Gay for Pay escorts - any positive experiences?

[jcmiami1]

I live in Miami and there are a lot of Gay for Pay guys down here advertising. I will admit I hired one once but it was all a " bait and switch" - the guy was a thug (sadly super hot too) just wanting money for drugs. I just gave him the money and took off fast...you never know how a tweaker will react. Never again will I use one of these guys no matter how hot his "thuggish looks" are! Anyone out there had any positive experiences with one?

[Despardo]

Yes, one. Frankie from Portland. Mostly straight, but expanding his horizons. He has style and was a lot of fun to hang out with. Seems really to enjoy what he is doing.

[marylander1940]

I live in Miami and there are a lot of Gay for Pay guys down here advertising. I will admit I hired one once but it was all a " bait and switch" - the guy was a thug (sadly super hot too) just wanting money for drugs. I just gave him the money and took off fast...you never know how a tweaker will react. Never again will I use one of these guys no matter how hot his "thuggish looks" are! Anyone out there had any positive experiences with one?

 

How do you even know they're straight? Why would you subject a straight guy to do something with you (while thinking of a woman) and focusing on your money as the only reason for him to do anything with you?

[Zman]

First of all JC, thanks for sharing the bad encounter. I've had my share. May I ask how you found the him? CL? BP?

 

I've had many excellent experiences with gay-for-pay or mostly straight guys. As long as they work to give me a good time it can be just as hot as being with a gay guy, I think.

[Zman]

Zman it was on BP...I've spoken to a few guys here who said the same as you. I think I just got a "bad apple" - what I don't like about BP is there's no way to find out anything on any of the escorts, no warnings from previous clients to avoid. At least on CL you can post a warning about a guy. It was a shame cause the guy was hot as hell.

 

I've had the same experience. I met a Marine on CL who walked right out of central casting: blond, blue-eyed, built like a brick-shit-house. It actually started off great. We met twice and had a hot time. Then he got flaky and manipulative. He arranged meetings he had no intention of keeping. I think it was his passive-aggressive way of saying he was tired of being gay-for-pay. Too bad. He was a find but left a bad taste in my mouth ultimately.

[+ goosh69]

Sooo many. Maybe most. Lots of straight strippers who will escort on the side. Very common actually. Often they do less sexually but on average better looking and younger. Since as someone above said they burn out faster.

[Zman]

Well while I hate the bad apples, I must be honest that hiring gay-for-pay has been worth it. In particular, I've met some excellent escorts who I kept meeting for months or even years.

[Decatur Guy]

I've hired a few gay for pay guys. I had good experiences -- you just have to adjust your expectations accordingly. But they were upfront and delivered on their range acceptable to them -- and to me.

[Oliver Lee Martin]

I've hired Simon Dexter with a woman and he's done some very gay stuff in his Sean Cody porn days. If you're comfortable mixing it up with women and a lot of bi action, you're go to go. You'd be surprised how hot it is to service a guy's cock fresh from a woman's pussy.

[jcmiami1]

Wow thanks guys!

[Nvr2Thick]

He was a find but left a bad taste in my mouth ultimately.

 

Could have been something in his diet.

[good ol boy]

Alain DeBerry is gay for pay... that was a good experience

[+ Gar1eth]

Alain DeBerry is gay for pay... that was a good experience

 

Alain is one of the only g4p guys that I really considered meeting. But I just couldn't get over him being straight. Unfortunately he has quit bottoming and I've pretty much quit hiring.

 

And in general as a vanilla top- I have no use for a g4p escort. If I were to hire one who advertised as such- they'd have to like kissing, performing oral, and bottoming. I have no wish or fantasies to be dominated by a straight guy (or a gay guy either) or to service one. I mean sure I've been attracted to straight guys before -who hasn't? But my imagination isn't that good, and in general I don't fantasize about having sex with unobtainable straight guys.

 

Gman

[good ol boy]

agreed i miss him bottoming as well as a result it is time to keep looking

[+ sync]

You'd be surprised how hot it is to service a guy's cock fresh from a woman's pussy.

 

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[Okliehomo]

Let's see..... a bad taste left in one's mouth.... and a guy's cock fresh from a woman's pussy?

 

Seems connected....?

[jakeleyman]

Id agree with the poster who likes to take home guys who perform in male strip bars. Depending on the bar, they have been at least partially "pre-screened" by management who wants good employees and you have better odds that you are not taking an axe murderer back to the hotel. If they really are str8, they are at least exposed to the gay world and have evolved into showing some respect to gay clientele. That said, I have had some great luck with this but a dud or two as well.

[+ pdxleo]

Plus one to that- always had great luck in this method, and you get to see what you're in for beforehand!

[recency]

Alain is one of the only g4p guys that I really considered meeting. But I just couldn't get over him being straight. Unfortunately he has quit bottoming and I've pretty much quit hiring.

 

And in general as a vanilla top- I have no use for a g4p escort. If I were to hire one who advertised as such- they'd have to like kissing, performing oral, and bottoming. I have no wish or fantasies to be dominated by a straight guy (or a gay guy either) or to service one. I mean sure I've been attracted to straight guys before -who hasn't? But my imagination isn't that good, and in general I don't fantasize about having sex with unobtainable straight guys.

 

Gman

 

I'm with Gareth. I only ever arranged for the time of a g4p escort once, and it only became apparent when we began the session. He was so detached and aloof and skittish about any physical contact at all, that I finally realized what was going on. He admitted he wasn't gay and did it only because he needed the compensation. We finished early, and I learned an invaluable lesson about asking some specific questions about any upcoming session. It was one of my first experiences with an escort, and I have been more careful since.

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm with Gareth. I only ever arranged for the time of a g4p escort once, and it only became apparent when we began the session. He was so detached and aloof and skittish about any physical contact at all, that I finally realized what was going on. He admitted he wasn't gay and did it only because he needed the compensation. We finished early, and I learned an invaluable lesson about asking some specific questions about any upcoming session. It was one of my first experiences with an escort, and I have been more careful since.

 

 

I had a similar experience with a surfer bodybuilder type from Miami. He had most options checked under Primary Interests on RB. When I found out he was straight after he arrived for the weekend, I asked him why he had checked off all those options. He said someone told him that was the way to get more clients. Interestingly enough he said he would let me attempt to top him. By that time I was so disgusted. And I figured if he had never done it before, it probably wasn't going to work. So I said no. The other funny thing was he kept asking me if I was having a good time with him. And I kept thinking to myself-well I wasn't really happy about paying for a long weekend with a straight guy.

 

Gman

[marylander1940]

I've had the same experience. I met a Marine on CL who walked right out of central casting: blond, blue-eyed, built like a brick-shit-house. It actually started off great. We met twice and had a hot time. Then he got flaky and manipulative. He arranged meetings he had no intention of keeping. I think it was his passive-aggressive way of saying he was tired of being gay-for-pay. Too bad. He was a find but left a bad taste in my mouth ultimately.

 

Sooo many. Maybe most. Lots of straight strippers who will escort on the side. Very common actually. Often they do less sexually but on average better looking and younger. Since as someone above said they burn out faster.

 

If I had a dollar in my pocket every time I've heard it...

 

Even some gay escorts simply "don't have the stomach" to be with older men like 90% of their clients are.

 

Do you imagine yourself having sex for money with women your mother's age? Wouldn't that be gross? How long would you last?

[Phil_musc]

agreed i miss him bottoming as well as a result it is time to keep looking

 

But I looked at Alain's RB ad yesterday and he lists as versatile. Clarification is in order.

[+ Gar1eth]

But I looked at Alain's RB ad yesterday and he lists as versatile. Clarification is in order.

 

If you read the ad, it states 'Anal (top)' but he is orally versatile.

 

Gman

[Phil_musc]

You're right, Gman. I didn't read the all the way through. My bad.

[moothrough]

Had a tattooed brazillian escort. Maybe he's bi. but his facebook profile often shows him and the girlfriend traveling around.

 

Possibly bi? He sucks pretty well and was even game to let me record it on camera for my own private use. All saved to an airgapped computer of course.

 

some g4p men can be professional. Others like harley/dexter not so. Now that was a horrible experience.