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[+ WilliamM]

Not every escort is for every client and vice versa. The interactions we have here as escort and client are not the usual day-to-day interactions we have with most people (unless of course you have sex with everyone you meet). If, for whatever reason, Spencer can't perform with a certain type group or groups of people, it's better that he warn people beforehand.

 

Gman, I liked your comment now better than last night. I spent three or four hours today in a large room with hundreds of other people waiting and waiting and waiting to renew my state driver's license. It's summer and hot so there were many guys in T-shirts.

 

At least today and perhaps a few more day, I do not want to have sex with a guys who has more than 7 tatoos (mayle lesss then 10, if the tatoos are very small). So for the moment if Spencer had make his comments only about tatoos, I agree with Gman, "Not every escort is for every client and vice versa."

[Edward]

Call me what you want. I employee people of all colors and race. It makes no difference to me. But race does make a difference on who I sleep with. I make no excuses. DJ accept the fact people have preferences on race and many other factors when it comes to who they sleep with.

[JDXXX]

Call me what you want. I employee people of all colors and race. It makes no difference to me. But race does make a difference on who I sleep with. I make no excuses. DJ accept the fact people have preferences on race and many other factors when it comes to who they sleep with.

 

Really? Hmmmm.....Okay. With all due respect, Edward, what you stated is your point of view of what your preferences are as you have your way of seeing this matter, and I have mine obviously. Honestly, I'm not the only individual on this thread who views racism for what it is on this forum from what your seeing by reading the previous post. You may wanna accept the facts for what they are by reading some of the previous post on this thread, and not just single me out.

 

I'm just proud I'm a man who don't judge or reject someone due to the color of they're skin. Love and enjoy all people no matter of they're race or age. I don't have a preference when it comes to race or age, but if others do, so be it. It's just plain silly to me how people would reject or give a person of color a hard time based on the color of they're skin. It truly is sad in America that individuals have been raised to reject someone(even when it comes to love or who they sleep with) on the count of they're race. It's like being treated as people of color are a disease to love or sleep with. Blows me away as I was taught to love all people that God has created, and not push someone away cause they are a different skin tone then you. Not everyone is the same, but happy to be open-minded when it comes to love and who I sleep with. For me, love see no color, my friend.

 

It's JD by the way, Edward. . You called me DJ. LOL.

 

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[markpaul]

While refusing to serve black or oriental, or white customers could be considered racist by some, it might just be who we are attracted to. I love hairy, mature men! That doesn't mean that I am prejudiced against smooth-skinned or young men.

[Kenny]

While refusing to serve black or oriental, or white customers could be considered racist by some, it might just be who we are attracted to. I love hairy, mature men! That doesn't mean that I am prejudiced against smooth-skinned or young men.

"Oriental"? I think you mean Asian.

[+ Axiom2001]

Yes...He told me that he would not sleep with Blacks or Mexicans, and for me at least, asked for a face pic or some form of verification that I was white. That may or may not bother you... Each to his own...and just know that "your mileage might vary." Good luck.

 

A few years back a very popular escort whose base is in Atlanta had in his escort's ad that he preferred "NOT" to have black men engage his services. I wanted some clarification, so I sent him an email addressing this matter. He responded to me reasonably and candidly with some very logical and valid reasons, but after his reading my message and personally assessing his previous criteria, he and I managed to see each other while he visited Northern California. To date he's still escorting; to date I have fond memories of our time together, and my reviews are still extant at this site!

[bigvalboy]

A few years back a very popular escort whose base is in Atlanta had in his escort's ad that he preferred "NOT" to have black men engage his services. I wanted some clarification, so I sent him an email addressing this matter. He responded to me reasonably and candidly with some very logical and valid reasons, but after his reading my message and personally assessing his previous criteria, he and I managed to see each other while he visited Northern California. To date he's still escorting; to date I have fond memories of our time together, and my reviews are still extant at this site!

 

Thanks for the post AX. That is the point I was trying to make, and I don't begrudge anyone who partakes. Each to his own.

[gilbert]

Okay, I hesitate to become part of this conversation, because no matter how unbiased, non-bigoted, non-racist a person might be, you say or write something the wrong way you get labeled that way. That being said, I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to dark skinned individuals. I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to individuals of the female sex. I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to people with hairy bodies. I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to men with no muscular definition. These type of individuals just don't straighten my doodle. However, I like all of these kinds of individuals as people (as long as they're not assholes). I TRY to judge people by who they are and not what they look like. On the other hand, this brings to mind the hit musical "Avenue Q", and one of the show's best numbers "Everyone's a Little Bit Racist". Okay...go ahead...crucify me!

[nynakedtop]

http://clintonblackwell.callgirlfiles.com/home

 

**Please note that my services are not available to blacks of African descent or African Americans. All others most welcome (Indian, Asian etc.).

 

 

Has to be seen to be believed... nice to know that the legacy of apartheid lives on.

[MiamiLooker]

Is it ok to discriminate based on advertised sexual practices? Or, maybe we should post multiple threads promoting escorts that offer “sometimes safe sex” as an option?

[JDXXX]

http://clintonblackwell.callgirlfiles.com/home

 

**Please note that my services are not available to blacks of African descent or African Americans. All others most welcome (Indian, Asian etc.).

 

 

Has to be seen to be believed... nice to know that the legacy of apartheid lives on.

 

Thank You for the reminder of this post. I'd rest my case. Lol. For someone to state this is down right racist I'm sorry. No disrespect.

 

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[nynakedtop]

The issue here is being obfuscated. Unfortunately, racism in our society is not just a matter of personal preference. It is an institutionalized system of white supremacy, a clear and direct legacy of the system of slavery, in which an entire race is denied access to the very simple enjoyment of life without fear of violence and is further denied access to an entire system of wealth and comfort. I work with kids every day who are the victims of institutionalized racism and see the painful effects it has on both their everyday lives and their hopes for the future.

 

So pardon me if my tolerance for expressions of bigotry is low. Call it what you will, racism is violence.

[biggerbilly]

Okay, I hesitate to become part of this conversation, because no matter how unbiased, non-bigoted, non-racist a person might be, you say or write something the wrong way you get labeled that way. That being said, I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to dark skinned individuals. I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to individuals of the female sex. I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to people with hairy bodies. I am not PHYSICALLY attracted to men with no muscular definition. These type of individuals just don't straighten my doodle. However, I like all of these kinds of individuals as people (as long as they're not assholes). I TRY to judge people by who they are and not what they look like. On the other hand, this brings to mind the hit musical "Avenue Q", and one of the show's best numbers "Everyone's a Little Bit Racist". Okay...go ahead...crucify me!

 

Not going to crucify you, lol.

 

For me, the big question is the difference between business and pleasure. I don't know how many escorts besides JD are on this post, but I'd love to know what the percentage of their clients they are physically attracted to, and would willingly have sex with outside of business. Now how are they able to sleep with the percentage that they are not into. My guess will be a little blue pill. Now why does the pill not work when it comes to skin.

 

http://clintonblackwell.callgirlfiles.com/home

 

**Please note that my services are not available to blacks of African descent or African Americans. All others most welcome (Indian, Asian etc.).

 

 

Has to be seen to be believed... nice to know that the legacy of apartheid lives on.

So are dark skin Dominicans and Brazilians okay?

[markpaul]

"Oriental"? I think you mean Asian.

 

I didn't use the word Asian because as I stated, I am attracted to hairy men. Many Asian Arabic or Asian Indian men are hairy. Almost no Asian Chinese, Asian Japanese, or Asian Cambodians have hairy bodies.

[m.yi]

I'm of Southeast Asian decent, to add my grandfather is white. It would be better to refer to us as "Asians". I personally don't feel comfortable being referred to as "Oriental". Sounds like THE White Man talking down to me or my people. White privilege?

 

I believe your comments were not intended to offend anyone or any faction. However, I was expecting more gay men to be more understanding. They too were treated as some sort of "Second Class citizen" at some point.

[markpaul]

I am sorry. I had no intention to offend anyone. There is incredible diversity in Asians. I should have said for example Chinese Asian.

[JDXXX]

I'm of Southeast Asian decent, to add my grandfather is white. It would be better to refer to us as "Asians". I personally don't feel comfortable being referred to as "Oriental". Sounds like THE White Man talking down to me or my people. White privilege?

 

I believe your comments were not intended to offend anyone or any faction. However, I was expecting more gay men to be more understanding. They too were treated as some sort of "Second Class citizen" at some point.

 

+1.

 

Well said, baby.

[JDXXX]

The issue here is being obfuscated. Unfortunately, racism in our society is not just a matter of personal preference. It is an institutionalized system of white supremacy, a clear and direct legacy of the system of slavery, in which an entire race is denied access to the very simple enjoyment of life without fear of violence and is further denied access to an entire system of wealth and comfort. I work with kids every day who are the victims of institutionalized racism and see the painful effects it has on both their everyday lives and their hopes for the future.

 

So pardon me if my tolerance for expressions of bigotry is low. Call it what you will, racism is violence.

 

 

THANK YOU, NAKEDTOP FOR POINTING THESE IMPORTANT FACTORS OUT TO SOME OF THE MEMBERS OF WHY SUCH RACIAL PREFERENCES CAN BE IN SLIGHTEST TERMS - DEGRADING AND OFFENSIVE TO PEOPLE OF COLOR. THANK YOU!!

 

What you have stated in your post is why preferences that involve racist sort of views and beliefs can be very disturbing in a way cause(once again) it's like treating people of a certain race like they're below standards or like they're a disease of some sort. It's like putting people of color in a bad light as if we're not good enough for "certain" privileges that goes against standards that only people who are white should have.

 

Everything you stated makes complete sense to why this whole "preference" of no blacks is quite ridiculous as we're in now the 20th century. You would think racism would be obsolete, but just can seem to never die out over time as this sort of behavior and beliefs about race is being passed on(unfortunately)from generation-to-generation as the years go by. .

[JDXXX]

You know it's funny how we as Gay people are discriminated against by the hetro-sexual community at times, but some people in the Gay community are discriminating against people of color based on preferences? How hypocritical is that? I guess straight people can say the samething about gay people as a slapstick literally against us how they in a million years will be gay, and how it's an abomination to love one of the same sex.

 

From what I have studied in College, Gay people who discriminate over "racial preferences", haven't experienced discrimination of some kind as they cant image what it's like to be shunned over the color of ones skin. If they did, they would think twice before doing such actions to someone else.

 

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[jcmiami1]

Sadly the gay community is one of the most discriminating groups I've ever encountered. I'm a "whitey" Cuban grew up in New York City and I've loss track of how man times I've heard gay men refer to us as "raft people." They even asked why I have "no accent." For the record, the town I grew up in had only "TWO" Hispanic families...in the ENTIRE county. When it comes to discrimination, I can give a class on it!

Sometimes I can be dangerously inquisitive so a few months back I contacted a Miami based escort who is also Hispanic...his questions to me were really "WTF!" First he asked my nationality, was I a white or black Hispanic, how long I was in this country then came my age. So I went ahead and asked why all these questions about race. His answer (I was actually almost predicting it) was "well ni**ers are "fucking criminals" I've been fucked over by ni**ers so I don't do them." He said the same for Mexicans as well...mind you he's Hispanic!!! Then I asked about the age question, his response "I charge more for grandpa's." So there you go...and if you're wondering he took his ad off lol.

[Edward]

I think it is sad people can not distinguish between sexual preference and racism. In every day life I don't care what color or race a person is. But when it comes to sexual preference there a lot of things that do not turn me on. I do not like short people, fat people, skinny people, arrogant people, to lilley white people and people of some races. Sorry if junior wont perform with some people. But that is the was it is,

[down_to_business]

Ok my thoughts.

 

1. This thread was seriously HIJACKED! I sincerely hope the good LA escorts recommended here aren't wrongly associated with being racist.

 

2. On racism, which is an important topic in itself, I believe this is pretty well stated by Ashley Reese :

Yes, Finding Entire Races Of People Unattractive Is Pretty Racist

 

The truth hurts, but here we go: Claiming that you’re not attracted to entire races of people is generally pretty racist.

 

Listen, we can all admit that our likes and dislikes aren’t innate, right? Girls weren’t born to like dresses, we were socialized to think that dresses are what girls wear, and we responded accordingly. So if people can believe that something as simple as gendered clothing options weren’t hardwired into our DNA, why are people so convinced that their racial preferences have absolutely zero societal influence?

 

Let’s be real, most societies uphold some races to be superior above others, especially in terms of beauty and desirability. Ours is especially good at that! I know that some of you are thinking that having a racial preference is no different than having a hair color or eye color preference. That might be a fair argument if hair color and eye color ever had the same history that race has had… but they don’t...

 

There are a few more reasons why doing this is ridiculous:

 

1) Hotness factor doesn’t have a color. Yes, if I count everything out, I have found myself attracted to more white dudes than Asian dudes over the course of my life…but I have eyes. There are plenty of Asian guys that I think are totally smoking hot and white dudes who make me turn my nose. The idea of saying, “I don’t find Asian guys attractive” just based on numbers is silly.

 

2) Not everyone of a certain race looks the same. If you love green eyes or long, messy hair, I assure you that there are people of literally every race on this planet who fit the bill. Seriously, just with black people and white people alone…there are white people who are as dark as I am in the summer time, and black people who are lighter than some of the palest white people. Look at Bjork, an awesome singer from Iceland. If you just glanced at her, you could easily assume that she is East Asian given some of her facial features, but she is very much a white lady. The fact that someone would decide that they are or aren’t attracted to her upon finding out her racial background is totally bonkers!

 

3) You sound like a close-minded jerk. Pro tip: Don’t be a close-minded jerk. It’s not a good look. Also, do you really want to be that person who swore up and down that Latino dudes are super unattractive and that you would never date one…only to end up falling for a Latino dude? Yikes, can somebody say embarrassing?

 

[And her conclusionary statement:] And, again, if all of this went over your head remember this: There are amazingly attractive people of every color, ethnicity, background, etc. Life is too short to deny such a simple, lovely fact, isn’t it?

 

 

Read more: http://www.gurl.com/2014/09/12/racial-preference-attraction-racist-racism/#ixzz3gFpPmHNb

[MiamiLooker]

It’s not uncommon to see escort ads, especially on Backpage, with titles or text including “big meat thug”, “black thug” or “BBC”. Is that racist or simply marketing to a fantasy?

[bigvalboy]

It’s not uncommon to see escort ads, especially on Backpage, with titles or text including “big meat thug”, “black thug” or “BBC”. Is that racist or simply marketing to a fantasy?

 

I think the short answer is that it's playing to a fantasy... But I'm not one to talk.

[biggerbilly]

It’s not uncommon to see escort ads, especially on Backpage, with titles or text including “big meat thug”, “black thug” or “BBC”. Is that racist or simply marketing to a fantasy?

It's marketing to racial fantasies.

 

Like down_to_business post states, our society builds up these stereotypes. Some live by them and view them as fact; some ignore them, or a least try to see people as people; and some are obsessed by the taboo.