How far in advance do you like to book an appointment

[+ Steve yabsley]

ok - maybe his has been asked before, and if so, just point me to the link,

 

How far in advance do you like to set up an appointment? Day of, day before, a few days before, a week before, or a few weeks before?

 

I have tried a few different options, and not sure which is best. As I travel for work, and often am looking for for some play while away, I sometimes want to arrange things beforehand.

 

Thanks - feedback, comments, and perspectives appreciated.

[Kevin Slater]

You'll get a wide range of answers. Personally, I prefer day of. More importantly, which do you prefer?

 

Kevin Slater

[Zman]

I like to plan ahead usually. But no further out than the current week. But if I find myself with some free time I'll book a day-of appt.

[Bryanforservice]

Kevin stated it best above.... it should be about what you want.

 

Personally, I like a little advance notice as my schedulde can be difficult to wrangle on less than a day or twos notice.

[sincitymix]

I usually cant plan ahead due to work and constantly shifting schedules. I am forced to pretty much try and schedule the day of... and usually within hours of when im msg'ing.

[Strafe13]

I often hire when I travel to different cities, so if there are specific escorts whom I want to see, I'll usually contact him (them) well in advance. But for local (NYC) hires, if I just have an impromptu urge, I'll usually look for those who can accommodate in-calls, and will contact them the day of, or before. If I'm treating myself, and decide to get an NYC hotel so as to host, then that's usually because I have a certain escort (or escorts) in mind, so I contact them several days or a even a week in advance, so as to guarantee that I can see who I want.

[+ RyanDean]

I usually hire while traveling. I am also, by nature, the sort who prefers to plan a week or more ahead.

 

What has mostly worked for me is to email/text an early inquiry to my 1st choice guy to see if he expects to be in town/available during my visit. If I get a fairly timely reply, the gent typically either confirms that he won't be available (ie. traveling that week) OR he gives precise guidance about his preferences for confirming an appointment (ie. call me two days before, text me the morning of, deposit required, etc). Sometimes I get an answer to a question I didn't ask ("sure. where are you?") or an over-promise ("yeah, dude, I'm ready anytime"), neither of which inspires much confidence.

 

I have found that, if I follow the gent's guidance about their scheduling preference, it's consistently worked out pleasantly, even if a meeting can't actually be arranged. I have also found that, when traveling to smaller markets, the gents are usually okay with penciling something in, even fairly far in advance, pending confirmation as per their preferences.

[+ purplekow]

I usually hire travelers for overnights. I like to have the next day off from work so I will not have to rush out. I usually book these as soon as I see the ad go up for someone I like. That can be as much as a month or as little as a few days. The more time, the better.

[ZhenXBear]

I asked for a specific day about a month in advance, but only because I'm going to be traveling and rearranged my return flight to fly to a different city; I was more than happy to provide my flight itinerary and had no problems, given the circumstances and my exuberance, hehe.

[Guest Starbuck]

"How far in advance do you like to book an appointment?"

 

Well, if I was (a.) a free agent, (b.) living smack in the middle of a city chock full of available/desirable men and (c.) able to just as happily go with my second (or third or tenth) choice if my first was unavailable, then I'd love to book RIGHT NOW for A LITTLE LATER.

 

Sadly, it just isn't so.

 

So, instead, I am grateful to the guys who have understood and accommodated my need for advance planning ... and sometimes for well in advance planning.

[+ poolboy48220]

Almost always for as soon as possible, when the dread urge hits me. It's only when a traveller that I'm excited about is coming to down that I'll book as soon as I realize they're coming in.

[curiousnomore]

I don't get to travel solo/play often, so, as soon as I know when/where, I reach out. I've been lucky thus far. My first choice has been understanding and penciled me in, and I have no complaints. Lucky me, lol!

[tedbear]

Nashville and St. Louis are the closest cities to where I live now. I have been told by several escorts in those cities when trying to schedule something that they don't schedule in advance and that I should call back when I am there. I'm not about to commit to the travel, hotel and other plans without being sure I have a date lined up as well. I also seem to have a problem in that escorts in those two cities seem horrible about responding to email or phone messages, more so than anywhere else I've tried to hire. I'm used to hiring in the big cities like Chicago where I used to live and I had a whole difference experience with the guys in those cities.

[liubit]

I don't really have a preference. I can book in advance or the same day, depending on the circumstances. Here in Prague, what has worked the best for me is to book a day in advance and confirm the appointment the day of. Now, I have to say that I have never had trouble booking the day of: it seems that my boy of choice is always available if he is not out of town (they often spend time in Zurich, where they say "there is good money to be made"). One of my now regulars told me that kids here do not have many local clients and that they rely basically on visiting guys, or on their own trips abroad, so I am kind of a rare commodity (lucky me).