To contact or no?

[Tuffpie]

Hi, guys. I literally stumbled across the FB page of a stripper I want to see in Montreal; hopefully get some off premises time with him.

 

Is it kosher to message him? It feels creepy because it's uninvited. His FB page has no mention of his stripping work and is all personal. What do you think? Yes or no?

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

No.

[+ azdr0710]

can you just go see him at his stripper gig, chat him up, tip generously, then ask if he's up for a private meeting?.....

 

I suppose a stranger bringing it up on his FB page might appear stalker-ish, especially since there's no mention of it

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

No, you do not want the "stalker" label.

[gallahadesquire]

Methinks "stumbled" is the operative word here. "Searched" might be less intense, but still bad.

[+ purplekow]

Definitely NO NO NO. This is disrespectful of his privacy and quite frankly, he would be perfectly justified after such an attempt to ignore you in this and in any other attempts at contact.

[rvwnsd]

Add me to the chorus of naysayers. Would you like a dancer who recognizes you on Facebook to send you a note asking if you want to hire him?

[AdamSmith]

No nyet nein kein. Do it any other way but that.

[Tuffpie]

Yeah, I was in a fight between the little head and the big head; my big head usually wins but sometimes it's a struggle. :-) Thanks everyone.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

The big head was already winning the fight... that's why you asked.

We were just fans cheering from ringside.

[Odinochka]

Hi, guys. I literally stumbled across the FB page of a stripper I want to see in Montreal; hopefully get some off premises time with him.

 

Is it kosher to message him? It feels creepy because it's uninvited. His FB page has no mention of his stripping work and is all personal. What do you think? Yes or no?

 

DO NOT DO THAT. If you want some dirty-dirty-nasty-nasty, then you approach via a different avenue. His Facebook is his real every day life. Unless you are a part of that, then leave that alone.

[Juan Vancouver]

Glad you asked.

 

Absolutely not.