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JB85 Apprentice

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I really need the money. What's ironic is that I want the money so I can hire escorts. It's becoming an addiction but I'm poor. I can't afford them. I earn $10 a day. I can barely afford anything and I need a job. I'm 28 and I have no job experience.

 

I'm trying to get into porn.

 

As far as my looks go, I could care less now. Some people might look and me and say, "He's ugly." Others might look at me and say, "He's not that bad." Whatever. I'm not into myself at all. I don't think I'm the most good-looking guy in the world because I know I'm not. I ain't Brad Pitt.

 

I do know a few things though: (a) I need money, (b) I want to have as much sex as possible, © I enjoy meeting new people, (d) I'm fine with kissing people I'm not attracted to, (e) I'm desensitized to sex- its just sex), and (f) I'm bored out of my mind and there's nothing to do.

 

So its a combination of loneliness, boredom, and money. I also am very kind and I care about people.

 

Here's what my ad says: (I figured blunt and to the point was the way to go.)

 

"I am ready to get fucked. Submissive bottom slave boy. My tight ass is always hungry for more of your cock. I'm great at cocksucking- shoot your load and coat my throat. Outcalls only, can deliver anywhere by T. Affordable hourly rate of $200."

 

The going rate/industry standard is $300, but I think $300's too high anyway. Especially for someone that does not have the body of a Greek statue. (My body is kinda bland.)

 

I'd love some feedback about this- from escorts themselves would be great.

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gallahadesquire Grand Master

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I'm going to hold off for now but I find the statements "I want to have as much sex as possible"; "I'm desensitized to sex—it's just sex"; and "I am very kind and care about people", to have a certain contrariness among them.

 

I infer that you are doing this JUST for the money. Would you be " gay-for-pay"?

 

There have been several recent threads about how an escort is a good escort. In particular, the ability to find that one attribute that each client has that makes them special. How would you feel you rank in that arena?

 

To me, though, desensitized sex is "just going through the motions". I had that experience with a certain peripatetic escort. I felt that the entire experience was scripted, and that he had a stopwatch in his head, timing each event. Fun but ere I to rate him, he would get a "satisfactory": everything was okay, but it just wasn't interesting.

 

Finally, your own sense of self worth needs some serious consideration. One of my favorite guys wasn't well built, wasn't good looking, but he was loads of fun: Entertaining and knowledgable.

 

Best of luck in your endeavors! I'm curious to hear others' input on this.

 

Gallahadesquire

JB85 Apprentice

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Well, what makes me special?

 

You know I had an idea about offering a free pizza for every client.

 

I could roleplay as a Pizza Delivery Guy that delivers more than just pizza....

 

You gotta have a gimmick if you wanna get applause.

JB85 Apprentice

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That's not actually a bad idea. It would separate me from the rest of the pack....

 

and I actually think I wouldn't be so bad as an escort. I LOVE meeting new people... I'd talk to anyone. I can make every man feel beautiful.

JB85 Apprentice

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what do you mean? make myself feel beautiful?

 

Does anybody out there think the pizza gimmick would be original? has anyone done that before?

Lookin Grand Master

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Does anybody out there think the pizza gimmick would be original?

 

Who could say no to a large sausage topping? I'd go easy on the extra cheese though, until you know your market. http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

Guest Starbuck

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but JB!....how did the meet with Ross and Munroe go on Sunday?....you were an insecure dude in an earlier thread.....

 

Like azdr0710, I'm confused ... first there was a post about meeting with Ross and Munroe in which, if I remember it right, you were HAVING SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME ... then there was a post about being nervous before that meeting ... now you're ready to become an escort?

 

It doesn't add up.

maninsoma Grand Master

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You're currently only making $10/day?! You must have a job that only takes an hour or two per day, then.

 

To respond to your question, I think the only way you'll find out is to try it. You can certainly run a Backpage ad for little money and see what kind of response you get. Or you can do like some other guys still do -- advertise on Craigslist in the m4m category with code terms such as "gen" in your ad. I guess I would add that I think your $200/hour rate sounds high given that you don't sound like you're particularly interested in making other guys happy. Sure, lots of guys charge even more, but usually those are guys with a positive reputation. An unknown quantity whose self description is that neither his face or body is particularly attractive isn't exactly a great come-on. Then again, there are currently some guys advertising on Rentboy in my area asking a similar rate and I would describe them as not particularly attractive. I assume that since their ads keep running they must keep paying RB for the ads, which presumably means they're at least somewhat successful.

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To the OP: Well, as has been said so many times here before, escorting is a professional undertaking. You have to like what you're doing and want to do it well, which I imagine means presenting a product that's the best it can be and communicating your enthusiasm and skill to your clients so that they're happy and want more.

 

What I take away from your first thread is that you're insecure about yourself, inexperienced about sex, and willing to do almost anything for some money so that you can have sex with guys who are already sex professionals.

 

If you really want to do this (a suggestion, NOT a put down): Learn what you like to do sexually and offer it. Get into an exercise program (it doesn't have to cost a lot), firm up, figure out what is attractive about you and work to make it better. I for one love to see guys like you who are "under construction" as it were, but what I love about them is that they really, really want to do it and do it well and are working to get there.

 

If you don't really want to do it, don't. Going down a road that is wrong for you even though it may right for someone else won't enhance your life, and can give you some real trouble.

Phil_musc Mentor

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Who could say no to a large sausage topping? I'd go easy on the extra cheese though, until you know your market. http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

 

This is the most astute comment here, I think.

 

There are so many red flags here, Gentlemen. Do you honestly think this thread is on the level? And if so, shouldn't we collectively be recommending that the OP get some professional help - there seem to be a lot of issues here that being an escort will not alleviate.

Phil_musc Mentor

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Don't know where in the world you got the idea that $300 is the standard going rate.

 

Sorta goes along with some of the other ideas expressed earlier in the thread. It must be a parallel universe.

bigvalboy Grand Master

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Is it my imagination it or did the OP pizza himself?

 

http://www.bestweekever.tv/bwe/images/2008/12/8%20PIZZA%20FACE.jpg

 

 

LMAO.... No, me thinks that you are correct. The OP did "pizza himself"...Now, is there a doctor in the house?

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There are so many red flags here, Gentlemen. Do you honestly think this thread is on the level?

 

... which, in turn, raises the question about whether the meeting with Ross and Munroe was on the level.

Phil_musc Mentor

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The only valid aspect of this thread is the pizza discussion. It pains me deeply that I am one of the very few around here who really likes anchovies.

 

Aww gee, Epigonos, I just read what you wrote over on the Marigold Hotel thread, and man, I think you and I are related somehow. And now this comment about anchovies - well if you didn't live so far away, I'd hike on over to your house to get better acquainted. I'd even bring a tin of the stuff as a host(ess!) gift. I love anchovies - a salad is just a melange of food until you top it off with some anchovies. And a pizza? What's a pizza without 'em. There are so few people with real understanding in these matters - I'm glad you're here.

purplekow Grand Master

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The only valid aspect of this thread is the pizza discussion. It pains me deeply that I am one of the very few around here who really likes anchovies.
Gay men are not usually found eating anything salty that smells and tastes like fish.

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