Not a cop here...

[jakeleyman]

I met a guy on the Adam4adam site and have approached him about meeting (with compensation involved.) He seems a nice guy, is 22, works at a responsible but low paying job, and is drop dead cute He is interested in meeting but has one issue of concern....he is afraid that I am a cop.

 

I like that the kid is careful. I am not a cop. I have been interested in a few cops in my lifetime, but I am def not one! What would you say to convince a guy in this situation that you are not a cop?

[BabyBoomer]

How do you know he's not a cop?

 

~ Boomer ~

[jakeleyman]

I don't.

[+ purplekow]

I met a guy on the Adam4adam site and have approached him about meeting (with compensation involved.) He seems a nice guy, is 22, works at a responsible but low paying job, and is drop dead cute He is interested in meeting but has one issue of concern....he is afraid that I am a cop.

 

I like that the kid is careful. I am not a cop. I have been interested in a few cops in my lifetime, but I am def not one! What would you say to convince a guy in this situation that you are not a cop?

i think you should do the old "Good Not A Cop; Bad Not A Cop" Tell him you are not a cop. If he does not believe you tell him: I am not a fucking cop you fucking moron. If that does not work, tell him: Listen guy, I want to fuck you until you can't walk (or vice versa) so either you cut out the cop crap or me and my money gotta look somewhere else.

[jakeleyman]

".....either you cut out the cop crap or me and my money gotta look somewhere else."

 

I don't want my money to look somewhere else. If you saw this kid you would know why.

[+ azdr0710]

you can only tell him you're not a cop.....to help things along, tell him you do NOT want to talk about money at the meeting and tell him you'll be paying at the end of the meet......in one simple email exchange before the meet, agree on a price "for your time only" (say/write that phrase to him), then agree to never talk money again.....don't ask him questions that may sound cop-like, keep it simple and light.....jawjateck once made a great suggestion - give him a wet, sloppy kiss immediately upon closing the door - a real cop would never do that.....you might even want to tell him ahead of time (maybe?) you'll be doing this to assuage any fears he has.....

 

follow these same rules in case HE is the cop, too!!!

[Frequentflier]

And make sure you're confident the "kid" is an adult!! If any doubt, go/stay home, take a cold shower and watch a movie.

[+ dutchmuch]

And make sure you're confident the "kid" is an adult!! If any doubt, go/stay home, take a cold shower and watch a movie.

 

Add these to the above mix:

 

 

[jawjateck]

you can only tell him you're not a cop.....to help things along, tell him you do NOT want to talk about money at the meeting and tell him you'll be paying at the end of the meet......in one simple email exchange before the meet, agree on a price "for your time only" (say/write that phrase to him), then agree to never talk money again.....don't ask him questions that may sound cop-like, keep it simple and light.....jawjateck once made a great suggestion - give him a wet, sloppy kiss immediately upon closing the door - a real cop would never do that.....you might even want to tell him ahead of time (maybe?) you'll be doing this to assuage any fears he has.....

 

follow these same rules in case HE is the cop, too!!!

 

You remembered, eh azdr? LOL! Getting intimate quickly has numerous advantages.

 

I agree with Anton's way of thinking. Schedule a get-acquainted session with him at a coffee shop or deli. Pay him for his time. After spending an hour or so with him in a social setting, you may conclude: (1) this guy is hot and will be f'in fun fun fun OR (2) this guys is "off" and could be trouble, in which case you part company and never see him again. If he is afraid to be seen with you publicly in a social setting having coffee or a drink, then he is probably too much drama/trouble to deal with.

 

Good luck!

[bigvalboy]

Agree with above posters. Big fan of meet-n-greet....or....failing that, Skype.

[down_to_business]

Tell him that if he is so concerned that you are a cop- that you will regretfully forgo the compensation part of your first encounter solely for his benefit

[AdamSmith]

Or to be really credible, tell him you're not a cop, you're Secret Service.

 

DEA agents also arranged hookers for Secret Service

http://www.washingtonexaminer.com/dea-agents-also-arranged-hookers-for-secret-service/article/2562119

[Guest Starbuck]

What would you say to convince a guy in this situation that you are not a cop?

 

A picture is worth a thousand words. Have you sent him one of your car?

 

 

http://o.aolcdn.com/dims-global/dims3/GLOB/resize/550x600/http://www.blogcdn.com/www.mandatory.com/media/2013/05/not-a-cop-car.jpg

[jawjateck]

Jake and I have always had this off-the-grid hiring knack in common. Interesting that he posted this thread at this time. I'm currently in negotiations with a NCAA track athlete (yummie butt and legs!!!), but I definitely want to make sure that my "scholarship" doesn't get him in trouble for receiving impermissible benefits.

[Irtwo]

Tell him that if he is so concerned that you are a cop- that you will regretfully forgo the compensation part of your first encounter solely for his benefit

 

This was probably said as a joke, but it's actually a very good idea. No cop is going to suggest having sex as a freebie, and it puts the ball in his court.

[Guest]

It's pretty simple to convince someone you're not a cop. Just do something a cop would never do. Tell him that when you meet, the first thing you'll do is give each other a deep French kiss, before anything is discussed. I always insist on this upon meeting the escort (I always verify that an escort likes to kiss before I'll hire him). This let's me know that he's neither (a) a cop, nor (b) a scam artist. There have been a couple of times when I've cut off a meeting because the prospective "escort" wouldn't kiss me when we first met. Probably these men were scam artists. If you don't like to kiss, the other thing you could do would be to get naked, which is something else a vice cop would never do. The MO of vice cop stings is to get the client to agree to a certain prohibited act for a certain amount of money. They usually like to get this on a recording. So just don't discuss any specifics until you've done something to convince each other you're not cops.

[sincitymix]

It's pretty simple to convince someone you're not a cop. Just do something a cop would never do. Tell him that when you meet, the first thing you'll do is give each other a deep French kiss, before anything is discussed. I always insist on this upon meeting the escort (I always verify that an escort likes to kiss before I'll hire him). This let's me know that he's neither (a) a cop, nor (b) a scam artist. There have been a couple of times when I've cut off a meeting because the prospective "escort" wouldn't kiss me when we first met. Probably these men were scam artists. If you don't like to kiss, the other thing you could do would be to get naked, which is something else a vice cop would never do. The MO of vice cop stings is to get the client to agree to a certain prohibited act for a certain amount of money. They usually like to get this on a recording. So just don't discuss any specifics until you've done something to convince each other you're not cops.

 

Unless you happen to live In the State or States that allow the undercover to have sex with the prostitute/escort/sex worker, and those states that don't allow it, but let it happen, and then justify it by saying "We have the right to do whatever means necessary to prove or justify an arrest"

[down_to_business]

Unless you happen to live In the State or States that allow the undercover to have sex with the prostitute/escort/sex worker, and those states that don't allow it, but let it happen, and then justify it by saying "We have the right to do whatever means necessary to prove or justify an arrest"

 

IMO A cop is more likely to lie about the circumstances of the arrest than he is to passionately kiss you. In fact, more than one cop has stated that would be the one thing (kiss another guy) that he absolutely would not do to make an arrest.

[jakeleyman]

So, kiss (I like that) , get naked (I llike that too)), buy dinner (Im willing), offer self for free (it'll never work), don't discuss what will happen or how much (have messed this up already).

 

I was hoping for some kind of eloquent presentation which is persuasive, tried and true.

[+ azdr0710]

let us know how much bail is and I'm sure the board will come together and help you out....

[humboldt]

Were you ever able to convince him that you're not a cop?