How to talk to a medical resident at a hospital?

[+ FreshFluff]

You, on the other hand, Fluffy my dear, are clearly NOT watching enough porn.

 

True but I know more about porn than you think, dear Phil.

 

But what would the patient be suing for? Alienation of affections? Disturbing the peace? Not getting any action from the hunky resident?

 

This reminded me of waking up from twilight anesthesia after having had a test. (Yes, the test that's too painful to do while one is awake.) In those first few seconds, I saw all the doctors and asked, "Oh no! Was I in an accident?" Wonder what I would have said if two people were fucking over my bed!

[+ poolboy48220]

Don’t try to over analyze it wisconsinguy. In college I was very closeted and fearful of being “found out.” One afternoon I went into the often deserted student union restroom (where I sometimes tried to sneak a peek at the urinals if a hot guy was pissing) and there was only one older black man at the urinals who, when I came through the door, turned toward me, stroking his engorged (and impressive) member. I turned tail and ran out of there as if I’d seen a ghost! Later on, that scene in my memory went on to become a jack-off fantasy for a number of months. I’ve never been into "tea room" sex but it was a pretty exciting scenario my mind created after the fact!

 

TruHart1

I have a similar unrealized situation that turned into a fantasy. A refrigerator deliveryman, two guys actually but after they got it into the kitchen, one guy went back out to the truck and the other guy stayed to install it. We flipped the door around and as I was helping him hold it up, I'd swear he was grinding his crotch into my hand. I didn't have the nerve to act on it, but in my dreams, I do.

[jbruinho7]

Well, I plunged last week and decided to write him a note. I placed it in his mailbox and basically said I just had some questions to ask in regards to the program. He actually texted me the next day! We've kinda have been making small talk since then and he actually invited me out to dinner with some friends (including his significant other) but I couldn't go because I was out of town. Yep, he's taken. FML.

[+ FreshFluff]

Don't give up, Daniel! After all, he liked you enough to invite you out with his friends.

 

I know it's hard when you're focused on one guy, but I'll bet you'll meet another hot guy soon. And maybe the resident will one day break up with his SO and ask you out.

[gallahadesquire]

Sorry about the SO. Ive met with two (2) friends long into their relationships with someone else. Our own relationships had been like brothers: No sexual but intense.

 

In both cases, I was met with hostility, as there was an easy collegiality with my Old Friend, which the New Friend a.k.a. Lover / SO / etc. found hard to accept.

 

I don't get it, to this day. Why do people in stable relationships feel threatened when an old, non-sexual friend shows up?