Is this a bit ridiculous? I need advice...

[Rapaz]

Here's the thing... I'm a younger guy and I hang out with a lot of (seemingly) straight males around my age because basically all me and my good best friend hang out with is our brothers friends.

 

Anyway, something strange happened. I saw my friend's brother's best friend (are you following?) having sex with a cross dresser on pornhub.... this was purely coincidental. I was looking at porn and just so happen to see a little screen capture with a familiar face and I identified him right away because of a tattoo...

 

Anyway, I think he's incredibly sexy, built Dominican man with beautiful skin and a huge uncut dick. I want to approach him and offer him money to use a fleshlight while I watch. Is this a good idea? There's a lot of ways to message him anonymously before I ask him this, but I am still quite nervous for some reason, like he'd automatically know who I am LOL.

 

Thanks for any thoughts of enlightenment.

 

-Rapaz

[seeker630]

Here's the thing... I'm a younger guy and I hang out with a lot of (seemingly) straight males around my age because basically all me and my good best friend hang out with is our brothers friends.

 

Anyway, something strange happened. I saw my friend's brother's best friend (are you following?) having sex with a cross dresser on pornhub.... this was purely coincidental. I was looking at porn and just so happen to see a little screen capture with a familiar face and I identified him right away because of a tattoo...

 

Anyway, I think he's incredibly sexy, built Dominican man with beautiful skin and a huge uncut dick. I want to approach him and offer him money to use a fleshlight while I watch. Is this a good idea? There's a lot of ways to message him anonymously before I ask him this, but I am still quite nervous for some reason, like he'd automatically know who I am LOL.

 

Thanks for any thoughts of enlightenment.

 

-Rapaz

 

Only if you are prepared to accept the consequences of him telling your brother & his friends. I'm not saying he would, but he could. You'll have to meet, and he could change his mind, once he recognizes you, and say he was just stringing you along.

[Rapaz]

My plan: Make the offer to him without telling him who I am. If he accepts, tell him once we exchange numbers and make a date for it.

 

If he changes his mind, I doubt he'll tell anybody. If he does, it's not like it'll come as a huge scandal or anything... everyone knows I'm a homo.

[bigvalboy]

homo

 

Do people still use that word?

[Rapaz]

Do people still use that word?

If you want scrabble advice open your own thread.

[Lohengrin1979]

My plan: Make the offer to him without telling him who I am. If he accepts, tell him once we exchange numbers and make a date for it.

 

If he changes his mind, I doubt he'll tell anybody. If he does, it's not like it'll come as a huge scandal or anything... everyone knows I'm a homo.

 

Why not just tell him who you are from the get go? I doubt he's going to run to everyone telling them you tried to hire him when you could just tell them he was fucking a tranny. I'm pretty sure he hasn't shared that info with all of them. The worst he could say is "nah man, that would be too weird!" Then you find another hot Dominican guy to hire.

 

Lohengrin

[Rapaz]

Thanks. I messaged him on kik and after 3 hours, he's gonna do it for me for free and he knows who I am. Turned out good....

[niceguyaz]

Tell us how it turned out - hoping you get more than you initially asked for!

[Frequentflier]

Do people still use that word?

 

"homo" is derogatory so more evolved people don't use it.

[bigvalboy]

"homo" is derogatory so more evolved people don't use it.

 

Whew...Thank you FF. I thought for a moment there it was just me.

 

OK, moving on people.

[EZEtoGRU]

Sounds very hot Rapaz. Let us know how it was.......and if it goes beyond the Fleshlight

[+ azdr0710]

Sounds very hot Rapaz. Let us know how it was.......and if it goes beyond the Fleshlight

 

yes, rap, I expect a full report on my desk Monday morning.....(or at least here in the forum).....

[Rapaz]

"homo" is derogatory so more evolved people don't use it.

 

If I avoided every term used in a derogatory manner to described homosexuals then I wouldn't have any left, now would I?

 

I'll be blunt and say I really couldn't give a shit about the English language or how people get pissed and sensitive over words that OBVIOUSLY aren't being used in a harmful or disrespectful context. If that's what "evolved" people sit around and pick their asses over then I'll stay back here and have tea with Neanderthals. They seem to have their priorities in order.

[Rapaz]

yes, rap, I expect a full report on my desk Monday morning.....(or at least here in the forum).....

 

It's happening tonight, I'll let you guys know what happens.

[nate_sf]

If that's what "evolved" people sit around and pick their asses over then I'll stay back here and have tea with Neanderthals. They seem to have their priorities in order.

 

Haha! That's pretty funny. In all seriousness, I've been hearing the term "homo" used as a term of endearment from time to time, usually among younger gay guys. First time it took me by surprise but it was obviously being used by gay guys and meant to be chummy, not offensive. But being a man of a certain age myself, I can't help but think of that woman on "Soap" who would always describe Jody as "the homo" with her comical over-the-top voice. Was she the mother-in-law?

 

But lest we forget what we're here for... please do give a report on your date with the hot man and his fleshjack. That's the stuff porn fantasies are made of!

[Rapaz]

So the night went like this:

 

He showed up late, but I didn't have to work the next day so I wasn't mad. He works at a retail store and they asked him to stay late and he couldn't text me... anyway, he showed up and we chatted and had a couple drinks. He was surprised that I found him so attractive and asked me why I hadn't said anything before. He said he didn't want me to give him any money because it felt right to do it for free since he was just going to jerk off..

 

Anyway, it was his first time using a fleshlight. He was really excited and almost came immediately after using it but slowed down a bit so I could "enjoy" watching him. He found it hot that I fantasize about him... He didn't want me to suck his dick at all because he just wasn't comfertable with it. He let me stroke him with the fleshlight so that was pretty fun. This guy is REALLY sexy... a very well groomed, Dominican guy with long wavy hair, an almost mocha colored tanned skin with a naturally muscular body with a little fat on him that makes him look like a real man, if you know what I mean...lol

 

 

Anyway... after about 15 or so minutes of edging himself with the fleshlight, he asked me if he could cum in it. I said I wanted him to cum on me and he was a little hesitant, but then without warning me he stood up and came on my face and in mouth and pretty much got cum all over my area rug.. he came a lot. He really liked the porno and the intensity of the toy. Overall good experience and he said he wants to do it again in the near future.

[EZEtoGRU]

Very hot rapaz. I would love that. Congrats!!

[Diverdan]

Congratulations... if I was a betting man, I would bet that this relationship will progress far beyond the use of the fleshlight. So just enjoy what happens for as long as possible. Keep us informed...

[+ Axiom2001]

Thanks. I messaged him on kik and after 3 hours, he's gonna do it for me for free and he knows who I am. Turned out good....

 

I just read all of the posts preceding this one; then I stopped. Glad that it has "turned out" well for you and he. May other adventures be as positive for you!!