The money thing

[Guest jwraustin]

This has probably been posted many times before, but I think it's good to remind everyone about a couple of cautions to take when it comes to 'the money thing' with your escort.

 

1. Know how much the session is going to cost BEFORE the escort arrives.

2. It's not a good idea to pay your escort before the session starts - pay afterwards.

3. IMPORTANT: Don't open your walet, and grab a handful of cash and count it out in front of the escort. Keep your walet, your cash, and your credit cards safely tucked away, and only have the money due for the session (plus tip if you want).

 

My favorite way to receive money for the session is for the client to have the money neatly folded, and to slip the cash into my jeans pocket when I am dressed, and the session is over.

 

The reason I mention this is that I have been with a number of clients recently who, when the time has come to call it a night, grab their walet and take out a lot of cash and count it out in front of me. The problem with that is you may have just had your brains fucked out by some hot hunk, but you still don't know who you are dealing with.

 

Anymore suggestions??

 

 

Jon Dean

http://www.manfuck.net

[LovesYng]

>you just had your brains fucked out by some hot hunk, but you

>still don't know who you are dealing with.

 

I'm game to be FUCKED by some "HOT HUNK":9

 

When in doubt I whip it out:+

[+ Lucky]

"My favorite way to receive money for the session is for the client to have the money neatly folded, and to slip the cash into my jeans pocket when I am dressed, and the session is over."

 

If not neatly folded, do you make the client re-fold or just straighten it out later? And, BTW, which is the correct pocket to insert into?

[Chuck50]

I put mine in a nice card and envelope with their name on in advance and if something changes I add to it. But already have it ready and waiting. I have never had a surprise and not given it to them have the note made out. BUT I must say been lucky and I do my homework and I am selective. HUGS Chuck:D :D

[+ Axiom2001]

Chuck, I'm with you. If I have seen an escort more than once, I have his money in an envelope along with a nice line or two if it's warranted. For my first time escorts-- I usually have newish bills and fold once and sensually place into their hands-- namely one hand.

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I'm selective so I try not to think about whether or not I will have a "hot" time with an escort.

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The advice that the initial respondent gave was fine, except some escorts want their money upfront; usually when this has happened--I've voiced my disapproval and have given them the cash! Fortunately for me-- they didn't turn out to be duds!!

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I've never had an escort to count his money in front of me; I like that degree of trust and honesty that he has exhibited about me!

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I wish the rates were similar to those in the 80s though! The principal rate was 1/4th of what the base rate in NYC, LA, and SF

is today. Half of the base rate would be fine with me!!

[VaHawk]

We all like to get FUCKED by some Hot Hunk! but believe me that is a hell of a lot different than getting FUCKED OVER!

 

I think jw made a heck of a lot of valid points and his recent clients are lucky that they hired an honest man after doing research before the encounter. Anyone who would keep a wallet on them with id, credit cards, and a wad of cash when inviting a total stranger into their hotel room/home is really leaving himself open for trouble. I learned the hard way, not to have anyone unknown in my home unless I was absolutely sober and sane and totally sure of him and when in a hotel, I lock everything in the hotel safe/lock box with instructions to require photo id to access the safe/lock box.

 

Only have on you, the agreed upon fee, and some extra for tips(which is out of sight and not readily accessible).

 

Outside of this, I really can't add anything to the great suggestions of the original post. Paying the escort, is always, imo, uncomfortable whenever you do it/how you do it, but never, ever, ever pay up front. I also don't care for those escorts who want to see the money on the table in sight before proceeding. I can understand wanting that, but as a client I find it a total turnoff and a real mood killer.

[Guest fukamarine]

>I wish the rates were similar to those in the 80s though! The

>principal rate was 1/4th of what the base rate in NYC, LA, and

>SF

>is today. Half of the base rate would be fine with me!!

 

Be realistic - How much did you earn in the 80s? It's all relative!

 

fukamarine

[VaHawk]

>I have his money in an envelope along with a nice line

>or two

 

Yep, those nice lines are especially appreciated! SNIIFFF!

 

>The advice that the initial respondent gave was fine, except

>some escorts want their money upfront; usually when this has

>happened--I've voiced my disapproval and have given them the

>cash! Fortunately for me-- they didn't turn out to be duds!!

 

No comprendo? The escort did not state in your correspondence that he wanted the cash upfront? I try to get all those details settled before the hookup, and would not hire anyone who demanded the cash upfront.

 

>I've never had an escort to count his money in front of me

 

Me neither, but if he wanted to do that, then that is okay as long as he lets me get a tape measure out and measure his cock first, so that I can cancel without paying, because he is only 8 inches not the 10 inches he advertised. After all, if I write a review, I want to be 100% accurate!

[Bilbo]

RE: Accidental Overpaying

 

I know that I am always harping on this, but there is more than just trust involved when an escort accepts his money without counting it. Back when I did count my money all the time, I once had a client give me two one hundred dollar bills which had stuck together. On checking with him, he had only meant to give me one of them. That particular regualar I could have made up the money to on the next visit, but what if it had been a newbie for whom I didn't have a good, discrete way to contact and whom I never saw again? If I'm going to follow fashion and not count the money, then you are going to have to at least put up with the question, "Did you double check your count on this?"

[+ Charlie]

RE: Accidental Overpaying

 

Although I almost always agree with Bilbo, I have to admit that I find it tacky for the escort to count the money in front of me--I would rather recount the already bundled money in front of him, casually, and then hand it to him. With a regular, I just slip the folded bills in his hand, because he knows how to get in touch with me if I have made a mistake. By the way, I always give a tip separately, rather than include it in the fee, when I am dealing with someone from an agency, so it's clear that I was not confused about the fee and intentionally am giving more.

[CT Dick]

Chuck, the note is a nice tough. I have NEVER paid an escort without putting it in an envelope. x(

 

Dick

[Bilbo]

RE: Accidental Overpaying

 

Charlie - I have bowed to fashion and do not count the money in the presence of ... anymore. And I must say that it feels better to do it that way. Especially with those clients that have been coming around so long that I don't remember what I charge them any more. (I always let them stay with the old price when I raise my fees, but I warn them that it's up to them to remember what to pay me because I have better things to fill my sometimes pitifully small memory with.) But, then, I haven't found anyone overpaying me for quite some time, and as a half Scots, I'm a bit afraid of doing so.