People removing condom without you knowing

[Tighty]

Call me ignorant but I'm shocked to read that people actually remove their condom without their partner knowing and then continue banging away. How prevalent is this? Is it more prevalent in the escorting world? How do I prevent such a situation? Keep grabbing to see if the condom is still there? As a newbie I feel so discouraged and sick to my stomach already.

[Guy Fawkes]

Tighty,

 

Your asking a lot of leading questions that are uncomfortable for many people. Let's have a mini-bio from you so that we can be more comfortable with where your coming from and help you in a more proactive manner.

 

The answer is:

 

Not normally, In my experience only happens when there is a condom failure. A respectful partner will always stop, and fix the problem. If not, grounds to kick them out of your bed, out of your home, and out of your life.

 

Do not panic, Do not get upset, Do not ignore it. Take the steps to minimize your exposure and to protect your health.

 

Call me ignorant but I'm shocked to read that people actually remove their condom without their partner knowing and then continue banging away. How prevalent is this? Is it more prevalent in the escorting world? How do I prevent such a situation? Keep grabbing to see if the condom is still there? As a newbie I feel so discouraged and sick to my stomach already.

[+ Tygerscent]

My particular protocol: provide safer measures for all involved even if The illusion or Client desire is less then that~

 

Tyger~

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Ty in Portland on Daddys Review's

 

Travel: Northwest: (PDX, Seattle, Bend, Salem) Most of August.

LA: mid August.

Mid West: October and possibly August.

Iceland, Amsterdam, Brussels, Brugge: Sept. 4th - 24th

[maninsoma]

Well, if you're on your back you should be able to tell if someone stops, pulls off the condom, and then resumes fucking you...assuming you're not so intoxicated that you don't know what's happening. I guess that if you're on your stomach, someone might be able to do what you're suggesting. Of all the guys I've hired, though, I've never had one attempt to remove a condom in a clandestine way.

 

I've only seen a few of the many threads you've recently started, Tighty, but if your anxiety about all of this -- and particularly anal sex -- is really that high then maybe you shouldn't have sex with a relative stranger or, perhaps, have anal sex at all.

[+ Tygerscent]

Don't rely on personal or foundational/professional assumption.

Consider that there are those here that privide as Escorts/male geisha that are professional human care providers and not merely prostitutes~

If you don't understand the differences, learn beforeaoing the judgment~?

Tyger~

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Ty in Portland on Daddys Review's

 

Travel: Northwest: (PDX, Seattle, Bend, Salem) Most of August.

LA: mid August.

Mid West: October and possibly August.

Iceland, Amsterdam, Brussels, Brugge: Sept. 4th - 24th

[+ Tygerscent]

I'm a bit inquisitive that you have the assumption that male geisha/male escorts or their Clients are "intoxicated"...

Both Client and provisional Escort Male Geisha have personal equity in self protection and shared growth~ keep in kind, not all that hire have reckless abandon as their objective goal but, allow for the consideration that, perhaps safety and personal development takes course with provaion to personal need... Don't assume different.

If your question is validity in shared experience~? Then consider what unknown prospects regarding drug use and unprotected sex exist in the bar, bath house, on line venues~~?

If you have real experience in those venues please share your observations with honesty~ We will learn from you~ Tell us what you understand to know~ this site is about sharing and growing.

What "Escort/male or female Geisha human provision provider" wants to express is their giving back nature and/or their ability to provide in some way that impacts the provision~? Clients seek personal provision as they have need. Escort/Male Geisha seek to provide~

Escorting/(male or female geisha), provides a healthy provision beyond what on-line sex hook up sites or bars or bath houses can provide~

Tell me/us, "Tighty"... What is your personal/professional stance on these issues~? Do you convent to our human shared provision and seek that yourself~?

We, as Escort/Courtesan providers are under modern scrutiny~

Never the less, we PROVIDE a necessary and time proven need~

What is your stance on this~? I ask with live and blessings~

Share back please~

Tyger~

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Tygerscent on men4rent.com

AAAtygerscentxxx on rentmen.com

Ty in Portland on Daddys Review's

 

Travel: Northwest: (PDX, Seattle, Bend, Salem) Most of August.

LA: mid August.

Mid West: October and possibly August.

Iceland, Amsterdam, Brussels, Brugge: Sept. 4th - 24th

[Tighty]

I don't know what I wrote that made people upset. I never used the word prostitute in all my postings. I also didn't discuss drinking or intoxication or drugs. Earlier in the day, I searched on the word 'bareback' and read several old posts where other posters are warning other people thus my surprised.

 

My philosophy with regards to consenting adults is live and let live. I don't judge.

 

I have nothing to share with regards to bathhouses or bars because I've never been to one. And I've never had sex with other guys. You guys are right, I'm very anxious about anal sex and indeed I better not have one.

 

I won't ask any more questions. Bye.

[+ Tygerscent]

I'm not upset, actually. I am merely making some effort to clarify and better understand your questions~

As you learn I, We also learn~

I'm learning from you... Please share~ excuse my failing inability to understand~

Even in my own failing to understand, I want others to grow beyond... Be my/our teacher thru your own growth and inquiries~ :-)

Tyger~

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tygerkink@yahoo.com

971.400.2633

Tygerscent on men4rent.com

AAAtygerscentxxx on rentmen.com

Ty in Portland on Daddys Review's

 

Travel: Northwest: (PDX, Seattle, Bend, Salem) Most of August.

LA: mid August.

Mid West: October and possibly August.

Iceland, Amsterdam, Brussels, Brugge: Sept. 4th - 24th

[sfguy]

Call me ignorant but I'm shocked to read that people actually remove their condom without their partner knowing and then continue banging away. How prevalent is this? Is it more prevalent in the escorting world? How do I prevent such a situation? Keep grabbing to see if the condom is still there? As a newbie I feel so discouraged and sick to my stomach already.

Tighty, this type of behavior is extremely uncommon. The vast majority of men are respectful of their partners and would not do such a thing. I doubt it is prevalent in the escort world because that would just be bad business (and in many states, a criminal act and a tort).

 

If you want to prevent the possibility of the situation, there are positions where the bottom can maintain control, such as riding on top. But given your inexperience and heightened concern about safety, I'd suggest that you wait to bottom until you find someone you trust. Sex should be enjoyable, and I'd want you to enjoy your first experience. Your anxiety about your sexual health will only increase your anxiety and result in a negative experience.

 

There are plenty of ways to enjoy sex with another man without having anal sex. A good escort will be able to explore all those possibilities with you without any pressure to do something that makes you feel anxious.

[+ azdr0710]

I won't ask any more questions. Bye.

 

 

you BETTER ask more questions!....this forum is, by far, the most respected place on the internet for discussion of this kind.....but read what the others say here and please do what Daddy asks above...

 

and I also need to know what color you'll be next.....

[uwsman2]

Don't be afraid to ask questions, Tighty. Everybody was a novice once upon a time. You can't get answers without asking.

 

I've been hiring escorts for 30 years and have never had anybody try to pull this on me, to the best of my recollection. The advice above about riding on top if you want to be in total control of the situation is a good one. Also, if you have never had anal sex, it is probably the best way to start, since you retain total control of the angle and speed of penetration, thus can take things at your own pace. Even with all my long experience, mainly as a bottom, I still find - and especially with super well hung guys - that the best way to start is usually by sitting on it at my own pace. Don't be afraid to try things.... just be thoughtful about what you are doing.

[Steven_Draker]

I'm a little surprised not at the OP question, but rather at the initial reaction it has received.

 

Several long-time credible posters have reported on this very board that this practice exists. And since the consequences could be important and serious ... what was wrong with asking?

[azhiker]

I had one escort do this very thing in question. We stopped when I realized what he had done. He was someone I had seen a few times before, always safe. Not sure to this day why he did that. Never saw him again. Tested about a year later, no issues but I worried about it until then.

[tom1980]

I've written before about my experience with an escort I had seen a couple of times before starting off without a condom without me realizing it. I've never had an experience where the guy took the condom off during the act.

 

After my one bad experience, I always check for the condom before I bottom. You should be able to feel when the guy pulls out completely, which I think he would have to do to get the condom off. Then you just check him again before he continues. Most escorts who have some positive reviews on Daddy's site will be happy to talk openly with you about your desire for safe sex and will not be offended if you want to double check the condom for every one's safety.