Why don't many escorts return calls or emails?

[hekilio]

If an escort communicates irresponsibly, is it appropriate to call them out on forums such as this by name? Technically it would not be a review since no meeting took place.

[hekilio]

If an escort communicates irresponsibly, is it appropriate to call them out on forums such as this by name? Technically it would not be a review since no meeting took place.

[bobchitown]

The same goes for masseurs. Why do they even pay for an ad, and never return texts or voicemails?

Or they do, and ask you a hundred questions and then say they're booked.

[bobchitown]

The same goes for masseurs. Why do they even pay for an ad, and never return texts or voicemails?

Or they do, and ask you a hundred questions and then say they're booked.

[Mikegaite]

Who is Tyler?

 

The OP was tedbear. No where in this thread does the OP mention meeting anyone.

 

I'm confused.

 

~ Boomer ~

 

Oops I was referring to mattr's thread on almost this exact same topic. The thread then died once Tyger (Portland) responded and all was well.

[Mikegaite]

Who is Tyler?

 

The OP was tedbear. No where in this thread does the OP mention meeting anyone.

 

I'm confused.

 

~ Boomer ~

 

Oops I was referring to mattr's thread on almost this exact same topic. The thread then died once Tyger (Portland) responded and all was well.

[BaronArtz]

 

I can come up with an endless list of reasons as to why I may not respond to a client or potential client. Some include:

• You failed my background check process. In this case, your email address or phone number become blocked immediately. This accounts for about 15% to 20% of all contact attempts.
  

 

Hi Kurtis - I liked what you wrote. What is your background check process? What does it consist of? I am surprised that 15-20% of all inquiries get blocked because of it, it seems like a high rejection rate. I am just curious about it, so that I don't make that mistake as a prospective client of yours. Thanks!

[BaronArtz]

 

I can come up with an endless list of reasons as to why I may not respond to a client or potential client. Some include:

• You failed my background check process. In this case, your email address or phone number become blocked immediately. This accounts for about 15% to 20% of all contact attempts.
  

 

Hi Kurtis - I liked what you wrote. What is your background check process? What does it consist of? I am surprised that 15-20% of all inquiries get blocked because of it, it seems like a high rejection rate. I am just curious about it, so that I don't make that mistake as a prospective client of yours. Thanks!

[Wolfer]

Hi Kurtis - I liked what you wrote. What is your background check process? What does it consist of? I am surprised that 15-20% of all inquiries get blocked because of it, it seems like a high rejection rate. I am just curious about it, so that I don't make that mistake as a prospective client of yours. Thanks!

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing... I make sure that none of my communication channels with escorts are able to be traced back to my real life persona, for discretion, naturally. So is that a reason to get blocked? That you can't reverse search information on a client?

[Wolfer]

Hi Kurtis - I liked what you wrote. What is your background check process? What does it consist of? I am surprised that 15-20% of all inquiries get blocked because of it, it seems like a high rejection rate. I am just curious about it, so that I don't make that mistake as a prospective client of yours. Thanks!

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing... I make sure that none of my communication channels with escorts are able to be traced back to my real life persona, for discretion, naturally. So is that a reason to get blocked? That you can't reverse search information on a client?

[RussJohnson]

OK - I'm a little pissed off and need some help from the members in deciding if I'm unreasonable or have unrealistic expectations of an escort's obligation to meet what I perceive to be implied commitments.

 

Two similar scenarios: escort advertises visit to city, client contacts escort to arrange meeting and pleasantries exchanged, when day approaches a time and location are agreed upon (i.e., Monday, 3:00pm, at Hotel X at 123 Main St.), client arranges business schedule to meet escort, escort cancels with little/no notice, reason given is financial.

 

Scenario 1: escort cancels evening before agreed-upon time - text message cryptic but seems that price of flight is the issue.

Scenario 2: escort emails that flight delayed & client re-rearranges schedule; escort emails 3 hours after meeting time and says that a regular client happens to be in town and has hired him for the weekend. Sorry.

 

Common element#1 - communications were all via text & email; I'm learning that this invites problems, though I'm not sure it would have changed anything in either case.

Common element#2 - client mistakenly interprets escorts' visits as being rock-solid commitment after time & location decided rather than tentative and based on some other criterion.

Common element #3 - escorts' decisions are based purely on the business case - expenses vs. income - it's nothing personal.

 

 

So kids - does client need to put on his big-girl panties and accept the fact that IT'S A BUSINESS and it's not always going to be a win-win. Or, is client's consternation justified at having rearranged his schedule and made arrangements based on a good-faith assumption that agreement was a commitment which was not honored?

 

I bet you get different answers from different providers. I would say I stick to first-come-first-serve if someone has made an honest commitment and schedule and seems legit. But if it's a weekly regular vs. "Hey I'll be visiting town on Tuesday getting in at 5 call you when I arrive." Then I'll go with the regular.

 

In your scenarios I would say they should give you more notice and give you the opportunity to match the offer at least. No it's a tough call, but frustrations happen on both sides.

[+ goosh69]

The more information you find, the worse off we are? Great, that's one crossed off my to-hire list.

[jimboivyo]

The more information you find, the worse off we are? Great, that's one crossed off my to-hire list.

 

you can't blame any escort for wanting to protect themselves against folks with bad intent

 

vetting is something all working guys should be doing

[Frequentflier]

I give everyone at least 24 hours to respond to any electronic communication. If I need to communicate with someone sooner, I call them. Sometimes I text before calling to see if its a good time to talk. I am no longer tethered to my phone/email/text and my life is better for that freedom. I also find people respect my time more because I'm not available 24/7. Customers though do get priority as they should but I tell them they can call 7 days a week and on off hours calling is better than emailing or texting.