Green and timid

[Andrew]

Thank you everyone for excellent feedback. Much appreciated.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Andrew - Welcome to the Forum.

 

Your question is fair and from reading many reviews, I can understand the basis for asking it.

 

I think that you will find that there are all sorts of men that hire these beautiful boys. Some have wonderfully large bankrolls to support a liberal hiring lifestyle; however, others save their pennies to see someone for an hour.

 

The escorts I've hired only expect whatever is agreed upon when setting the appointment. That might be a fee for an hour together, a fee for an overnight plus dinner, or fee for our time together plus dinner plus tickets for the show for which I don't want to see alone. As you read posts here on the forum, you will find that some escorts actually prefer hourly appointments and others do better in longer engagements.

[gallahadesquire]

Andrew - Welcome to the Forum.

 

Your question is fair and from reading many reviews, I can understand the basis for asking it.

 

I think that you will find that there are all sorts of men that hire these beautiful boys. Some have wonderfully large bankrolls to support a liberal hiring lifestyle; however, others save their pennies to see someone for an hour.

 

The escorts I've hired only expect whatever is agreed upon when setting the appointment. That might be a fee for an hour together, a fee for an overnight plus dinner, or fee for our time together plus dinner plus tickets for the show for which I don't want to see alone. As you read posts here on the forum, you will find that some escorts actually prefer hourly appointments and others do better in longer engagements.

 

Just for what it's worth: I'm a big fan of the BFE-"Dinner and a Movie" kinda experience. An hour? Just getting started. Three plus dinner? That's a start.

 

I'm a romantic at heart, and I know it. And I've got to make a connection to be able to be interested. Taking a boy (well, young gentleman, actually) to a steak house and feeding him a vintage port (1985? I think it was) and therefore ruining his tastebuds forever ...

[TruHart1]

Andrew - Welcome to the Forum.

 

Your question is fair and from reading many reviews, I can understand the basis for asking it...

 

...etc.

 

Yes Andrew, welcome to the forum!

 

For me personally, the majority of my hires are for a couple of hours, not too much, but not too little time to get comfortable and get to know a new guy. There are a few special guys with whom I spend more time, and enjoy sharing dinner/lunch, sight-seeing or just hanging around. Of course, with those men, I enjoy paying the cost for any and all of our social activities. Yet the majority of escorts, even those I hire on a regular basis, don't expect anything beyond the fee and time agreed on for our appointment.

 

TruHart1

[+ Gar1eth]

I've done short hour, 2 hour, 3, hour appointments as well as overnight and weekend equivalents, most of the guys I've been with have been fine with whatever arrangement we've made when setting up the meeting. Sometimes I've felt like they deserved a tip-sometimes not. I even had an escort turn down extra money I offered once (former porn star Dean Monroe-I'll give him a 'plug' here-if he's ever visiting here or you go to London-and if Dean is your type-he is the nicest, friendliest low key type of guy-you'd never know except for the fact that people can't take their eyes off him that he's a porn star.).

 

About the dinner or lunch meeting-unless it's at least an overnight-I can't get into it. If you meet for the meal first-while it's nice to get to know the guy-or just catch up on things if you already know them-I don't do well at sex on a full tummy-plus if it's a three hour meeting you may have to rush through the meal to get to sex. If you meet before the meal-even for a three hour meeting-you may have to rush through sex to get to the meal on time. So if I were going to do a meal- I'd want at the minimum 4 hours and better 5. If I'm staying 5 hours with an escort, and considering I'm often lonely after the ecort leaves, I'd prefer an overnight. But that's just me. Now if I meet up with an escort-and after we finish-if I'm going to eat-and he's hungry and wants to go with me-'off the clock' except for the meal-that's fine. I can only remember that happening only a few times though.

 

Gman

[+ newatthis]

Ok, so. I'm reading a lot of reviews, tuning into Notable Members' dialog, etc. I am definitely motivated and for the past few months have been inching closer and closer to reaching out and attempting to enjoy the company of one of these beautiful boys. That said, it seems the men providing reviews seem to have the ability to provide things that otherwise might be out of reach for myself. Trips, fine dinning etc. Is there an expectation that any person desiring to be a client of one of these boys be more than the $200/hr? Thanks, and apologies if this is the wrong place, wrong question for this concern.

Welcome!

 

I know many people, including myself, who hire almost exclusively for an hour*. I've never known an escort who had a problem with that. I don't have the impression that reviewers here go mostly for multi-hour, expensive experiences, but I may just be skipping those reviews. (If it's true, could there be a correlation between time/money spent and willingness to write a review?)

 

*When I was getting started, I hired for an hour and a half if that was possible, or tried to arrange "an hour, extendable to 2 if we're both agreeable" because I was apprehensive that it would take longer than an hour to break the ice, or for me to come. I learned pretty quickly that I didn't need to do that.

[Zapped]

I've hired on and off for 20 years or more, not very regularly. Every time it's just been for an hour--I'm not a wealthy guy.

[uwsman2]

I've been hiring off and on for more than 30 years, and it's never been for more than an hour. I don't have that kind of spare cash hanging around. And, in my experience, a good escort can make an hour seem very full and satisfying.

[liubit]

In my twenty-plus year "hiring career", I have experienced multiple one-hours, overnights, weekends, weeks. Every one of those lengths has pros and cons, but I must say I have enjoyed mostly all of them. Chemistry is required for longer appointments but, when I lived in New York, I frequently brought guys from Premier in Philly for overnights without knowing them first. It proved to be a risk worth taking: most were good, some mediocre, and I never had a disastrous experience. In the last years, I have concentrated in one-hours, and have come to realize that short sessions are what I enjoy the most. I often repeat boys, and little by little I develop a good relationship with them. I now prefer multiple one-hour sessions with the same boy than a longer time with him. The chemistry is there, and the sex is more intense than during an overnight... :)

[Rudynate]

Ok, so. I'm reading a lot of reviews, tuning into Notable Members' dialog, etc. I am definitely motivated and for the past few months have been inching closer and closer to reaching out and attempting to enjoy the company of one of these beautiful boys. That said, it seems the men providing reviews seem to have the ability to provide things that otherwise might be out of reach for myself. Trips, fine dinning etc. Is there an expectation that any person desiring to be a client of one of these boys be more than the $200/hr? Thanks, and apologies if this is the wrong place, wrong question for this concern.

 

 

You get to structure the encounter the way you want it. I like escorts mostly for sex, companionship is secondary to me. So, for me, paying for two or three hours of the escort's time is fine.

 

I am beginning to imagine, though, a larger role for escorts in my life. Not long ago, I had breakfast with one of my hires. I treated, but it was otherwise off the clock. And I did enjoy it very much. Sitting across the table from a handsome man with big muscles and ice-blue eyes is hardly just companionship.

 

Haven't done it yet, but I have started to think about flying somebody to me. I loathe air travel, but I have a short list of must-sees around the country that it would be easier to get to if they traveled instead of me.

 

I can afford it, but it's a new version of myself that I never quite imagined. But then, recently, my personality has been taking some interesting new turns.