Out of bounds by an escort?

[robberbaron4u]

I surmise him to be expensive, not costly. There is a difference. . .

[ncc1701d]

Escorts and clients need to remember; this is a business. In business sometimes there are attempts at negoiations. Neither side should be offended. If a client asks for a better price the escort has every right to say no; politely.

 

What was the ecort trying to do? Has he become the "escort police" trying to punish someone who wanted to negotiate? There is only one word for this - outrageous! How dare an escort go so low as to possibly ruin a person's reputation!

 

Exactly....and in these days, how can one even be sure that the so call client's pics is indeed the client unless they showed up.....stealing others pictures for internet profiles is hardly unheard of...so now he may have condemned a perfectly innocent person who doesn't even know what hit him!!!!

[+ poolboy48220]

How someone treats people who 'don't matter' to them is a mark of their character.

 

Way off on a tangent from Mr Wolf: In the late 1940s Ben Chifley was the Australian prime minister. Like all prime ministers, Chifley had a private phone on his desk—the number known only to his wife, senior colleagues and advisers. It was, of course, a silent number, but apparently was only one digit removed from the number for the butcher shop in the nearby suburb of Manuka. Occasionally, the phone would ring and when the Prime Minister of Australia answered, he would find a housewife calling, wanting to leave her meat order for the weekend. And what would Chifley do? Of course, he would simply take the order for the chops, the leg of lamb, or whatever, saying nothing to the caller except, ‘Yes, madam’, then when she had rung off, he would phone the butcher himself and say, ‘It’s happened again’, and repeat the order.

That is amazingly classy. I applaud him.

[greatnorthernp]

Are we discussing Austin Wolf? I guessed it even before looking at his feed because previously he texted the phone #s of clients who stood him up or did other transgressions.

 

Ha! Beat you to it.

 

I hadn't even gotten to "shame him" before the thought, "Not that diva, Austin Wolf, again!" arose.

 

Thankfully, my experience was less traumatic. I had emailed him to see if he'd like a weekend up here in Montreal or Toronto. The response was such an obvious attempt at humiliation by email that an unkind thought crossed my mind.

 

I wouldn't recommend even a preliminary contact with a psyche that toxic.

[+ poolboy48220]

Didn't Austin Wolf also say he wasn't into asians? Could that have influenced his posting? Or am I mixing up my escorts?

[Bargara Leatherboy]

The client looked like he comes from a culture where bargaining is standard for every financial transaction. Just say not negotiable.

[Guest Starbuck]

Other escorts and porn stars might find it best to stop associating with this bastard before a house falls on them too. Guilt by association.

 

That's an interesting thought--particularly because this is only the latest incident, not a new behavior.

 

I could understand why escorts would be inclined to avoid making any comment about this, so I was pleased to see that a couple of working gentlemen--Tristan and Juan--stepped up and gave a "LIKE" to the assessment that Mr. Wolf's conduct is "heinous" and "reprehensible." (See post #5.) Kudos to them.

 

What I can't understand is any escort (or client, or thinking person) wanting to defend such behavior, or make excuses for it, but that did happen in a previous discussion on this Forum about Mr. Wolf's interest in "shaming the john" (if that term can even apply to a person the escort has never met).

 

Then and now: helpful information to assess who we would--and wouldn't--like to meet.

[AdamSmith]

That is amazingly classy. I applaud him.

 

It is! A friend had a similar experience in the IT biz. He was doing some creative work as a contractor to IBM's PR department, and one day phoned a number for Armonk HQ that he thought was one of Gerstner's administrative assistants. He dialed, someone picked up and answered: "Lou Gerstner."

 

My friend stammered out that he was looking for the number of so-and-so in PR. Gerstner quietly said, "Let me look," looked it up and gave it to him. Then said, "Here's my AA's direct line if you ever need anything else." Which my friend well understood to mean, Please forget that you ever found my direct line.

 

Still, class.

[+ quoththeraven]

If, as I surmise, A. Wolf is getting by as an escort on his looks and porn stardom, that light will eventually fade. Escorts whose appeal includes a winning personality and discretion as well as looks and sexual prowess (though the jury seems to be out on that second one for Mr. Wolf) can continue working into late middle age and beyond. The rest should be planning their exit or saving for retirement.

[tsgarp]

The escort in question (IMHO) isn't even that attractive! Looks like another aging queen at a WeHo gym. Move on!

[mike carey]

If, as I surmise, A. Wolf is getting by as an escort on his looks and porn stardom, that light will eventually fade. Escorts whose appeal includes a winning personality and discretion as well as looks and sexual prowess (though the jury seems to be out on that second one for Mr. Wolf) can continue working into late middle age and beyond. The rest should be planning their exit or saving for retirement.

With his looks he could easily build a clientele that would enable him to earn for years to come. If he doesn't want to do that he is behaving in precisely the correct way. I hope he has an alternative future planned out: he will need it.

[biggerbilly]

The escort in question (IMHO) isn't even that attractive! Looks like another aging queen at a WeHo gym. Move on!

Gotta agree, I don't get his appeal. I don't think his ugly, but nothing to write home about. And as a fitness follower, his physique isn't that impressive to me. He looks like someone who relies on steroids and doesn't put much effort into his workout routine. The only "plus" to him is he's tall, and that means nothing to me.

[gallahadesquire]

there is only one consequence when you bite the hand that feeds you. i hope he is saving enough for his retirement.

 

At the rate he is going: Saved enough for his retirement. Methinks it might come sooner than later.

[gallahadesquire]

How someone treats people who 'don't matter' to them is a mark of their character.

 

Way off on a tangent from Mr Wolf: In the late 1940s Ben Chifley was the Australian prime minister. Like all prime ministers, Chifley had a private phone on his desk—the number known only to his wife, senior colleagues and advisers. It was, of course, a silent number, but apparently was only one digit removed from the number for the butcher shop in the nearby suburb of Manuka. Occasionally, the phone would ring and when the Prime Minister of Australia answered, he would find a housewife calling, wanting to leave her meat order for the weekend. And what would Chifley do? Of course, he would simply take the order for the chops, the leg of lamb, or whatever, saying nothing to the caller except, ‘Yes, madam’, then when she had rung off, he would phone the butcher himself and say, ‘It’s happened again’, and repeat the order.

 

This happened with a Patient Care Aide in my clinic. She was in charge of ordering supplies. Fill in the order form & fax it. Order arrives next day.

 

One day she called the purveyor to ask a question:

"Oh, we don't have your account."

"But I've been faxing to you for years."

"Yes, I know. I just forward the faxes to your real purveyor."

 

She got the right number, but this is what I call Customer Service!

[corndog]

I'll share this curious detail about Mr. Wolf:

 

Last year at Southern Decadence in New Orleans, he was bartending daily at Oz. At the time, he also had an ad up on rentboy with a rate that I recall being ridiculously high, although I don't remember exactly, maybe $600/hr or more. It felt like the rate was deliberately set to discourage all but the most dedicated clients from hiring him that weekend.

 

I was really puzzled at the time, and I still am. I know that bartenders can make really good money during Southern Decadence, but I have trouble believing that they can make more than a successful escort would. I saw him bartending quite regularly over the weekend, and with the heat and crowds, its an exhausting job. I can't imagine that there was much opportunity for him to escort also.

 

As a bartender, he seemed competent, but somewhat cold. He was nice eye-candy, but I wasn't really tempted to hire him. (And now, I certainly wouldn't consider it.)

[+ LAdude424]

Apparently, if you ask for a discount, in A Wolfe's view you are "Fucking with his world", requiring him to "Fuck with yours"

 

I can see A Wolfe at the grocery store:

"Excuse me I only have one item and I'm in a hurry, can i dart in front of you"

"OH that's IT Motherfucker, It is ON, You are going DOWN, I'm gonna rain HELL ON YOUR ASS, You'll regret the day you FUCKED with me" etc etc.

[coriolis888]

Apparently, if you ask for a discount, in A Wolfe's view you are "Fucking with his world", requiring him to "Fuck with yours"

 

I can see A Wolfe at the grocery store:

"Excuse me I only have one item and I'm in a hurry, can i dart in front of you"

"OH that's IT Motherfucker, It is ON, You are going DOWN, I'm gonna rain HELL ON YOUR ASS, You'll regret the day you FUCKED with me" etc etc.

 

 

Although the quoted post is a little over the top, it nonetheless fits Wolf appropriately. He will lose business from his bizarre behavior.

 

At the present time, he doesn't care if he loses business.

 

But, that inevitable day will come when he loses his looks and then he will be without clients to ridicule.

[Guest RexB]

I wonder how many escorts REALLY and TRULY believe that their intrinsic worth is determined by how much they can charge. I mean some guys really are so hot that they can demand higher prices than others, but to believe that their human value hinges on if they can charge an amount that they have deemed inflexible, so that if anyone even mentions paying a lower price the very foundation of their self-worth is questioned and they feel justified in lashing out at someone as a 'time-waster'. There are lots of escorts who are time wasters, too. Taking forever to respond to or never acknowledging receipt of clients' emails or texts is in many cases typical escort behavior. My time being wasted is just as valid a gripe as an escort's time being wasted.

Does anybody really set out to consciously waste another person's time? I seriously doubt it. It just happens that sometimes things don't gel between a client and an escort and it can give the impression that one of the parties wasted the other one's time. Besides, whose time is more precious than another's anyway?

[coriolis888]

I wonder how many escorts REALLY and TRULY believe that their intrinsic worth is determined by how much they can charge. I mean some guys really are so hot that they can demand higher prices than others, but to believe that their human value hinges on if they can charge an amount that they have deemed inflexible, so that if anyone even mentions paying a lower price the very foundation of their self-worth is questioned and they feel justified in lashing out at someone as a 'time-waster'. There are lots of escorts who are time wasters, too. Taking forever to respond to or never acknowledging receipt of clients' emails or texts is in many cases typical escort behavior. My time being wasted is just as valid a gripe as an escort's time being wasted.

Does anybody really set out to consciously waste another person's time? I seriously doubt it. It just happens that sometimes things don't gel between a client and an escort and it can give the impression that one of the parties wasted the other one's time. Besides, whose time is more precious than another's anyway?

 

 

Excellent post.

 

If only escorts could (or would be willing to) understand this concept of "wasting" time.

[+ quoththeraven]

Now keep in mind that I LOVE INK, even when the tattoos are a little trashy or thuggish and even (actually, especially) when guys overdo it... but good God almighty, AWolf's tattoos take the cake:

 

Mickey Mouse + the HRC equal sign + the Batman logo + a vintage Coke machine (??) + a heart with a "Mom" banner + a sparrow + the Beatles' Yellow Submarine cartoon graphic + a giant strawberry + the Trident of Poseidon... ALL ON ONE FOREARM??

 

How does he have room for all of that? Must be some forearm.

[+ LAdude424]

A. Wolfe on a plane:

"I'm sorry to bother you Sir, but could you switch your seat with my husband? then he, my child and I could all be in the same row"

"OH you wanna DANCE bitch? DO YOU? You picked the wrong day to FUCK with me, you HEAR me? I'm not some pushover you can take advantage of! Who the FUCK do you think you are, to ask ME that!"

[+ azdr0710]

his not having realized Paypal does, in fact, issue 1099s (if you know what I mean).

 

 

thank you thank you, TGuy.....answers THAT juicy question that was bugging me a couple weeks ago or so!!......

[Nebost]

Also, if anyone wants to buy him something on Amazon, here's his wishlist...

 

http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/1LYWHFBXJB0NO/ref=cm_wl_sortbar_v_page_2?ie=UTF8&page=2

 

Hopefully nobody will beat me to the punch by buying him the $22,989 Audemars Piguet Royal Oak Offshore Chronograph watch.

 

Damn you, TGuy. I already had that in my shopping cart! I was just writing Amazon to ask if they would sell me one for a lower price.

[MiamiLooker]

I could understand why escorts would be inclined to avoid making any comment about this, so I was pleased to see that a couple of working gentlemen--Tristan and Juan--stepped up and gave a "LIKE" to the assessment that Mr. Wolf's conduct is "heinous" and "reprehensible." (See post #5.) Kudos to them.

+1

I just figured the "LIKE" function wasn't working for our other escort forum members.

[jcmiami1]

Wow just read about this guy...he's a full fledged delusional narcissist. Porn guys are a dime a dozen these days with the endless supply of online amateur guys doing every version of porn. Mr Wolf is hot but there are A LOT of even hotter men out there. His 15 minutes are fame are over and his escort career is really over now. Guys like him usually dont end up well.