Within a few seconds of answering the phone can you tell if he will close the deal?

[+ azdr0710]

It's paraphrased from a line in My Big Fat Greek Wedding

 

I didn't know that....thanks, Matt

[mattr]

I didn't know that....thanks, Matt

 

[killianjamesnyc]

Well, I'm kinda with @jeepo1. I've hired for over 10 years and that has been my opening line on text since I started using text: 'hi, this is Xx, is this Y?" I'm not nervous, I've triple checked the number before texting my greeting, but im always wanting to ensure the gentleman on the other side of my text acknowledges that he is indeed the person I intended to connect with. If he gave me a smart ass answer - never happened, thank goodness! - I would just move on to the next escort. It is that easy.

 

We must have never chatted then. I often get those and my replies tend to be "that depends who this is" "your making me question my own identity" "you found me! These glasses clearly aren't a good disguise"

[jackjackjack]

Well, I'm kinda with @jeepo1. I've hired for over 10 years and that has been my opening line on text since I started using text: 'hi, this is Xx, is this Y?" I'm not nervous, I've triple checked the number before texting my greeting, but im always wanting to ensure the gentleman on the other side of my text acknowledges that he is indeed the person I intended to connect with. If he gave me a smart ass answer - never happened, thank goodness! - I would just move on to the next escort. It is that easy.

 

 

Well, I'm kinda with @jeepo1. I've hired for over 10 years and that has been my opening line on text since I started using text: 'hi, this is Xx, is this Y?" I'm not nervous, I've triple checked the number before texting my greeting, but im always wanting to ensure the gentleman on the other side of my text acknowledges that he is indeed the person I intended to connect with. If he gave me a smart ass answer - never happened, thank goodness! - I would just move on to the next escort. It is that easy.

 

I'm like TrueR, I keep my text generic at first...just making sure I have the right person at the other end of the text.

[mike carey]

We must have never chatted then. I often get those and my replies tend to be "that depends who this is" "your making me question my own identity" "you found me! These glasses clearly aren't a good disguise"

I've never chatted with you either Killian, and I think I would also be nervous. I would be confident that I had the numbers right but that wouldn't cure the nervousness! You are a public figure in the forum so you can afford to be 'not nervous', the rest of us, whether reasonably or not will be nervous about approaching someone like you. I hope that if I am the one doing that I will be confident enough to say, 'Hey Killian, how are you going', and not try to hide in some sort of anonymity.

[+ Truereview]

We must have never chatted then. I often get those and my replies tend to be "that depends who this is" "your making me question my own identity" "you found me! These glasses clearly aren't a good disguise"

 

LOL! you are right, KJ, we haven't chatted. I tend to like my companions less intimidatingly fabulous. But give me some grace as I attempt to react to your 3 answer samples:

 

1. "that depends who this is" - TR's reaction: click...onto the next hottie...
   
2. "you r making me question my own identity" - TR's reaction: Uhmmm...vague, I might try one more text...
   
3. "you found me! These glasses clearly aren't a good disguise" TR's reaction: ding, ding, ding! He has not only confirmed that he is indeed the super fabulous Killian James, but he is witty - and not in a smart-ass-kinda-way!
   

I vote for answer #3. The only negative would be that my bar would now be higher for you, and I would expect even more wit and charm from you in the ensuing texts. I'm fickle that way.

 

Happy new year, KJ. May you continue to bring much joy to the fan base - TR

[marylander1940]

In a nutshell yes. Typically when I answer the phone "hello this is Killian" and the response is "what's up" and then silence or "hey, saw your ad" and then silence it doesn't even turn into an appointment. Funny story. So yesterday a call came in and the voice goes "is this the man on the website?" When silliness gets thrown your way spin it into an opportunity for the person to redeem themselves. Simply state "by the way this conversation is going I'm starting to doubt your intentions to hire me are serious." How the voice reacts after that will tell you everything you need to know. If you're getting the What's Up texts just simply reply "appointments are only made by phone, please call at your convenience, thank you." Always try to be the neck, it can turn the head anyway it wants

 

What's up? Aren't your clients (usually) too old to talk like that?

 

That's why 2 minutes talking over the phone is better than endless texting...

[Todd99]

Todd what issues have you had with RMs email? I don't recall having issues with it. It seems shortly after they send an email I get a text notifying me.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Maybe it's just the escorts I was dealing with were slow to respond? It seems like when I email directly rather than through rentmen, the escort responds much more quickly.

[calrichmond]

Within a few seconds of answering the phone can you tell if he would close the deal and hire or you or if he's just shopping around?

 

I know escorts who tell me every time they hear: "What's up?" they know the would-be-client won't close the deal and its a waste of time.

 

Do you have a sixth sense and can tell a flake?

It surprises me that this is so common. I never call an escort unless I am ready to fuck or to schedule a session. Now I understand why some escorts I wanted to fuck never responded back; they assume I am a flake. A few times, though, I did let escorts I never hired know I was on this forum and did reviews. I thought that would help alert them to the fact I'm not a flake.

 

Professionalism goes two ways. We all enjoy a professional escort, and I think the session goes better when clients act professionally as well.

[+ glennnn]

My times with Dane Scott and with Nate in LA were perfect. I felt really nervous contacting Nate, my first escort, but I just laid my info (age, inexperience, desire to be respectful, need for guidance) out in my first email and he took over and gently guided me into his bed. If he was impatient or doubtful he never showed it. The appointment was beyond my expectations, too, and I will always thank him for his firm, but gentle professionalism, combined with great sexual prowess. Maybe this is all why he is so well regarded in the escort world. He patiently, passionately did his job.

 

I see a few escorts on here who complain about being disrespected, but sometimes their attitude towards clients verges on animosity. Yes, we can be annoying, naive and shy. But we are people and hiring isn't easy for us. I hope my past posts here have proven that I am a loving, respectful guy who supports all escorts and appreciates their generosity in helping us safely fill our physical needs, but a few of you need to lighten up. If you really don't like dealing with us, the clients, get into a new line of work. After all, no clients, no escorts. Just saying...

 

For the vast majority who approach us with professionalism, kindness and yes, affection, thank you and may 2016 be cum your most lucrative year ever....... And may I get to sample your wares!

[MikeyGMin]

Oh please, please name names. Let's start the new year with some drama!

 

(I am completely and 100% kidding.)

[+ Lance_Navarro]

My times with Dane Scott and with Nate in LA were perfect. I felt really nervous contacting Nate, my first escort, but I just laid my info (age, inexperience, desire to be respectful, need for guidance) out in my first email and he took over and gently guided me into his bed. If he was impatient or doubtful he never showed it. The appointment was beyond my expectations, too, and I will always thank him for his firm, but gentle professionalism, combined with great sexual prowess. Maybe this is all why he is so well regarded in the escort world. He patiently, passionately did his job.

 

I see a few escorts on here who complain about being disrespected, but sometimes their attitude towards clients verges on animosity. Yes, we can be annoying, naive and shy. But we are people and hiring isn't easy for us. I hope my past posts here have proven that I am a loving, respectful guy who supports all escorts and appreciates their generosity in helping us safely fill our physical needs, but a few of you need to lighten up. If you really don't like dealing with us, the clients, get into a new line of work. After all, no clients, no escorts. Just saying...

 

For the vast majority who approach us with professionalism, kindness and yes, affection, thank you and may 2016 be cum your most lucrative year ever....... And may I get to sample your wares!

 

Thanks so much for sharing that, and I'm so happy to hear that you had a great time with both Dane and Nate. You do sound like a very kind and respectful soul and I agree, if escorts aren't comfortable working with all different types, including those that are anxious or inexperienced, than they should be doing something different. Same goes for age, size, ethnicity and all the other factors that shouldn't be a factor in being able to share intimacy and passion with another. Hope you have a wonderful New Years as well!

 

Love & Light

Lance

[+ Keith30309]

It surprises me that this is so common. I never call an escort unless I am ready to fuck or to schedule a session. Now I understand why some escorts I wanted to fuck never responded back; they assume I am a flake. A few times, though, I did let escorts I never hired know I was on this forum and did reviews. I thought that would help alert them to the fact I'm not a flake.

 

Professionalism goes two ways. We all enjoy a professional escort, and I think the session goes better when clients act professionally as well.

 

Same here.

If we've never met and I'm sending you a text/email then 100% of the time I already know the date & time I want to meet (and a contingency).

[marylander1940]

So, I've noticed several ads recently on rentmen where the escort will ask to be contacted by text or email, but then does not include contact information. That forces me to use the rentmen email, which is crap. Please include phone and email in the body of the ad. It makes it so much easier.

 

As far as texting "Hi" or "What's up", what is it that escorts want me to say on a first text to someone I have never met? "Hi, Mr. Escort. Are you available to fuck me at 9:45pm on Tuesday night." Is that a proper initial text? Personally, I'd rather start out with "Hi" and hope the escort picks up the conversation.

 

"Hi, I'm visiting town and I wonder if you're free".

"Hi, I'll be visiting town next week (dates) and I wonder if you'll be in town".

 

Local guys:

 

"Hi, I are you free/will you be free (dates)? I live in (neighborhood)."

[LADoug1]

My times with Dane Scott and with Nate in LA were perfect. I felt really nervous contacting Nate, my first escort, but I just laid my info (age, inexperience, desire to be respectful, need for guidance) out in my first email and he took over and gently guided me into his bed. If he was impatient or doubtful he never showed it. The appointment was beyond my expectations, too, and I will always thank him for his firm, but gentle professionalism, combined with great sexual prowess. Maybe this is all why he is so well regarded in the escort world. He patiently, passionately did his job.

 

I see a few escorts on here who complain about being disrespected, but sometimes their attitude towards clients verges on animosity. Yes, we can be annoying, naive and shy. But we are people and hiring isn't easy for us. I hope my past posts here have proven that I am a loving, respectful guy who supports all escorts and appreciates their generosity in helping us safely fill our physical needs, but a few of you need to lighten up. If you really don't like dealing with us, the clients, get into a new line of work. After all, no clients, no escorts. Just saying...

 

For the vast majority who approach us with professionalism, kindness and yes, affection, thank you and may 2016 be cum your most lucrative year ever....... And may I get to sample your wares!

No one does it better than Dane Scott.

[Rudynate]

It's probably that way with a lot of professions. In my business, I have already categorized a phone prospect after his/her first sentence.

[BabyBoomer]

• 
   
  If they text I ask them for their age, and anyone below 35 I completely don't respond back.
  

Do you have any other restrictions?

 

~ Boomer ~

[MikeyGMin]

If they text I ask them for their age, and anyone below 35 I completely don't respond back.

 

If you asked my age I would assume you are screening out old dudes...not young ones. I get your logic. It's just not where my head would go.

[mattr]

is allowed to meet

 

WOW

[marylander1940]

It's probably that way with a lot of professions. In my business, I have already categorized a phone prospect after his/her first sentence.

 

Many escorts tell me the same, if they hear: "What's up?", etc

there's something in the tone of the time wasters, or guys who ask them if they're free and after "let me see if I'm free later", I guess it's part of the business.

 

umm well i don't do travel in any other borough other than manhattan.

oh and i don't know if this is smart or not but I don't meet without a face picture of the person. I may have loss lots of clients doing that, but this discreet nonsense won't fly by me.

 

so yes a face pic, cell phone and a complete address with an apt number listed is allowed to meet. Aint no one got time meeting on some random street corner in the winter for someone to show up or not.

 

How many clients you tell them "thanks but no thanks", after getting a face picture of them?

 

What if the potential client sends you a face picture and describes himself as "chubby"... but when he shows up he's close to 300 lbs?

 

Do you turn him down there at your door/his hotel?

[+ Truereview]

[MikeyGMin]

I have NEVER turned anyone down after getting a face picture from them. Im not asking for face pics to see if they are attractive or not, I'm asking for them because it makes me feel a little better about how serious they are to meet plus it gives me an overall impression on what to expect.

 

Funny thing is I've actually had a client close to 300 pounds and he's a pretty cool guy, if your in this business, age or weight shouldn't PHASE you at all. I have never turned down anyone at my door/their hotel because they made the effort to first send pictures before meeting plus thats a little rude as well.

 

You'll find guys on this site who are passionately opposed to pictures both for privacy reasons and not wanting to be judged. I always send a picture after the meeting has been arranged. I feel the escort has a right to know they are greeting the correct person. However, if I'm asked for the picture too soon, I am also likely to feel that I'm being judged.

[marylander1940]

I have NEVER turned anyone down after getting a face picture from them. Im not asking for face pics to see if they are attractive or not, I'm asking for them because it makes me feel a little better about how serious they are to meet plus it gives me an overall impression on what to expect.

 

Funny thing is I've actually had a client close to 300 pounds and he's a pretty cool guy, if your in this business, age or weight shouldn't PHASE you at all. I have never turned down anyone at my door/their hotel because they made the effort to first send pictures before meeting plus thats a little rude as well.

 

Good for you!

[Mikegaite]

I can honestly tell from the diction and syntax of emails whether people will flake. I have a little more difficulty reading flakiness over the phone, but my intuition is still pretty good there. It's like obscenity under the law: I know it when I see it even though I cannot easily define it.

[mattr]

You'll find guys on this site who are passionately opposed to pictures both for privacy reasons and not wanting to be judged. I always send a picture after the meeting has been arranged. I feel the escort has a right to know they are greeting the correct person. However, if I'm asked for the picture too soon, I am also likely to feel that I'm being judged.

 

I will never send a picture for privacy reasons, not for fear of being judged. If this diminishes the pool of escorts available to me, so be it.