Bondage trusted escorts

[Guest borger1582]

I realize that under the banner of fetish and BDSM in this 'Fetish Forum' there are a number of posts about escorts who engage in bondage, as well as advice for bondage and SM novices, both specifically related to escorts, and in general. However, I've pondered for a while starting a thread about bondage specifically. I do NOT know if merely saying here if an escort engages in bondage violates the terms of the Forum, and more properly should go in a review. If so, I'll happily submit to moderator killing of this thread. But as a customer who is primarily bondage-focused, and who has greatly appreciated those escorts who engage in BDSM (especially those willing to switch), I'd love to have forum users be able to express which escorts were useful/skilled/willing in this area. Not all three necessarily align. I always ask the escort, when we are done, if they are willing to have me mention the bondage activity in my review; and to a man, I believe, they all have said yes. Such information would be very valuable to me for hiring. Thoughts, gentlemen? I'm going to post another thread about my specific likes, and see what pops up.

[TruHart1]

I am a completely vanilla client, always on the look-out for that BFE. However, from reading his reviews and other threads here about Raul G. Manzo, I believe he may meet your criteria completely. I've hired him many times, but only for the vanilla experience, at which he is outstanding! He HAS shown me some of his home-made "toys" though, and as some of his reviews describe, he is excellent at furnishing the BDSM experience!

 

TruHart1

[whipped guy]

The switch is the tricky part.

Finding escorts who will do BDSM is not a big deal. Also, mentioning names is not verboten either... Raul is certainly an excellent choice for the Chicago area. I'm not sure where you are located, or if you would be willing to travel or have them travel to you.

 

However, you specifically mention "especially those willing to switch". That is where it gets tricky.

 

They exist and I have done it with a few... Incidentally all but one asked me to do it to them, and regarding the one who didn't, I jokingly dared him and he surprisingly agreed on the spot. Reviews were written for all but the last mentioned guy.... Actually to be more specific... I never offered to write the last guy a review because he really did not need one... and for some reason I thought that I would be overstepping my bounds... At any rate, the decision was mine alone and to this day I wonder if he would have agreed to such a review... Well, I did subsequently write a review but it was a over year later and described a different type of scenario.

 

In any event, all the reviews were very carefully written and worded. I would doubt that most of these guys would jump at the opportunity without first establishing a bond of trust and mutual respect with the client. In other words, I doubt that they would do it with first time clients... well, actually it was our first time together for that one guy for whom I did not initially write a review, but I guess I just came across as being totally trustworthy... and to be fair we have hit it off quite nicely ever since... It's just that since then he has been doing most of the hitting...

 

Regarding the others, it was either a need to experiment and satisfy a bit of curiosity or it was something that they practiced in their private lives and not something that they would normally do with clients. One guy has retired... The others are active, but none have either gotten a similar type review, and obviously none have advertised such a scene. As I said I doubt that they would just do it with just anyone.

 

Consequently, I feel uncomfortable blurting out any names here... There needs to be an extremely special bond between the participants... Plus, the planets have to be perfectly aligned... Moreover, since I was dealing more with the S&M component of BDSM it was imperative that I be quite careful and cautious so as not to turn these exquisite specimens of manhood into damage goods... After all, their body's are their bread and butter!

 

In any event, if you are interested in escorts who specialize more in rope play, cuffs, etc. the possibilities would probably be a bit less problematic. When dealing with the bondage aspects a bit more leeway might enter into the equation... Still, it would certainly take a certain amount of trust for any escort to submit to such a scenario...

 

As for your specific likes... I would post them along with your location and I'll bet that you will get a lot of advice to help you get started regarding your specific wants, desires, and needs! It's worth a shot!

Edited March 29, 2015 by whipped guy

[Guest borger1582]

Whipped Guy, I completely agree re: the switch being the tricky part, and I want to be VERY respectful of escorts in that regard, thus I specifically have asked if they want that information 'public' either here or in the reviews. Most have NOT switched, and I've only subbed. The few that did, decided to do so only after we met face-to-face, which I support completely.

 

I will do as you suggest and post my preferences in another thread here in the fetish forum.

[+ quoththeraven]

I'm not sure he'd switch for a first-time client, but the Legendary Dave out of DC is another possibility. So is Tyger Bhugghatti of Portland, OR. They work together out of Dave's Fuck House (it's actually an apartment) once or twice a year. That might be a better possibility for switching, as one of them would be able to keep track of what you're doing and help you do whatever it was you were doing to the other. Both are versatile as well.

 

The caveat to check first about how they'd feel about being bound during a first appointment would also apply to Raul.

[whipped guy]

Whipped Guy, I completely agree re: the switch being the tricky part, and I want to be VERY respectful of escorts in that regard, thus I specifically have asked if they want that information 'public' either here or in the reviews. Most have NOT switched, and I've only subbed. The few that did, decided to do so only after we met face-to-face, which I support completely.

 

I will do as you suggest and post my preferences in another thread here in the fetish forum.

You're right on target... and as you say you need to be very respectful. I would suggest that you might post your desires right here in this thread as that way everything... that is not only what you are looking for but what your specific preferences are... will be in one convenient location so those who respond won't have to toggle back and forth between threads. Just a thought. Plus, the you have already gotten at least three names so far and while I have only had personal experience with one of them the others are certainly knowledgeable regarding a BDSM scene.

 

I would also suggest that you visit a BDSM club in your area if one exists... NYC has its infamous NYBC... The New York Bondage Club... You would be able to find exactly what you are looking for by meeting like-minded individuals... You would also be able to play on both sides of the equation. It is also a place where one can learn the ropes... Pun definitely intended!

 

As I said just some thoughts... approach things as you feel comfortable... and here's to you enjoying to the max!!

 

PS: Also thanks for starting a serious discussion down here,.. Heaven knows that I've tried. I hope this becomes lively and you get lots of responses and advice.

[Guest borger1582]

I wanted this thread to not necessarily be about me; but I understand why you suggest expressing my interest.

 

On a side note, I have a 'bucket list' about the NYBC - I'd LOVE to attend, perhaps next spring I'll have the opportunity . . .

[Guest borger1582]

So here's my interest, as of this date:

 

(1) bondage - the more immobilizing, the better, but often striking a balance between complete immobility (e.g., sleepsack, mummification) and areas kept open and available for access (e.g., spreadeagle, standing spreadeagle). Ideal would be spreadeagle with multiple tie-down points (ankles, wrists, waist, arms, thighs, calves).

 

(2) tickling - rubbing, scraping, touching sensitive areas that give a reaction, but not caused by pain. On the teasing side of torture, but using the sensation, threat of more intense tickling, and bursts of intense tickling to get into the sub's head.

 

(3) teasing - by this I mean of the genitals; included is cum control/edging, by which I mean manipulation until the sub WANTS to cum, but is unable to do so without the manipulative assistance of the dom.

 

(4) post-orgasm stimulation - should be obvious, but the deliberate, continued manipulation of the genitals after orgasm.

 

(5) post-orgasm tickling - as a threat during the original tickling phase, as 'payment' for a break, to test the effectiveness of the bondage.

 

(6) VERY MILD to no pain!

 

(7) NOT into anal, giving or receiving.

 

(8) NOT into roleplay.

 

(9) games of chance to determine who is tied, and how they are tickled or teased - VERY arousing.

 

(10) not into oral per se, but OK if it arises in the course of a scene.

 

(11) if it's not clear from #9, enjoy switching.

 

So Cal generally, but work in both Nor Cal and Arizona a few times per year.

[anotherjohnindupont]

I am a completely vanilla client, always on the look-out for that BFE. However, from reading his reviews and other threads here about Raul G. Manzo, I believe he may meet your criteria completely. I've hired him many times, but only for the vanilla experience, at which he is outstanding! He HAS shown me some of his home-made "toys" though, and as some of his reviews describe, he is excellent at furnishing the BDSM experience!

 

TruHart1

 

 

The legendary dave is also very famous about doing that kind of things

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

The switch is the tricky part.

Finding escorts who will do BDSM is not a big deal. Also, mentioning names is not verboten either... Raul is certainly an excellent choice for the Chicago area. I'm not sure where you are located, or if you would be willing to travel or have them travel to you.

 

However, you specifically mention "especially those willing to switch". That is where it gets tricky.

 

They exist and I have done it with a few... Incidentally all but one asked me to do it to them, and regarding the one who didn't, I jokingly dared him and he surprisingly agreed on the spot. Reviews were written for all but the last mentioned guy.... Actually to be more specific... I never offered to write the last guy a review because he really did not need one... and for some reason I thought that I would be overstepping my bounds... At any rate, the decision was mine alone and to this day I wonder if he would have agreed to such a review... Well, I did subsequently write a review but it was a over year later and described a different type of scenario.

 

In any event, all the reviews were very carefully written and worded. I would doubt that most of these guys would jump at the opportunity without first establishing a bond of trust and mutual respect with the client. In other words, I doubt that they would do it with first time clients... well, actually it was our first time together for that one guy for whom I did not initially write a review, but I guess I just came across as being totally trustworthy... and to be fair we have hit it off quite nicely ever since... It's just that since then he has been doing most of the hitting...

 

Regarding the others, it was either a need to experiment and satisfy a bit of curiosity or it was something that they practiced in their private lives and not something that they would normally do with clients. One guy has retired... The others are active, but none have either gotten a similar type review, and obviously none have advertised such a scene. As I said I doubt that they would just do it with just anyone.

 

Consequently, I feel uncomfortable blurting out any names here... There needs to be an extremely special bond between the participants... Plus, the planets have to be perfectly aligned... Moreover, since I was dealing more with the S&M component of BDSM it was imperative that I be quite careful and cautious so as not to turn these exquisite specimens of manhood into damage goods... After all, their body's are their bread and butter!

 

In any event, if you are interested in escorts who specialize more in rope play, cuffs, etc. the possibilities would probably be a bit less problematic. When dealing with the bondage aspects a bit more leeway might enter into the equation... Still, it would certainly take a certain amount of trust for any escort to submit to such a scenario...

 

As for your specific likes... I would post them along with your location and I'll bet that you will get a lot of advice to help you get started regarding your specific wants, desires, and needs! It's worth a shot!

 

Hey Whipped -- Saw the thread on BDSM with escorts --- I took a year or so for me to connect with a very well reviewed animal --- but we spent a memorable 24 hours at my home with him as the Master keeping the slave prisoner in his own home - very hot -- Even though this was our first meeting he asked me several times if we could switch and tempted as I was I had a particular fantasy in mind to fulfill --- which he did admirably -- But he definitely wanted to try some of my gear including learning about and how to use electric and caths --- We have tried to meet again but schedules have not aligned -- next time he asks -- He may be shocked! at the results! LOL

[+ Tygerscent]

Numbers 1 thru 5 are completely HHHHOT~!!!

I can respect 6, 7, 8 and 10... 9 is hot too~ Where in SoCal are you~?

I would also like to add breath in skin as a teaser... Speaking in filthy ways with

Lips barely touching... And blindfolds~

 

Tyger

971.400.2633

tygerkink@yahoo.com

 

So here's my interest, as of this date:

 

(1) bondage - the more immobilizing, the better, but often striking a balance between complete immobility (e.g., sleepsack, mummification) and areas kept open and available for access (e.g., spreadeagle, standing spreadeagle). Ideal would be spreadeagle with multiple tie-down points (ankles, wrists, waist, arms, thighs, calves).

 

(2) tickling - rubbing, scraping, touching sensitive areas that give a reaction, but not caused by pain. On the teasing side of torture, but using the sensation, threat of more intense tickling, and bursts of intense tickling to get into the sub's head.

 

(3) teasing - by this I mean of the genitals; included is cum control/edging, by which I mean manipulation until the sub WANTS to cum, but is unable to do so without the manipulative assistance of the dom.

 

(4) post-orgasm stimulation - should be obvious, but the deliberate, continued manipulation of the genitals after orgasm.

 

(5) post-orgasm tickling - as a threat during the original tickling phase, as 'payment' for a break, to test the effectiveness of the bondage.

 

(6) VERY MILD to no pain!

 

(7) NOT into anal, giving or receiving.

 

(8) NOT into roleplay.

 

(9) games of chance to determine who is tied, and how they are tickled or teased - VERY arousing.

 

(10) not into oral per se, but OK if it arises in the course of a scene.

 

(11) if it's not clear from #9, enjoy switching.

 

So Cal generally, but work in both Nor Cal and Arizona a few times per year.

[+ dutchmuch]

What escort has a venue with equipment?

[AdamSmith]

I keep reading the thread title as Bonded trusted escorts.

 

Now there's an idea!

 

http://i1.wp.com/www.suretybonds.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/How-to-Obtain-a-Surety-Bond.jpg

[borgerback]

Hoping this request is not seen as a duplicate: thinking about trying this guy out:

 

http://rentmen.com/DevinCorr

 

He's in Palm Springs, and says he is adept at bondage. Any information would be appreciated!

 

E

[borgerback]

Gents, there is ONE recent review on Daddy's, just found it! Sounds fantastic! So any additional information is appreciated. Review is under Devin C. Can't figure quickly how to link it, sorry for the tech ignorance.

 

(duplicate from my Deli thread)

[whipped guy]

Gents, there is ONE recent review on Daddy's, just found it! Sounds fantastic! So any additional information is appreciated. Review is under Devin C. Can't figure quickly how to link it, sorry for the tech ignorance.

 

(duplicate from my Deli thread)

Here's the link to his review page.

 

http://daddysreviews.com/cruise/2015-08-07/devin_c_ps

 

The review seems to deal more with his persona as opposed to any BDSM/ bondage. Still, good to know that he seems trustworthy and is a nice guy. That's the number one prerequisite for a "bondage trusted escort".

[Mikegaite]

I have heard there are some southern CA escorts going to Delta so you might want to ask an invitee about that to broaden your list.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

While most of my sessions are more along the BFE lines, I certainly have the experience, knowledge and ability for some great BDSM play. I have access to an amazing playspace in SF. It's an extra $80/hr, and has everything imaginable as far as equipment, toys and gear.

[killianjamesnyc]

I go to the NYBC sometimes, it's hot to watch but I rarely participate. I like to keep all my nasty dirty antics behind the closed door of my spare..bedroom

[whipped guy]

I go to the NYBC sometimes, it's hot to watch but I rarely participate. I like to keep all my nasty dirty antics behind the closed door of my spare..bedroom

Oh! So you're the quiet guy in the corner taking in all the wild antics at the NYBC! Hmmm!!!??

 

Actually I find the place to be hit and miss at times and it is best to go with a buddy so you are assured of having some fun. Back in July I was supposed to met a couple of guys there but they had to cancel at the last minute. It ended up being a very dull night and I just ended up watching. However, and ironically, a couple of weeks ago the place was really jumping even though there were very few guys in attendance. In fact when I walked in I figured that it was going to be another bust. However, it depends on exactly who shows up. I always go as a dom and one guy wanted his nips twisted and worked over until be came, another guy wanted to have his butt paddled, and a third guy wanted to be flogged. So BINGO! Smile on my face. That combined with watching a couple of other scenes and it was more than worth the price of admission.

 

Still, Killian is right! While it can be hot to watch at the NYBC, at times it is indeed better to do those "nasty dirty antics behind... closed door(s)"! Being in a more controlled environment and in a one on one situation certainly has its advantages.

Edited September 11, 2015 by whipped guy

[johnjohn]

Are there any bondage clubs in Toronto? or Recommended escorts? I am visiting there in April

[+ nycman]

One of my most treasured escort memories involves a BDSM session with an escort.

 

He was pretty edgy on a average day, but I still hesitated to broach the topic with him.

 

After about 2 years of hiring and becoming VERY comfortable with each other...I asked him if he was open to the idea.

 

To my surprise he jumped at it.

 

I spent a few weeks getting ready...and to be honest, studying on the internet. Although I was pretty well versed in the ways

of being a great top, I was also very naive as I didn't have much, if any, real experience in BDSM.

 

I studied hard. I really wanted it to be a great experience for him. I worked my ass off getting ready.

 

Thankfully, our previous chemistry carried over seamlessly. I couldn't believe how trusting he was. And as a result it brought

out an intense desire within myself to bring him to the edge of his comfort zone without violating any of the trust he had

bestowed upon me.

 

I'll skip all the gory details, but after hours of intense, sweating, pulsating, trembling, and powerful sex with two men

sharing their inner most beings with each other...he collapsed whimpering the most earnest and honest gratitude I've ever

heard come from another mans lips.....

 

It was that intense.....and I will never forget it.

[whipped guy]

One of my most treasured escort memories involves a BDSM session with an escort.

 

He was pretty edgy on a average day, but I still hesitated to broach the topic with him.

 

After about 2 years of hiring and becoming VERY comfortable with each other...I asked him if he was open to the idea.

 

To my surprise he jumped at it.

 

I spent a few weeks getting ready...and to be honest, studying on the internet. Although I was pretty well versed in the ways

of being a great top, I was also very naive as I didn't have much, if any, real experience in BDSM.

 

I studied hard. I really wanted it to be a great experience for him. I worked my ass off getting ready.

 

Thankfully, our previous chemistry carried over seamlessly. I couldn't believe how trusting he was. And as a result it brought

out an intense desire within myself to bring him to the edge of his comfort zone without violating any of the trust he had

bestowed upon me.

 

I'll skip all the gory details, but after hours of intense, sweating, pulsating, trembling, and powerful sex with two men

sharing their inner most beings with each other...he collapsed whimpering the most earnest and honest gratitude I've ever

heard come from another mans lips.....

 

It was that intense.....and I will never forget it.

If I understand your post correctly, since you decided to "skip all the gory details", you say that the escort was "trusting", and you say that you brought him "to the edge of his comfort zone", I am going to make the assumption that the escort was the BDSM sub.

 

Yes! It is smazing how many guys out there (escort or otherwise) are either closeted BDSM subs or have a great desire to play on the sub-side of the so-called darker side! As in your case most of the times the session is planned. However, it can be spontaneous as when one vanilla based escort suddenly got on his knees and begged me to punish him. Now that really took me by surprise! Another time I jokingly mentioned it and the guy took me up on the offer right on the spot and it was our first time meeting!!!! It all boils down to the sub having trust and confidence that the dom will not cross or violate his limits and comfort zone. In the case of playing a BDSM dom, nice guys finish first as that's what it takes for the sub to submit willingnessly and unequivocally.

[Youngmilkman]

A late bump, but just thought I'd mention the London escort 'Max Wild'. He doesn't seem to be on any official escorts site, nor has he any Daddysreviews - I found him on one of those Backpage/Craigslist/Doublelist sites. He is suprisingly trusting (!) as a bondage sub. Terrific tall, athletic ripped body, well-spoken (sounds like he attended private school in England), bisexual.

 

The only reason I haven't revisited is that he was very late for our appointment (otherwise he's great at responding), and his kinks are more "burlesque" (think Venetian masks rather than gasmasks!) which is a slight turn-off for me. But one escort worth getting to know.