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JT Brooklyn Mentor

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I don't think there's anything Negative about the Sweet Looking & Acting Guy!

 

He's just very Honest about his "Working Guy Performing Abilitie's"! He needs a little "Visual Stimulation" Like his Clients Require!

 

Too Bad other "Porno Guys" are not as Honest and just give a Client a Mediocore at Best Time!

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I agree with BG ... and several other posters here.

 

As I reach the stage where I am more than twice the age of men I engage (and I don't like twinks and don't touch anyone under 24, so I'm really getting "up there" in years), I have learned to follow the advice discussed by many on both sides of the client-escort relationship in another forum thread about letting a guy you are interested in know if you are over 60 (or any other age you think matters), over-weight ... over-whatever. Then, if the discussion proceeds positively, you're more than likely to have a great time. If it doesn't, you have saved the escort some embarrassment and yourself a mediocre experience/wasted $$.

 

Really, people, escorts are people too (no, really?) ... and they have preferences and limits, and the right to determine how to conduct their business. To me, it would be foolish to diss a guy who says, up front "sorry, I can't perform up to standard with someone who is "X" (fill in the blank)." He is passing up on a potential hire for the sake of honesty and ... dare I say? ... a kind of professionalism.

 

Hats off to escorts who can get genuinely engaged with, and excited by, older, H-W UNproportional guys. They are treasures of one kind. And there most definitely are guys who are genuinely prefer older companions (commercial and personal). By all means encourage and promote them!!

 

To my way of thinking, Marc is a treasure of a different kind. First, he genuinely is honest, straightforward, a great conversationalist, and can appreciate the perspective of older clients. (In addition to being scorchingly hot.)

 

My personal experience with Mr Dylan began 1:1, expanded to 1:2 (with another hot escort) and expanded into a 4-way with a muscled adonis we encountered/engaged at the Adonis club in NYC. I plan encounters along these lines now, in ways that I never did 20 years ago, because I KNOW that everyone will have a better time if there is genuine sexual excitement in the air. Alas, at my age, and in my physical condition, I can no longer assume that I, by myself, can generate that kind of enthusiasm in others. Sometimes, I can, and that's fabulous. Other times, that would be unlikely ... and if I know about it in advance, there are various ways to deal with the issue.

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So based on the recommendations of others it sounds like Mr. Dylan is a good escort for those he is willing to see. At this point, it shouldn't be a suprise to others that he has some strict definitions of who he is willing to see and who he isn't. If that bothers you, or like me you refuse to submit to a critical analysis / physical screening, you should move on. Why would you want to get into a situation that someone couldn't perform with you.

 

Perhaps he should be more upfront in ads about his limitations to avaoid hurting those people who are sensitive or have low self-esteem and hire to avoid rejection, but he has chosen not to and that is his right. Anyone who reads this forum shouldn't argue that it is well disclosed here.

 

Yes, Marc should be more upfront in whom he desires to see and not see. A few years back, a well-known escort at this site had his dos and don'ts in his ad. I wrote him about his criteria; he candidly responded with reasons, something for which I appreciated. Did I hire him? Yes, and twice. Although I fit the category in one of his don'ts--he found me to be much different and gave me a stellar time in both instances.

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As long as the escort is forthcoming about his own limits (preferably in his ad and certainly in the initial contact), I can understand the situation of some escorts declining some clients. Better for a client to know before you commit precious time and even more precious money. And there's a way to do that without being overly hurtful about it.

 

As for Marc Dylan, the question in my mind is not would he engage with me, but rather would I even want to hire him? I'd do a freebie with him, but he doesn't make my cut of someone to whom I would pay good money for an encounter. So, there's that aspect of the hiring relationship as well!

 

There might be others of us out there who wouldn't want to hire him!

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As long as the escort is forthcoming about his own limits (preferably in his ad and certainly in the initial contact), I can understand the situation of some escorts declining some clients. Better for a client to know before you commit precious time and even more precious money. And there's a way to do that without being overly hurtful about it.

 

As for Marc Dylan, the question in my mind is not would he engage with me, but rather would I even want to hire him? I'd do a freebie with him, but he doesn't make my cut of someone to whom I would pay good money for an encounter. So, there's that aspect of the hiring relationship as well!

 

There might be others of us out there who wouldn't want to hire him!

 

I'm not thinking that nobody I've been with has ever barebacked before but my mind can't let me be with someone who I KNOW has barebacked (yes, that might be weird). I only play safe but my mind traps certain information and it would spoil the encounter. I don't hire guys who advertise other than "always safe" and I wouldn't hire someone who had done a bareback video that I'm aware of. From what I have read, I meet Marc's criteria and he has a cuteness about him, just wouldn't sleep with him. Its not a Marc thing, its the aforementioned mind blockage about having played unsafe. I'm not criticizing or passing judgment (way above my pay grade in life). I don't like the idea though of people (even strangers) putting their lives at risk - and if they are cute/good looking it bugs me even more. I think both guys should describe each other and share pictures as they are comfortable before committing to meet. One of the other posters said it well. Both guys should be kind and respectful as that information is shared. The one thing I have always been extremely careful about is saying "no" to a guy after he has sent recent pictures. I handle it like walking on eggs, just like I'd want someone to do with me. Anytime that has happened the guy has always responded well which tells me I handled it ok (and makes me feel better). I always, even if a guy says it doesn't matter, describe myself to them before he says its a go. We all have different ideas of what's attractive and not so its just how we handle the topic. Sorry if I contributed to beating this topic well past submission. Time for a Gin & Tonic :) :) I'm not addicted to them (not that there would be anything wrong if I was) - I never have one before Noon but I do know time zones fairly well so am aware when its Noon somewhere.

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lol lol....Love this, If ever I find myself back out in 'Cali'........;)

 

I'm actually a lifelong New Yorker, BVB. Just visiting LA for the next week to see friends, and my future husband, as we discussed in another thread. But I do hope to make it back down to south Florida soon. Keep an eye out...

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I'm actually a lifelong New Yorker, BVB. Just visiting LA for the next week to see friends, and my future husband, as we discussed in another thread. But I do hope to make it back down to south Florida soon. Keep an eye out...

 

Will do. I'll keep the 'home fires' burnin.

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Yes he is here now I believe that's why I am curious if he is just massage and if it is just massage how interactive it may be. Does anyone have any info that may help?

He was in Vegas a few months back. I reached out and he was very specific "massage only".

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He was in Vegas a few months back. I reached out and he was very specific "massage only".

I met Marc several years back. He was great. About a year later he was only doing erotic massage with some extras. He is a great guy. But I have moved on. He is a good guy and beautiful. I wish him the best.

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I haven't read this entire thread. Started at the beginning, then skipped to the end.

 

I met with Marc Dylan, and I'm anything but HWP. It was not an issue, and I found him to be very friendly and bright. There's been a little ongoing contact, trading jokes, comments, etc via Twitter. We even had a chat about Thanksgiving recipes last year.

 

I'd see him again.

 

I thought he'd stopped or cut back on the work. When we met, he talked about planning, being smart with his money, not blowing it like other porn actors. He's lived a pretty jetset lifestyle from what I see online... when in SF he's stayed at either very upscale hotels, or done short term rentals at buildings I know to be very pricey. I would guess he's done well with branded lube, his porn portal, etc. I know he invests, and while he doesn't give investment advice, I actually did well myself just because of a market-tweet he made.

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