Do You Prefer Busier or More Exclusive

[SteveEscort]

I am asking this question because it was put to me yesterday and your responses will form part of a future blog post I have in mind (I won't name names lol)

 

I was visited by a gentleman yesterday who has been following my blog and twitter account for some time. He lives locally (less than two miles from me) and had been following me for a year. He wanted to get a feel for who I was. He mentioned during the appointment that some days I seemed very busy, other days I had time to visit garden centres and occasionally chill out with a cider in a country pub, in the summer sun. I had also talked about my various trips to see men throughout the UK and my monthly visits to Germany and my holidays to Turkey.

 

He described me as exclusive but busy and I disagreed. I said ....... you can't really be both.

 

I feel I get the balance right online, talking about my life because it's my real life and I'm honest about it but if I said I had seen multiple men in one day, would that put off potential new gentlemen or do you prefer to see guys who appear to be popular and reliable.

[Guest]

I'm not sure your question makes a lot of sense. I doubt most clients care much about what an escort does with the rest of his life, and/or whether he considers himself exclusive. I hire on the basis of whether I think I'll have a hot time with the escort. A nephew of mine (adult, of course) once asked me who I considered the most handsome man I knew. I thought about it, then said Nick Adams. Now if Nick Adams were to put himself up for sale, I would gladly pay $1000 for a romp in the hay, if I had reason to believe he wasn't going to rip me off. Of course, reviews matter too. I'm totally hot for Sean Lockhart, but I heard he was a lousy lay, so I didn't hire him when he came to town. I can't remember the last time I hired someone who didn't show his face in his ad (over 10 years), so I would probably never hire you, for instance--no offense intended. I will pay more for someone I consider hot and who I think will be a good lay based on reviews. What the escort thinks of himself has no relevance to me, unless it adversely affects his performance (ie someone like Sean Lockhart who thinks that he's so hot that he only needs to be there).

 

Nick Adams

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[SteveEscort]

I do show who I am ..... guys only have to ask

 

The face up front pic is for the those confident of doing so. I also have another job, albeit freelance, it's still a job, my employers wouldn't find amusing to find out about me being an escort

 

If it's your preference then you're missing out on so many men willing to show you themselves. After all, you hardly go on there with a face pic declaring who you are ... and so bare in mind that they have as much to lose.

[BaronArtz]

My personal opinion/preference: I like guys who are a bit on the exclusive side. While there is no doubt what most escorts do for a living, I sort of dislike knowing that I may very well be #3,4,5, ... that day. Once, I saw a client leave my favorite escorts apartment, just as I was ready to walk in. It really shouldn't make any difference, but it really turned me OFF. Again, this is just my personal preference. No right or wrong answers.

[SteveEscort]

There isn't no

[+ purplekow]

I would prefer that the escort I am seeing be fresh and excited at the prospect of a sexual encounter. I have no illusions however, that an escort is supplying a service and that service may be served several times a day, perhaps seven days a week, every week of the year. So while i would like the idea of exclusivity, and probably have an illusion of that in my mind, deep down I know that most escorts have been with hundreds if not thousands of men and that i am just another one in the line, a memorable one, but also just another one.

[TruHart1]

My personal opinion/preference: I like guys who are a bit on the exclusive side. While there is no doubt what most escorts do for a living, I sort of dislike knowing that I may very well be #3,4,5, ... that day. Once, I saw a client leave my favorite escorts apartment, just as I was ready to walk in. It really shouldn't make any difference, but it really turned me OFF. Again, this is just my personal preference. No right or wrong answers.

 

I do tend to enjoy escorts who are not the 5 appointment a day types. It's great to feel special. Having said that, I have met a few "very busy" guys who yet had the ability to give me a wonderful BFE even though I might be their #3 appointment that day. When all is said and done, if I feel like I got my money's worth or more, I don't really care how many clients the escort sees before or after his time with me!

 

TruHart1

[BaronArtz]

I would prefer that the escort I am seeing be fresh and excited at the prospect of a sexual encounter. I have no illusions however, that an escort is supplying a service and that service may be served several times a day, perhaps seven days a week, every week of the year. So while i would like the idea of exclusivity, and probably have an illusion of that in my mind, deep down I know that most escorts have been with hundreds if not thousands of men and that i am just another one in the line, a memorable one, but also just another one.

 

I totally get that. The reputation of some of the 'best' guys in the business is built on providing a quality service to literally thousands of men, several times a day, seven days a week, possibly every week of the year.

 

Which is why I prefer up-and-coming talent, provided by guys who are perhaps at the cusp of being discovered. They may be still rough around the edges, unpolished, but I very much like the spontaneity, the freshness of it all, the fact that nothing is 'scripted' or 'rehearsed'. On the other extreme side of the market, I enjoy guys who are so truly amazing in appearance and in quality of service, that it allows them to be very selective who they do business with, being kept in a comfortable lifestyle by a just a few regulars.

 

Each time I make a new discovery, I am deeply grateful that there are so many talented guys out there. What is important to me, is to make a totally human connection.

[Steven_Draker]

What is important to me, is to make a totally human connection.

 

Right on, BaronArtz. Who on Earth would want to spend time with a "robotic escort"?

 

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[armadillo]

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Orgasmatron from Sleeper 1973.

 

But really, 'busy' or 'exclusive', I just want to be treated with respect and have fun. It goes both ways.

[nynakedtop]

Interesting thread.... And I hope my response is relevant.

 

There is a masseur/escort who is heavily reviewed and is consistently highly (almost effusively) praised on this site. I actually avoided him because of the number of reviews posted and the enthusiastic language everyone used about him. I just considered him to be, well, a bit "too much out there"... Because I had left a trace of my visiting his posting on another site, he began "marketing" himself to me. Quite a bit. Quite often. One day I did book a session and realized that my initial mis-givings were well founded. I found him to be quite UNDER-whelming and indeed a 24-hour self-promotion machine. He tried to up-sell me during the session, which I really resent, and kept telling me how HOT he is. Almost a case where if you surround yourself with people who tell you what you want to hear, eventually you start to believe them.

 

Lesson: Follow your hunches. Going forward, I will tend to risk less well-known persons and take my chances. I know that may not work for everyone, and I am far from suggesting that it is the smartest way to proceed. But it may work best for me.

[armadillo]

Lesson: Follow your hunches.

 

 

Trust your gut.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

In all honesty, there have been times when I hire guys for an extended visit (i.e. overnight) they have been aa busy as a guy who sees several guys in one day. :o

 

Steve, I think an occasional blog mention that you have seen multiple men in one day is fine. I'm sure you get clients that you enjoy your time together greatly, clients that are duds and you will not answer their calls again, and clients that are fine, but not memorable. No need to share everything.

[SteveEscort]

Yes... I only update the blog once or twice a month when something significant happens. I want my readership to hear about interesting things that have happened rather than a daily mundane waffling on about nonsense.

 

Those that follow my twitter account get to see the real me because I update it a lot during the day and I think that's more about what he was referring to

[tom1980]

When all is said and done, if I feel like I got my money's worth or more, I don't really care how many clients the escort sees before or after his time with me!

 

Me too. I also don't mind if the escort doesn't cum when he's with me, but I know others feel differently.

[Guest]

Me too. I also don't mind if the escort doesn't cum when he's with me, but I know others feel differently.

I offer to help get the man off, and usually he's happy to oblige, but I definitely don't insist. I understand that this is business. The last escort I hired blew such an enormous load that it was a huge ego-boost for me. I kid you not, it was more than this:

 

http://solomenjacking.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Squirtz-Simon-huge-cumshot.jpg

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I offer to help get the man off, and usually he's happy to oblige, but I definitely don't insist. I understand that this is business. The last escort I hired blew such an enormous load that it was a huge ego-boost for me.

 

Please, share the secret to your success!

[Steven_Draker]

OMG !

 

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[tom1980]

I offer to help get the man off, and usually he's happy to oblige, but I definitely don't insist. I understand that this is business. The last escort I hired blew such an enormous load that it was a huge ego-boost for me. I kid you not, it was more than this:

 

http://solomenjacking.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Squirtz-Simon-huge-cumshot.jpg

 

I had an appointment with AJ Irons when he was in Dallas last week. After I came while he was topping me (which is something I haven't been able to do in a year or two with anyone else), he asked if it was okay if he got off too. It was sweet the way he asked. Of course, I said yes. I helped him along, and when he came, it was truly explosive. I didn't see any cum on the headboard, but there were drops on his forehead (he was laying on his back on the bed).

[+ FreshFluff]

My personal opinion/preference: I like guys who are a bit on the exclusive side. While there is no doubt what most escorts do for a living, I sort of dislike knowing that I may very well be #3,4,5, ... that day. Once, I saw a client leave my favorite escorts apartment, just as I was ready to walk in. It really shouldn't make any difference, but it really turned me OFF.

 

Many of the straight AMPs have the exit door in the back to avoid having the incoming mongers coming across the ones who are leaving.

[+ purplekow]

Many of the straight AMPs have the exit door in the back to avoid having the incoming mongers coming across the ones who are leaving.

Many of the gay escorts have the entrance door in the back.

[Guest]

Please, share the secret to your success!

 

I wish I knew. I never experienced anything like it before (and believe you me, I've had experience). It almost drove me to tears. I felt like the man in the black and red shirt:

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[BaronArtz]

Many of the straight AMPs have the exit door in the back to avoid having the incoming mongers coming across the ones who are leaving.

 

What is an 'AMP'? Pardon my ignorance, please.

[Steven_Draker]

What is an 'AMP'?

 

In this case it stands for: Asian Massage Parlor