After This Weekend - I feel I need to recalibrate my standards now

[ZhenXBear]

Hi All,

 

Once again, I want to thank you all for your understanding, help and encouragement. I recently reached out to everyone for advice regarding hiring for the first time and reported a positive experience after getting up the nerve to do so. After this weekend, I must honestly recalibrate. I kind of liken it to being in high school or college and having your first car. You liked it because you had freedom to do the things you wanted to do. It was a great car.

 

Flash forward to the point where you drive your first luxury automobile off the lot. The ventilated seats cooling your back as you take it down the road for the first time, the premium sound system, the comfortable leather seats and the isolation from the outside world make you smile at thoughts of yourself and what you thought, was a great car at the time.

 

What does this have to do with escorts? Well, I wrote my first review tonight which I assume will be published at some point. In many ways my "first hire" was like my first car; I thought it was great because I simply didn't have anything to compare it to. This weekend, I spent time with "my second hire" who is by all measures a premium, luxury brand of companion who is very well reviewed here. He's definitely set the bar very high.

 

Are we allowed to share accolades?

[+ Gar1eth]

Hi All,

 

Once again, I want to thank you all for your understanding, help and encouragement. I recently reached out to everyone for advice regarding hiring for the first time and reported a positive experience after getting up the nerve to do so. After this weekend, I must honestly recalibrate. I kind of liken it to being in high school or college and having your first car. You liked it because you had freedom to do the things you wanted to do. It was a great car.

 

Flash forward to the point where you drive your first luxury automobile off the lot. The ventilated seats cooling your back as you take it down the road for the first time, the premium sound system, the comfortable leather seats and the isolation from the outside word make you smile at thoughts of yourself and what you thought, was a great car at the time.

 

What does this have to do with escorts? Well, I wrote my first review tonight which I assume will be published at some point. In many ways my "first hire" was like my first car; I thought it was great because I simply didn't have anything to compare it to. This weekend, I spent time with a premium, luxury brand of companion who is very well reviewed here.

 

Are we allowed to share accolades?

 

Congratulations the second time around!! May all your hires be this good. It's definitely permissible to say with whom you had the great time and to say that the details will be forthcoming in a review.

 

Gman

[adriano46]

ZhenXBear, congratulations again on this next step. I like your analogy too (first car to luxury one). Good luck as you continue this new adventure.

[whipped guy]

Zhen... Congrats! It always feels good when you hit a BINGO! I was lucky my first time. The guy was located in a fifth floor walk up. I recall walking down the stairs. I felt as though I were a super hero ready to conquer the world. Yes, I could even fly! In fact I don't remember my feet touching the stairs as I descended back down to earth...

 

I'm sure you felt the exact same way... just a different analogy. So way to go!

 

Can't wait for the review!!

 

PS: Since it was my first time I thought that it was always gonna be like that with other guys... not so... Either way one must savor those special moments. Again glad that you had an exceptional time.. and may there be many many more... and there will!!!!

 

PPS: And it might get even better too boot!

[BeHappy]

Congrats!

Motivation to all of us newbies!

[bigvalboy]

I'm with Whipped Guy. My first hire was (ahem) when I was 17..it's a long story, but I remember it like it was yesterday, and yes, he was amazing. That said, most likely not all hires will be as amazing as your first, but no matter, because there will always be handful of escorts that just stand head and shoulders above the others. I have had a few hires that have done that, and they set the bar pretty high for all the rest. They also bring a lot of memories to the table, and unforgettable experiences. Every now and again, out of nowhere, I will think of one of those amazing hires, and just begin to smile, and those good ones seem to bury back in my memory the bad ones.

 

I would think it is perfectly OK to throw a few accolades out there. The good guys need to hear about it also. Good luck going forward.

[whipped guy]

I'm with Whipped Guy. My first hire was (ahem) when I was 17..it's a long story, but I remember it like it was yesterday, and yes, he was amazing. That said, most likely not all hires will be as amazing as your first, but no matter, because there will always be handful of escorts that just stand head and shoulders above the others. I have had a few hires that have done that, and they set the bar pretty high for all the rest. They also bring a lot of memories to the table, and unforgettable experiences. Every now and again, out of nowhere, I will think of one of those amazing hires, and just begin to smile, and those good ones seem to bury back in my memory the bad ones.

 

I would think it is perfectly OK to throw a few accolades out there. The good guys need to hear about it also. Good luck going forward.

BVB... Yeah there are those special memories. And it indeed can get better! There is only one guy who I have invited to my place... and the memories in that situation don't pop out of nowhere. Damn there is a couch... actually a very specific corner of a couch that elicits such thoughts... heck even the driveway... and I won't even mention the shower!!!! DAMN! The shower! I can't freaking step in it now with out thinking of.... DAMN!!! Gotta run... Gotta take that proverbial cold shower... and pronto!!!! LOL! .

 

PS: To the OP do tell and throw out an accolade or two about the guy!!!

[ZhenXBear]

Congratulations the second time around!! May all your hires be this good. It's definitely permissible to say with whom you had the great time and to say that the details will be forthcoming in a review.

 

Gman

 

Just to clarify, I have put virtual pen to virtual paper; my forthcoming review will be about my "luxury car" experience and an afternoon spent with the dashingly handsome Sir Peter Hung

[BeHappy]

Can't wait to see it.

I am nervous as hell about my first new car ride. I hope it is as good as yours.

So glad I joined DR's. It helps so much!

[whipped guy]

Zhen.... Thanks! Good to know!

 

I hope that you are able to get a bit creative and reference the "luxury car experience" in your review.

 

In one review I compared an escort to the Sears Catalog and wrote another as if it were a restaurant review. The former to reference the escort's versatility as in "Craftsmen Tools" vs. the "Softer Side of Sears". The later because the guy was also trained as a chef...

 

Either way looking forward to reading it!!

 

PS: to Behappy... Yes may the gods bless DR!

[ZhenXBear]

Zhen.... Thanks! Good to know!

 

I hope that you are able to get a bit creative and reference the "luxury car experience" in your review.

 

In one review I compared an escort to the Sears Catalog and wrote another as if it were a restaurant review. The former to reference the escort's versatility as in "Craftsmen Tools" vs. the "Softer Side of Sears". The later because the guy was also trained as a chef...

 

Either way looking forward to reading it!!

 

PS: to Behappy... Yes may the gods bless DR!

 

Heh, sorry nothing quite so allegorical in my actual review, without giving it away, it was simply heartfelt honesty.

[curiousnomore]

Hey ZhenXBear,

 

You don't need to recalibrate your standards. Accept nothing but the best. Hanging out with Peter Hung is a great start. I'm jealous.

[bobchitown]

Hey ZhenXBear,

 

You don't need to recalibrate your standards. Accept nothing but the best. Hanging out with Peter Hung is a great start. I'm jealous.

Peter is indeed among the best.

[TruHart1]

Zhen... Congrats! It always feels good when you hit a BINGO! I was lucky my first time. The guy was located in a fifth floor walk up. I recall walking down the stairs. I felt as though I were a super hero ready to conquer the world. Yes, I could even fly! In fact I don't remember my feet touching the stairs as I descended back down to earth...

 

etc...

 

I felt exactly as WG describes, only my first escort walked me down those stairs himself and kissed me 3 times as I was leaving. I, too, recall my feet not touching the ground as I walked back to the subway!!!

 

Just to clarify, I have put virtual pen to virtual paper; my forthcoming review will be about my "luxury car" experience and an afternoon spent with the dashingly handsome Sir Peter Hung

 

Yes...Peter Hung is one of the best of the best! I think those of us who have had the privilege of meeting him can all agree with your high opinion!

 

TruHart1

[whipped guy]

Heh, sorry nothing quite so allegorical in my actual review, without giving it away, it was simply heartfelt honesty.

We all have a certain writing style when submitting reviews. My style often varies depending on the guy and the situation, and at times I do like to get a bit creative or even allegorical. However, no matter what the style Zhen hits the nail on the head... when he mentions "heartfelt honesty".

 

Actually even if one needs to submit a less then stellar review... being forthright and sincerely honest is the way to go.

[+ peterhung85]

Dear ZhenXBear,

 

First of all, allow me to THANK YOU for taking the time and effort to take me out for a test drive. I know that there are MANY CARS to choose from nowadays, yet you put your faith into me. I know that it is not the youngest but not the oldest one either. I would like to think of it as the perfect blend of experience with a proven track record designed to attract and captivate the attention of the most consummate buyer who would not want to settle with anything but the best (OK, maybe not the best but leaving nothing less behind than great memories). As every other car in the lot, I tried to shine the best I could and was eager to prove that I am worth being taken out for a spin (or two).

 

Having said that, it takes a professional driver to bring out the maximum performance from any car and being inexperienced is not always a drawback. It enables you to feel things the way you may only feel for the very first time you drive a premium brand and whatever is missing can be complimented with the right attitude You seemed to be the person who found the right balance between performance, speed, acceleration and the right consumption (since I only had a salad for brunch/lunch).

 

Just like any car, I might need some TLC as the time goes by and I might not always bring out the exact same feelings in our future encounters, however should you decide not to abandon this vehicle, I promise to return the favor by providing you with a consistent performance.

 

In conclusion I must say: I ENJOYED THE RIDE!

 

Yours,

Peter Hung

 

Hi All,

 

Once again, I want to thank you all for your understanding, help and encouragement. I recently reached out to everyone for advice regarding hiring for the first time and reported a positive experience after getting up the nerve to do so. After this weekend, I must honestly recalibrate. I kind of liken it to being in high school or college and having your first car. You liked it because you had freedom to do the things you wanted to do. It was a great car.

 

Flash forward to the point where you drive your first luxury automobile off the lot. The ventilated seats cooling your back as you take it down the road for the first time, the premium sound system, the comfortable leather seats and the isolation from the outside world make you smile at thoughts of yourself and what you thought, was a great car at the time.

 

What does this have to do with escorts? Well, I wrote my first review tonight which I assume will be published at some point. In many ways my "first hire" was like my first car; I thought it was great because I simply didn't have anything to compare it to. This weekend, I spent time with "my second hire" who is by all measures a premium, luxury brand of companion who is very well reviewed here. He's definitely set the bar very high.

 

Are we allowed to share accolades?

[ZhenXBear]

^^ This gentlemen, is masterful allegory at it's finest, lol. You're full of surprises, Sir Peter :)

[whipped guy]

Damn! I might just have to hire Mr. Hung simply to be able to write another allegorical review! Of course, I certainly could not top the luxury auto reference... Plus, I've already submitted review referencing the Sears Catalog, Nick at Night, the American Dental Association, and of course there was the restaurant review among others. So I would need to take a somewhat different angle.

 

Somehow I think that Peter more than has enough talents to be able to supply a sufficient amount of material for a number of allegorical viewpoints and reviews.

 

So guys... Normally I would say that we need to get out there and test the waters... but with Peter I guess we could just jump right in and enjoy the ride...

 

Hmmmm... There's a thought... No dry land involved. Perhaps an allegorical cruise with Peter.... Has possibilities!

[mike carey]

The more Peter Hung says in here, the more I like him! Allegories or not.

[AdamSmith]

Allegory is hot. One time living in Cambridge, MA I hired a guy who turned out to be a comp lit grad student at Harvard and we spent a torrid evening up each other's ass while arguing whether Angus Fletcher's theory of allegory was supported or contravened by that of Maureen Quilligan.

 

You almost had to have been there.

[mike carey]

[W]e spent a torrid evening up each other's ass while arguing whether Angus Fletcher's theory of allegory was supported or contravened by that of Maureen Quilligan.

 

As long as you were up each other's arses, that's fine!

[+ g56whiz]

You almost had to have been there.

 

You can safely drop the "almost" professor Smith. LOL

[curiousnomore]

That's hot (allegorically). If you connect, the subject doesn't matter. It just makes play time more fun for both of you.

[AdamSmith]

What was hot was arguing while screwing. Or vice versa?

 

It almost felt like we were married.

[whipped guy]

What was hot was arguing while screwing. Or vice versa?

 

It almost felt like we were married.

Well this reminds me about the time that I had one hell of an argument about the correct pronunciation of the Puccini opera La Rondine with an escort. He kept insisting that it was pronounced RonDINe with the final e clipped... I would not back down. He then told me that Bellini's opera La Sonnambula was written in the Twentieth Century. Well, the MET production was set in the last century, but it was actually composed in 1831. He would not believe that the opera was supposed to take place in a Swiss village and not Midtown Manhattan! Damn in 1831 there was no real Midtown Manhattan. So this fight of operatic proportions about Italian opera escalates to a fight of Wagnerian proportions.

 

However, we were not screwing. It was a BDSM session and the escort was wielding the floggers! I'm a tough SOB... or at least I was at the time... and the more intense things got the more I would not back down. I got in the final lick as I slapped his butt with the backpack containing my "tools of the trade" as I left his apartment. In any event, all the arguing certainly added to the intensity of the experience to say the least... So not a bad thing.

 

Incidentally the fight continued for about a week via email... The guy was a cocky dom type who needed to be cut down a few pegs. He's now retired. For the record, the guy had a posh apartment that was located very close to the MET and a client had taken him to a number of productions there. That made him an expert in the field.