I bid you adieu for the evening

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[MiamiLooker]

Using and manipulating friends is NEVER a good thing, and NOT something to take lightly of or laugh about either.

You don't recognize nor accept that your ACTIONS speak so much louder than your words?

[Guy Fawkes]

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[mike carey]

Deep pan with ham, mushrooms, olives and anchovies!

[bigvalboy]

I thought we all had agreed on Cheesecake when we're in the middle of a crises....

[AdamSmith]

I thought we all had agreed on Cheesecake from now on...

cheesecake

The social consumption of a single food item in one sitting. Often starting from the inside and working your way out.

this plate of sausage looks so good we are going to cheesecake the hell out of it.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=cheesecake

[Mikegaite]

JD, you're a smart guy. You'll figure out what's working and what isn't. You've received a lot of helpful feedback in various threads, so the ball's in your court. It's not easy to put yourself out there as an escort without getting caught up in drama (regardless of who caused said drama). Good luck. Hugs.

[JDXXX]

JD, you're a smart guy. You'll figure out what's working and what isn't. You've received a lot of helpful feedback in various threads, so the ball's in your court. It's not easy to put yourself out there as an escort without getting caught up in drama (regardless of who caused said drama). Good luck. Hugs.

 

Hi Mike,

 

After all the feedback I received so far whether I agreed or disagreed, I'm gonna be wise(with your advice included) and accept feedback that's been given(good or bad). Best to use what everyone had to say to my advantage, and utilize what's been shared with me on a positive note.

 

I agree with what you said, and do Thank you for chiming as I appreciate(as always of your input). .

 

Hugs,

[AndreFuture]

Hi Mike,

 

After all the feedback I received so far whether I agreed or disagreed, I'm gonna be wise(with your advice included) and accept feedback that's been given(good or bad). Best to use what everyone had to say to my advantage, and utilize what's been shared with me on a positive note.

 

I agree with what you said, and do Thank you for chiming as I appreciate(as always of your input). .

 

Hugs,

 

I would even go so far as to try not being on the forum for a week. You seem to spend quite a bit of time posting and replying. Spend that time on self development and critical introspection.

 

I know the forum can be very engaging and inviting, but as an escort, I personally treat this space much differently than I would a regular social space. Here, I'm a businessman engaging with potential clients, so what I say is far more deliberate, circumspect, and cordial than if I was just "being myself" on a regular forum (or if I was a client). There are times I want to comment or say something, but it wouldn't necessarily be something that a client needs to know about me, if that makes sense. It's not being dishonest, but rather behaving appropriately in a space as your position would indicate. Sure, it's momentarily satisfying to have the last word, but I don't know if clients want to see that, you know?

 

You've indicated that you'll listen to advice; I hope you take it a step forward and heed some of that advice too Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.

[+ WilliamM]

I would even go so far as to try not being on the forum for a week. You seem to spend quite a bit of time posting and replying. Spend that time on self development and critical introspection.

 

I know the forum can be very engaging and inviting, but as an escort, I personally treat this space much differently than I would a regular social space. Here, I'm a businessman engaging with potential clients, so what I say is far more deliberate, circumspect, and cordial than if I was just "being myself" on a regular forum (or if I was a client). There are times I want to comment or say something, but it wouldn't necessarily be something that a client needs to know about me, if that makes sense. It's not being dishonest, but rather behaving appropriately in a space as your position would indicate. Sure, it's momentarily satisfying to have the last word, but I don't know if clients want to see that, you know?

 

You've indicated that you'll listen to advice; I hope you take it a step forward and heed some of that advice too Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.

I would even go so far as to try not being on the forum for a week. You seem to spend quite a bit of time posting and replying. Spend that time on self development and critical introspection.

 

I know the forum can be very engaging and inviting, but as an escort, I personally treat this space much differently than I would a regular social space. Here, I'm a businessman engaging with potential clients, so what I say is far more deliberate, circumspect, and cordial than if I was just "being myself" on a regular forum (or if I was a client). There are times I want to comment or say something, but it wouldn't necessarily be something that a client needs to know about me, if that makes sense. It's not being dishonest, but rather behaving appropriately in a space as your position would indicate. Sure, it's momentarily satisfying to have the last word, but I don't know if clients want to see that, you know?

 

You've indicated that you'll listen to advice; I hope you take it a step forward and heed some of that advice too Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.

 

In JD's defense, he did receive the EOY award recently. I understand that it's mostly due to his escorting skills. But a number of people stated here that although they had never hired JD, they liked many of his posts on this site.

[+ WilliamM]

JD to an extent I do agree and I do think that WorldwideTraveler has a great suggestion for you. As I stated earlier I think you have some great insightful comments and suggestions for others when you respond to posts. I enjoy reading these. One of the reason I don't ignore your threads is because I am interested in what you have to say. I also think that Desparado and FTM had excellent observations and feedback that I know you will consider.

 

I think one of the things you should take away from this is that there are so many people on this board that want to see you to succeed and care about your future. While you may get constructive feedback that is difficult it comes out of a place of encouragement and not in an attacking way that does sometimes happen to others on this board. I think you are one of the folks on here that nearly everybody likes.

 

I have talk to JD on the phone, but never met him. Even when I disagree, it is difficult for me to get frustrated. So I agree with: "I think you are one of the folks on here that nearly everybody likes."