"Straight" Escorts

[bcohen7719]

Are they a special turn-on for you...or do you prefer them

gay...or doesn't matter?

 

BC

[maninsoma]

I would never hire anyone who claims to be straight.

[good ol boy]

some of the straight ones are great and some are not

BUT the same can be said for the gay escorts RIGHT????

[anotherjohnindupont]

I would never hire anyone who claims to be straight.

 

I agree with you, I'd rather hiring a gay escort, at least I know even if he's not excited about having sex with me, he likes men not women.

I can't imagine myself having sex with a woman, even if she pays me. Imagine what a straight guy goes when he has sex with a gay man?

I'd rather a masculine gay man.

[adriano46]

Avoid completely guys who advertise as straight. I also carefully screen those who say they are "bisexual" -- prefer my hires to be comfortable saying they are gay (and not only saying it...).

 

BTW - recently was directed to check a porn site in NYC called "New York Straight Men" - laughed as I recognized some of the more known (for years) escorts of NYC passing themselves off as "straight" guys. Heck watching the films of these guys doing what they like doing (and having done to them), damn few if any of my straight male friends would seem to want to be serviced or service another guy. But if the fantasy seems to turn on some guys buttons that these guys may be straight... whatever... Many of them have popular ads on RENTMEN... and there they say openly that they are GAY.

[Glenn1441]

Ditto. I never have hired a 'straight' male-for-male escort and never will. I have a few socially, and that's enough.

[EZEtoGRU]

I stick pretty much with Str8/bi guys. I'm into very masculine/manly guys which is a rare commodity in the gay male world (IMHO at least). Strip clubs like Stock and Swinging Richards work well for me since many of the guys are str8 or bi. Sure......some of them are assholes just like some of the gay escorts are assholes.

[Strafe13]

I've actually not given it that much thought. I just tend to hire guys with good reviews, and don't presume to know for sure what their true sexual orientation is. If they're really good escorts, then it doesn't matter at all what truly goes on in their heads. From my viewpoint, it'd only really matter if I really wanted to execute some fantasy about me and the guy eventually falling for each other. As long as the guy performs like a champ, his true orientation is irrelevant, IMHO.

[tyro]

I'm with Strafe. I wish I had a nickel for every reviewed escort here whose "orientation" changes from review to review.

T

[actor61]

I would never hire anyone who claims to be straight.

 

Neither would I. I'm never been one of those gay men who is attracted or titillated by straight men, and I've certainly never deluded myself into thinking that I'm the kind of gay guy a straight man would give up vaginas for! If I'm going to hire, I want a gay escort who knows what he's doing and takes joy in it. If he isn't into dick and butt, then he's not for me. As Valerie Perrine once answered when asked why so many of her friends were gay, "Because we all love dick!"

[bostonman]

I do somehow have that curse of falling for straight guys - it's been that way ever since high school. But if I'm going to hire someone, I'd rather it be someone I know is into what I want to do, not a straight guy who may not really enjoy man-to-man contact. Hiring a masculine-looking guy who might get into "playing" straight for the sake of a fantasy is fun, but putting my money up for an actual straight guy would be asking for too many potential problems, I think.

 

I do believe in bisexuality, though - I think if i saw an ad for a guy that advertised as "bi" and his profile seemed on the level, I'd certainly consider him - if I feel like he's trying too hard to convince that he's into guys, I'd probably pass.

[Nvr2Thick]

Are they a special turn-on for you...or do you prefer them

gay...or doesn't matter?

 

BC

 

I've been with quite a few guys who identify as straight. The ones I've met range in preference from guys who truly enjoy sex with other guys (and who probably aren't straight), to straight guys who can barely get it up for money. My favorites are guys who honestly seem to enjoy the attention their big dicks get for them and who can enjoy a good blowjob without believing that this conflicts with the straight identity. As much as I love gay total tops, conflicted or seemingly straight guys are a special turn-on for me.

 

Thanks for asking.

[DeNeufaille]

Hum, define "Str8"... meaning, "heterosexual on heterosexual"...???? Just find this an amusement: really, there is a form an function for all things which set the pace.....

[robberbaron4u]

By my godson, who is "gay for pay", a "straight" escort has greater prestige for a client than a "gay" escort.

[Nvr2Thick]

Hum, define "Str8"... meaning, "heterosexual on heterosexual"...???? Just find this an amusement: really, there is a form an function for all things which set the pace.....

 

I believe that there are men who are straight - with a strict sexual attraction to women, but who can enjoy blowjobs from men. I think that, in these cases, it's all about sensation and not sexual attraction. It's much like masturbation or perhaps receiving a blowjob from an unattractive woman.

 

The definitions of straight and bi have been debated to death in this forum. "heterosexual on heterosexual" defines sex acts, not sexual preference. If a man fucks a lesbian he's probably still straight. If a heterosexual man fucks a heterosexual man it's not a straight act. A man can be sucked or jacked off by another man and still be considered straight. There's no way to really know what's going on in the receiver's mind -- whether he is turned on by the guy sucking him or just by the feeling of a wet mouth.

[+ FreshFluff]

I've been with quite a few guys who identify as straight. The ones I've met range in preference from guys who truly enjoy sex with other guys (and who probably aren't straight), to straight guys who can barely get it up for money. My favorites are guys who honestly seem to enjoy the attention their big dicks get for them and who can enjoy a good blowjob without believing that this conflicts with the straight identity. As much as I love gay total tops, conflicted or seemingly straight guys are a special turn-on for me.

 

But would a guy like this hate himself after the act is done? (I'm thinking of my guy from the other thread.) If not, wouldn't he consider himself gay or bi to begin with?

[Nvr2Thick]

But would a guy like this hate himself after the act is done? (I'm thinking of my guy from the other thread.) If not, wouldn't he consider himself gay or bi to begin with?

 

Dunno about hating himself, but I don't get that impression. The OP was talking about escorts. I've sucked both escorts and non-escorts, and in both cases met guys that came back for more. I always got the impression that a guy like this had the confidence to be comfortable in his own skin, and that a blowjob was just a blowjob to him.

 

Would he consider himself gay or bi? Even if he doesn't consider himself bi he might be, but I also think might not be gay or bi. My point is about the distinction between sexual attraction and just making his dick feel good. If he beats off it's not because he thinks his hand is sexually attractive. If he gets a blowjob from a girl he is not attracted to he may just be enjoying the feeling. If he gets a blowjob from me he may just be enjoying some attention and good head. I've met some men who thought I was attractive and who said so and sought me out for more companionship or sex. Those guys, in my mind, are gay or bi no matter how they identify sexually. I've also met guys who seemed to be purely hung up on getting pleasure from a warm wet mouth. When a ripped hung married black guy in his early 20's calls a clean cut average white guy in his early 50's for some good head it could be that sexual attraction is not entering into the equation.

[wklucas]

several years ago on a warm sunny day I went outside of my office building for a quick break....gorgeous guy / hot body is sitting on one of the benches by himself reading a newspaper.....of course I walk over in that direction.....he's looking through the classified help wanted ads....I strike up a conversation asking about his job search, etc.....before too long I lead the conversation in the direction of asking if he would like to earn some $$$$.....not immediately but fairly soon he agreed to what I was proposing....it was definitely his 1st time with any M2M play.....I met with him about a total of 10 times over the next few months.....always fun.....he pretty much went along with most anything / everything that I wanted to do with him & what I wanted him to do.....& he really was one of the all-around hottest men I've ever been with....nice memories....I definitely have no problem with willing straight guys.

[Ajac]

Yes sexuality is a grey area almost never black and white. The few times I have hired straight guys mainly for erotic massage there was always something that made me uncomfortable. Ranging from comments like "I don't understand why you guys like this." to photos of wife and kids on the nightstand. I never get aroused by the thought that here is a guy so desperate for cash that he is doing something that repulses him.

I wouldn't hesitate to hire someone who is straight but can just let go of the label and just enjoy the sensations or at least have a proven record that he could fake it really well. Reese Rideout is more than welcome to spend some time with me.

[tom1980]

I wouldn't say that straight guys are a special turn on, but I do enjoy servicing/worshiping a straight guy from time to time. For me whether I am interested in hiring a straight guy depends on what I'm looking to get out of the experience. If I'm wanting to top or bottom, then I probably wouldn't hire a straight guy. If I'm looking to suck and worship, then I might.

[dixietony]

I met a guy a couple of years ago who is straight. He has girlfriends on and off. Except for the escorting, he is a straight guy. We meet a couple times a year for a few days at a time. I just got back from Washington DC after spending 4 days with him there. He lives in Baltimore. We did a lot of sightseeing, ate out, went shopping, and saw a couple movies. He doesn't kiss or really engage at all. No anal. Nothing like that.

 

What he does do is let me enjoy the company of another man without feeling any reservations. He lets me shower with him and wash him. He lets me dress and undress him. We sleep together and cuddle. Oh my he smells good. And I usually once during our time, I will give him a blow job. But really, I just enjoy his company on so many levels.

 

But he is definitely straight. I have no illusions that if I wasn't paying for his time, he would not meet with me.

[+ FreshFluff]

I wouldn't hesitate to hire someone who is straight but can just let go of the label and just enjoy the sensations or at least have a proven record that he could fake it really well. Reese Rideout is more than welcome to spend some time with me.

 

I think it's more than just a label or a sensation. Otherwise, why would escorts post photos?

 

But would you (the general "you") enjoy the sensation of a blow job or even a hand job from a woman? Or even from a man with feminine mannerisms?

[maninsoma]

I think that explains, at least in part, why the notion of hiring a straight escort is a turn off to some of us but not others.

 

I know that the only way I could enjoy a hand job or blow job with a woman would be with my eyes closed (or watching gay porn), ignoring the fact that I'm having sex with a woman. I consider myself a Kinsey 6. I figure that a truly straight guy would probably feel the same about having sex with a guy. I don't want to be with someone who has to ignore my presence in order to get a hard on and ejaculate, and if a straight escort actually can get excited while being connected with another man then I'd say he's bisexual, not straight.

 

I know these are all just labels, but when I'm looking at spending a considerable amount of money to enjoy being with someone sexually the last thing I want is someone completely detached.

 

I think it's more than just a label or a sensation. Otherwise, why would escorts post photos?

 

But would you (the general "you") enjoy the sensation of a blow job or even a hand job from a woman? Or even from a man with feminine mannerisms?

[McLeanspider]

I think that explains, at least in part, why the notion of hiring a straight escort is a turn off to some of us but not others...

 

We know for sure is a turn off for him (straight male escort) to be hired by a gay man, I'm also 100% sure he would enjoy more been hired by my older sister.

 

I agree with you, I'd rather hiring a gay escort.

[Nvr2Thick]

I think it's more than just a label or a sensation. Otherwise, why would escorts post photos?

 

But would you (the general "you") enjoy the sensation of a blow job or even a hand job from a woman? Or even from a man with feminine mannerisms?

 

I know many men who identify as gay and who have had sexual relationships with women for years. One of my former boyfriends went from thinking he was straight and enjoyed guys on the DL to accepting that he was gay, over the course of several years. He told me he maintained relationships with girls for a long time because he didn't want to deal with the gay thing and to keep up appearances with his parents and sister, even though he knew without a doubt that he was gay. He continued to hook up with women for sex and brief relationships also for the sex because it was easier for him to pick up women than men, and he was desperate to keep a low profile. When we last spoke he had been with men exclusively for six or seven years. I asked if he would be able to have sex with women if the situation came up and he was confused by the question. He said that sex with women was fun, and that he loved fucking almost any woman or man, and that getting naked and kicking back for a blowjob was something he could do at any time for any girl or guy. He identifies as gay and not bi because he says there's a distinct and powerful excitement and passion that he has with men that he has never experienced with any woman no matter how much he liked her or how good the sex was.

 

One of my straight escorts says that it's all about his dick. He's been proud of it since his older brothers told him that they had something special over other guys. He always got a charge out of women making a big deal over his dick and distinguishing him over other men they've had. When a guy makes a crack about his dick in a locker setting it makes him proud and horny. He says that when a guy like me is sucking him he's keyed in more on the attention and how big and hard his dick feels. When he's with a woman he focuses on her face and lips and whether she's having fun sucking him and whether they will fuck. But he's told me that when I call him to hook up he knows that he's gonna get big and hard and cum, and that even the idea of the money that comes from his dick getting so big and hard is a charge for him. He never remembers my name, and he has walked right by me when I've met him in the hotel, even though my look is distinctive and I've sucked him at least 20 times. He's joked about it, explaining that I don't matter it's just his dick feeling good, and some money in his pocket.

 

...and I really do love the idea of that.