HOT boy turns out to be......????

[Guest jeffOH]

This is so surreal! We're finally having summer-like weather here in Ohio. I went Blading earlier today and then came back to my apartment building to lay out by the pool. I'd noticed the Hot Blond Boy I'd seen in my building the past few months was out there already and quickly got out there before he'd left.

 

We've always said hello when we'd see each other in passing, but we'd never introduced ourselves. I took a chair next to him and we were soon chatting. I noticed he had a copy of OUT magazine with that hottie Matt Merrel? on the cover. I told him Matt was going to be here next weekend making an appearance at the festival after Columbus' Pride Parade. Well, we started talking about the gay scene here and people we know. He asked me if I knew John Doe. I said that I did and he asked me how I knew him. I told him I'd had a HUGE crush on gorgeous John Doe about 15 years ago. I asked him how he knew John Doe and he said, "I just sent him a Father's Day card," "so that makes you his son, Joe Doe," said I, trying hard not to sound shocked.

 

This is too freaky, here I've lusted after this boy for the past few months and as it turns out he's the SON of a former crush of mine. I knew John Doe had a son, but to meet him like this was just, well, I don't know, I feel like I'm in some sort of homosexual Twilight Zone.

Funny thing is, now I'm even MORE attracted to this boy(he just turned 20 and I just turned 40) and he seems to be attracted to me.

 

Anybody else ever experience anything like this?

 

JEFF

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[+ Lucky]

Now THAT'S when you know you are getting old!!!

[Guest jeffOH]

Lucky

 

That's exactly what I said to him. At the moment though, I'm torn being feeling like Daddy and being incredibly turned on by the thought of hooking up with a former crush's son.}(

 

JEFF

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[marc anthony]

I feel like I'm in some

>sort of homosexual Twilight Zone.

>Funny thing is, now I'm even MORE attracted to this boy(he

>just turned 20 and I just turned 40) and he seems to be

>attracted to me.

>

>Anybody else ever experience anything like this?

>

>JEFF

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That's what happens when you are a twinklover! HAHA... take it from me, I know.

 

I am at that age when my college buddies, etc. have sons who are 20 yo. And let me tell you, most of them are much hotter than their dad's were at that age!

 

Or maybe my standards have gotten lower! :7

[+ Lucky]

"Or maybe my standards have gotten lower!"

 

Not a chance of that!

Jeff, did the guy indicate an interest in letting you suck the dick that came into being from another dick you sucked?

[+ Charlie]

Not exactly the same sort of thing, but one of my best friends once picked up a young man in a bar in LA, and he turned out to be his own nephew, the son of his older brother from whom he had been estranged for many years! They had a lot of chuckles over that, after the initial shock.

[+ Lucky]

Well, think about it! Maybe cuz you didn't suck his daddy off that one day this guy got to be born instead. I think he owes you big time!

[CT Dick]

Shame on Lucky!!! x(

 

That's a bucket of ice water on someones fantasy, if I've ever seen one.

 

Dick

[+ deej]

Go for it, Jeff.

 

You (and he) only live once. Don't let him get to be your age regretting the hot daddy he never got a chance to do. }(

 

And you never know ... he might end up making a great partner for 3-ways. :7

[Trixie]

Why not suggest a three-way? (I know, shame on me...)

[Guest jeffOH]

>Why not suggest a three-way? (I know, shame on me...)

 

Believe me, a 3-way did come to mind. Unfortunately, the boy's Daddy and I never hooked up and he moved to Boston nearly 2 years ago.

 

It was 1988 or so...I was 24 and Daddy was 26 and we both had boyfriends at the time. A few years later, by coincidence, I ended up rooming with Daddy's ex-boyfriend who filled me in on his Ex (my crush). I was SO intimidated by him that it was years before we ever officially met. And then, the only time I'd ever saw him/talk to him was at a local coffee shop when I would be out rollerblading and he was biking and we'd both stopped there for a break.

 

Last night I was entering my apartment bldg. at the same time as the Boy. I'd just had dinner with a 65 year-old client who had come back with me for a "play date". I introduced the client to the Boy. I wonder if he was curious as to who this older gentleman was? I hadn't mentioned the escort thing in our first real conversation, but I'm sure I'll bring it up the next time we talk.}(

 

JEFF

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[VaHawk]

What a cool story! Did he find out the guy was his nephew after they had sex? I for one hope so, as that is 'way cool'. After all, incest is no stranger to Southern life.

[Will]

As Devon so wisely said to me a couple of weeks ago, in life it's a good thing to meet boldness with boldness. I'm with Deej: go for it. And here's a rationale, if one is needed, why you "should."

 

First, although you have just turned 40, most of us never looked as good as you do even when we were 20. What's more, 40 is far, far, far from "old;" and I know from my own experience that 40-year-old men can be really attractive to college-age boys. The only time in my life I was ever seduced, in fact, was when I was 40, and the seducer was 20.

 

Second, if I think back to when I was 20 and attracted to older men, I always assumed that they were not attracted to me. At the time, I also thought -- rightly -- that sex with a 40-year-old man would be a lot better than sex with a contemporary.

 

Finally, the fact that that boy was reading OUT by the pool indicates that he was sort of cruising. If he hadn't wanted you to see the magazine because your Ancient Age makes you look nauseatingly hideous, he would have put it away.

 

If you don't let this thing develop the way it seems that both of you want to let it develop, you will probably regret it for the rest of your life. And maybe that's the worst thing that could happen.

[+ Charlie]

Alas, no. They discovered the connection during their long conversation in the bar, and they did not have sex.

[eastbayguy]

>First, although you have just turned 40, most of us never

>looked as good as you do even when we were 20. What's more,

>40 is far, far, far from "old;" and I know from my own

>experience that 40-year-old men can be really attractive to

>college-age boys. The only time in my life I was ever

>seduced, in fact, was when I was 40, and the seducer was 20.

 

Got any phone numbers or e-mail addresses you might care to share? Especially in the Phoenix, AZ metro area?

 

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>Second, if I think back to when I was 20 and attracted to

>older men, I always assumed that they were not attracted to

>me. At the time, I also thought -- rightly -- that sex with a

>40-year-old man would be a lot better than sex with a

>contemporary.

 

Amen, brother. This is sort of the first way things things start going wrong. It also points out, that if you don't find yourself attractive, how can anyone else? I spent a little while with a therapist and over a year with a personal trainer to get this to work out the way I wanted. Still can't say which was more difficult to face regularly, the trainer or the therapist.

 

Young guys like older men who assert themselves, but not to forcefully. Be bold and take control.

 

--EBG

[Guest jeffOH]

>First, although you have just turned 40, most of us never

>looked as good as you do even when we were 20.

 

Thanks Will! :-)

 

I think I will follow-up on this by asking him out for dinner or to a movie. I'm wondering if he'd be hesitant to do anything with me since I know his father? I guess I'll find out.

 

JEFF

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[+ glutes]

I have a SmallWorld / Incestual story:

 

At a foreign massage studio the boys are sent one at a time into a room where the client is waiting (no one way mirrors, or group socializing at this place). The therapists present themselves to discuss their various techniques with said client.

As the story goes one therapist walked into the room, closed the door, and found his father seated on the massage table waiting for the pitch!

[Will]

>I think I will follow-up on this by asking him out for dinner

>or to a movie.

 

Good idea. I don't -- frankly -- think it's any of your business whether he wants to do anything with you on account of his father. That's his business. But it IS your business to find out! If you don't, you'll never forgive yourself.