What time do overnights generally (!) begin?

[bomerrang]

I know everything is negotiable with said escort, including fee. But what time does a overnight 'begin'? One escort quoted me $1200 and said it wouldn't begin until 10PM, but would make a exception for me and arrive at 8PM. Dinner would be a 'late one', if at all.

 

Looking for general guidance, and all input is appreciated in advance!

[+ Gar1eth]

I know everything is negotiable with said escort, including fee. But what time does a overnight 'begin'? One escort quoted me $1200 and said it wouldn't begin until 10PM, but would make a exception for me and arrive at 8PM. Dinner would be a 'late one', if at all.

 

Looking for general guidance, and all input is appreciated in advance!

 

You are right it is negotiable. But mine have usually started around 6 pm or 7 pm because I've usually taken them for dinner and often afterwards a play/movie.

 

Gman

[+ azdr0710]

One escort quoted me $1200 and said it wouldn't begin until 10PM, but would make a exception for me and arrive at 8PM

 

 

he sounds like a real stand-up guy:rolleyes:....I suppose if he'll hang around (awake) until 9 or so the next AM, that'd be OK.....

 

as said, all is negotiable....YOU tell HIM (not necessarily this $1200 guy), politely, what you'd like it to be and see what he says.....don't haggle over the price - take what he says or leave it.....factor in meal(s) if you want to eat with him, movie or a show, sleep, driving-around time (during the encounter), what have you.....

[bigvalboy]

First off 1200 is right in the ballpark price wise. As for the time, Ditto to azdr and Gman on negotiating the time, it's really up to you. All escorts I've worked with on an overnight have been very flexible, given the fact that they have already cleared their evening. I never start before 8pm. I always offer to buy a 'nice' dinner, and they have always accepted, which for me, I consider as part of the deal, and then a quick 'nightcap' or another evening activity somewhere just to ease into our session. IF however the evening starts as early as 6 or 8pm, I would expect the escort to be up and gone fairly early, generally right after morning sex.

[JT Brooklyn]

Like everything else in "The Wonderful World of the Working Guy"..Your "Times" will vary!

 

Some Guys like to quote 10 P.M...it leaves room for other "Clients" afternoons and Early Evenings!

 

$1200 you better be sure and get at least 12 Hours out of the Guy!

[leigh.bess.toad]

Since overnights vary by escorts (I've heard some as short as 8 hours and some as long as 15-16 hours) when they start is entirely up to the escort and what he means by "overnight". So you'd better get that clearly defined. I've had overnights start as early as 7 pm and as late as 10 pm depending on the escort and how long their definition of overnight is.

[+ Gar1eth]

No matter what time it starts, I am not an early morning type of person. I prefer not meeting with guys who are so into clock watching that they are out the door at 7 or 8 AM with not even time for a cuddle in the morning. Of course if they had to leave to get to work or make a flight that's different.

 

Gman

[Dave]

my overnights are 12 hours, and can start as early as 7pm.

I prefer not to start earlier unless we're going for longer than the 12 hours (I will extend 1, 2, or 3 hours, for an additional fee) - only because selfishly, I don't want to be saying goodbye to someone before 7am - LOL! naturally, I'll do that if there's no other choice, ie if the client has an early morning obligation elsewhere.

 

I'm happy to begin an overnight with someone later, too. obviously, I still honor the 12 hours. I've started overnights as late as midnight, ending at noon the next day.

 

for me, dinner and/or breakfast is great; I really love the additional level of the experience that comes from sharing a meal with someone. but it's not unusual for a client to want all our time together behind closed doors, in which case I just make sure to eat pre- and post- appointment. although I've also had some sessions where we've ordered in... sometimes even leading to food play

[Steven_Draker]

Hi Rapscallion,

It doesn't matter what time overnights usually begin, what matters is what you and your escort mutually agree to.

 

Your "overnight" may start at 9AM if you wish to.

 

Talk to your escort.

[adriano46]

Hi Rapscallion,

It doesn't matter what time overnights usually begin, what matters is what you and your escort mutually agree to.

 

Your "overnight" may start at 9AM if you wish to.

 

Talk to your escort.[/color]

 

EXACTLY - To me this is something always negotiated before anything else "time we begin... time we say goodbye".

[JT Brooklyn]

Totally Agree!

[+ sf westcoaster]

There is no "one size fits all"answer to your question. When you contact the escort you need to ask him how long an overnight is and once you agree on that length you discuss starting time. Never ever assume!

[jimboivyo]

there's no handbook. ask the escort and if you don't like what he offers, either counter it or walk away.

 

if you ask here, you're just going to get a million different responses from folks who see escorts as nothing more than pieces of meat

[bomerrang]

if you ask here, you're just going to get a million different responses from folks who see escorts as nothing more than pieces of meat

 

Are there any other Forum members here who see escorts as 'nothing more than pieces of meat'?

(I am stunned)

[thickornotatall]

My first overnight was with Steve Roberts....we never talked about time....he made everything and all occasions seem so natural....Everything was always taken care of way ahead of time...I could go on and on about him....but everyone already know.....the gold standard..

On the other hand I had a horrible..awful...gross experience last June and ended it about an hour into the overnight....I was stunned to be asked for total payment while we were having mediocre sex....I paid the guy and told him....GTFO!....now...get dressed in the hallway...out!...He is still on Rentboy....I should have known when we met that evening...my fault for going or trying to go through with the appointment....That cured me.....

[bigvalboy]

Are there any other Forum members here who see escorts as 'nothing more than pieces of meat'?

(I am stunned)

 

 

Of course not...but "shock value" comes to mind.

[mattb]

Quick question guys...never really done an overnight, thinking about it like the individual who started this thread. How many bedroom "sessions" are normally what you look for in an overnight hire? I'll of course ask the question to the escort that I'm interested in meeting, but is it too much to as for "fun" upon arrival, "fun" before going to sleep for the evening, and "fun" again in the morning before the gentleman departs? Just curious on everyone's experience(s).

 

As always, thanks in advance fellas...

 

-Matt

[bigvalboy]

Quick question guys...never really done an overnight, thinking about it like the individual who started this thread. How many bedroom "sessions" are normally what you look for in an overnight hire? I'll of course ask the question to the escort that I'm interested in meeting, but is it too much to as for "fun" upon arrival, "fun" before going to sleep for the evening, and "fun" again in the morning before the gentleman departs? Just curious on everyone's experience(s).

 

As always, thanks in advance fellas...

 

-Matt

 

Hey Matt, I wish there was a set answer for you, but there just isn't. It varies from escort to escort and from client to client. Some clients want to spend all their time in the bedroom, and others like myself take a different approach. My preferred evening would be dinner first, and one other activity like a club/bar or dance club, then it would be home for sex, then sleep, and then of course fun with the 'morning wood'....that's it for me. Only once did an escort want sex upon arrival, sex after dinner and sex in the morning.

 

BUT...everyone's desires are different. It is best to communicate thoroughly with the escort as to what you would like to happen, and I am sure that he will be able to accommodate you.

[Bosguy]

Quick question guys...never really done an overnight, thinking about it like the individual who started this thread. How many bedroom "sessions" are normally what you look for in an overnight hire? I'll of course ask the question to the escort that I'm interested in meeting, but is it too much to as for "fun" upon arrival, "fun" before going to sleep for the evening, and "fun" again in the morning before the gentleman departs? Just curious on everyone's experience(s).

 

As always, thanks in advance fellas...

 

-Matt

 

I have been very fortunate that I have done at least 1 overnite with all my favorite guys. Our scenario: 12 hours with sleep time factored in. Getting "acquainted", out to dinner or some social function, "working off dinner", sleep, before breakfast "breakfast", and final goodbyes--sometimes real breakfast. As everyone has said, discuss this in detail with your escort. Remember the rate should be based on total time together, sleep time -if desired by either of you, and number of times you would like to have sex.

 

Boston Bill

[Dave]

I have been very fortunate that I have done at least 1 overnite with all my favorite guys. Our scenario: 12 hours with sleep time factored in. Getting "acquainted", out to dinner or some social function, "working off dinner", sleep, before breakfast "breakfast", and final goodbyes--sometimes real breakfast. As everyone has said, discuss this in detail with your escort. Remember the rate should be based on total time together, sleep time -if desired by either of you, and number of times you would like to have sex.

 

Boston Bill

 

LOL re ""sometimes real breakfast"

 

I think Bill's comments are good, but just want to point out a nuance...

 

if I was setting up an overnight appointment with someone I hadnt seen before, and he or she asked me "how many times will we have sex?", I would be very uncomfortable with that question - and wouldnt answer it. it would smell like a set-up to me.

 

on the other hand, (and this is the nuance), it would be fine for that same person to tell me something like, "for overnights, I like to have sex once when we meet, once again after dinner, and then in the morning too."

 

the difference being, in the first scenario, the person is asking me to talk about a sexual act between the two of us. and this turns an escorting appointment into a prostitution appointment. remember, in virtually all places in the usa (other than nevada brothels) sex for money is an illegal activity.

in the second scenario, the person is just telling me about his or her personal preferences. preferences like that are good for guys like me to know

 

as someone who's been set up once (and perhaps twice... I'm not sure with the second dude, because I terminated the appointment after really trying to work with the conversation), I am careful in this way - because I know it is a reality.

 

please let me know if this is not clearly stated here; perhaps I can try to explain in other ways.

[jimboivyo]

Are there any other Forum members here who see escorts as 'nothing more than pieces of meat'?

(I am stunned)

 

stunned? oh vey. simmer down

 

I didn't say all felt this way (I dont), but many here talk about how cheap they can talk working guys down and then brow beat those who charge high rates

 

for those who are constantly looking for the cheapest deal, thats who my comment was meant for

[Bosguy]

LOL re ""sometimes real breakfast"

 

I think Bill's comments are good, but just want to point out a nuance...

 

if I was setting up an overnight appointment with someone I hadnt seen before, and he or she asked me "how many times will we have sex?", I would be very uncomfortable with that question - and wouldnt answer it. it would smell like a set-up to me.

 

on the other hand, (and this is the nuance), it would be fine for that same person to tell me something like, "for overnights, I like to have sex once when we meet, once again after dinner, and then in the morning too."

 

the difference being, in the first scenario, the person is asking me to talk about a sexual act between the two of us. and this turns an escorting appointment into a prostitution appointment. remember, in virtually all places in the usa (other than nevada brothels) sex for money is an illegal activity.

in the second scenario, the person is just telling me about his or her personal preferences. preferences like that are good for guys like me to know

 

as someone who's been set up once (and perhaps twice... I'm not sure with the second dude, because I terminated the appointment after really trying to work with the conversation), I am careful in this way - because I know it is a reality.

 

please let me know if this is not clearly stated here; perhaps I can try to explain in other ways.

 

I stooped!!! I totally messed up the part of "how many times". It is not applicable to request of someone that is new to either party for reasons Dave stated above. I guess I was thinking based on the fact that I knew all of these guys from social meetings, time spent together, or common friends that we both trusted so our frequency was pretty much a mutually agreeable scenario. I would never do anything that could do any type of harm to my working guys. So sorry

 

Boston Bill

[+ Funguy]

stunned? oh vey. simmer down

 

I didn't say all felt this way (I dont), but many here talk about how cheap they can talk working guys down and then brow beat those who charge high rates

 

for those who are constantly looking for the cheapest deal, thats who my comment was meant for

 

I just don't find guys here, on the Forum, talking about how they try to talk our guys down or are looking for the cheapest deal. What I do see is that comments are made about pricing, from $300 up but acknowledging it's the escort's choice, take it or leave it. I personally find it distasteful to try to bargain down someone for his services. If I don't like the price, I don't buy the service. On the other hand, if an escort provides great service there is always a tip involved, from me at least.

[Epigonos]

Guys I’ve got to say I can’t figure out why this thread has gone on as long as it has. Both of these issues are very simple

 

Question: When does an overnight get together begin and when does it end? Answer: It begins and it ends when the client and the escort decided by mutual agreement when it begins and when it end. It’s just that simple.

 

Now to the second point regarding bargaining with an escort regarding his fee: I don’t bargain with my attorney; I don’t bargain with my doctor; I don’t bargain with my dentist; I don’t bargain with my auto mechanic. Thus I do NOT bargain with escorts I attempt to hire. In my first email to an escort I clearly state what my requirements are and ask what his fee would be for that type of arrangement. If his fee is in my range we move on the arranging a meeting. If his fee is more than I am willing to pay I state that, apologize for wasting his time and wish him the best. On one or two occasions an escort has, at this point, asked what I am willing to pay. I NEVER respond to that question – I do NOT bargain. Now do I recommend this procedure for everybody – of course not. We all MUST do that which fits our individual needs and personalities.

[jimboivyo]

Guys I’ve got to say I can’t figure out why this thread has gone on as long as it has. Both of these issues are very simple

 

Question: When does an overnight get together begin and when does it end? Answer: It begins and it ends when the client and the escort decided by mutual agreement when it begins and when it end. It’s just that simple.

 

Now to the second point regarding bargaining with an escort regarding his fee: I don’t bargain with my attorney; I don’t bargain with my doctor; I don’t bargain with my dentist; I don’t bargain with my auto mechanic. Thus I do NOT bargain with escorts I attempt to hire. In my first email to an escort I clearly state what my requirements are and ask what his fee would be for that type of arrangement. If his fee is in my range we move on the arranging a meeting. If his fee is more than I am willing to pay I state that, apologize for wasting his time and wish him the best. On one or two occasions an escort has, at this point, asked what I am willing to pay. I NEVER respond to that question – I do NOT bargain. Now do I recommend this procedure for everybody – of course not. We all MUST do that which fits our individual needs and personalities.

 

 

better said than I and I am in agreement 1000%