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This is a response I got back from a guy advertising on hourboy (I won't go into who or where):

 

"normally for guys 35 and under i let them fuck me and i suck them, guys 35 and older i will let them use a toy on me and i will suck them off. no i dont smoke. may i get a pic of you first then i will send mine. i charge 100 an hour but willing to go down to 75 an hour. but if you want to fuck it will have to be 100 an hour. "

 

The question I had asked was what he liked to do with other guys and how much his time was worth? The photos on the site were torso only, so I had asked for a face shot. Never had a potential hire ask me for a face pic first.

 

Anyone else run into an answer like this?

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This is a response I got back from a guy advertising on hourboy (I won't go into who or where):

 

"normally for guys 35 and under i let them fuck me and i suck them, guys 35 and older i will let them use a toy on me and i will suck them off. no i dont smoke. may i get a pic of you first then i will send mine. i charge 100 an hour but willing to go down to 75 an hour. but if you want to fuck it will have to be 100 an hour. "

 

The question I had asked was what he liked to do with other guys and how much his time was worth? The photos on the site were torso only, so I had asked for a face shot. Never had a potential hire ask me for a face pic first.

 

Anyone else run into an answer like this?

 

OK this is a little strange. He is honest, you have to give him that, and at least you know exactly what will/or will not occur. I don't quite understand the limits on age that he has, but each to his own. It is his prerogative. I guess if you are OK with his limitations, then I don't really see a problem.

 

As to the face pic, well in al years of hiring, let's just say it has been more than a couple of decades, only one person asked for a face pic. I posted about it and a 'firestorm' erupted. Everyone had very strong opinions on what I had said, so keeping that drama in mind, I will just say that it happened once, and I refused to send the escort a pic.

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I won't send a face picture and yes I've been asked more than a couple of times. Is it unfair to ask a companion I've contacted to send a picture when I won't, maybe. But I'm the one paying, not him and while I think I'm terrific looking, if he's holding himself out as a companion his face needs to be more attractive (may just mean younger) than mine.

 

As for the OP's first post, I'd respond that I'm not interested and never respond again. The companion's email linking certain acts with dollars is asking for a set of metal bracelets. When that happens its expensive and likely a big risk to your career (misdemeanor still means you're convicted and think about explaining that on your next background check). I'd respond if for no other reason there is an email that there is no interest you can point to if there is a knock on your door at 6 AM. And I'll add that the companions communication shows a lack of class, but then this is just my opinion and maybe others like his approach. One can talk sexy and enticingly without sounding like they are waiting on the local corner and need "substance" money. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but all I can think is what a friend of mine sometimes says "no good can come from that". Look for and meet a decently reviewed guy or take a cold shower, drink a gin & tonic, something. Don't take silly risks (health and/or legal) because the little guy needs attention.

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I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but all I can think is what a friend of mine sometimes says "no good can come from that". Look for and meet a decently reviewed guy or take a cold shower, drink a gin & tonic, something. Don't take silly risks (health and/or legal) because the little guy needs attention.

 

A Gin Tonic can never hurt, a cold shower on the other hand, I could do without, but I understand where you're going with this FF, and you are absolutely right, "never let the little head speak for the big head"

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Obviously this wouldn't apply to all escorts but the escorts I know that asks for pics usually do so because they either will only accept young or in shape clients or they refuse minority (all or some groups) clients but do not want to put discriminatory text in their ads. If they demand a pic from me my reply is usually I will gladly provide a pic if you want to date me, but otherwise no thanks.

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the escorts I know that asks for pics usually do so because they either will only accept young or in shape clients or they refuse minority (all or some groups) clients but do not want to put discriminatory text in their ads.

 

All this talk of HWP (Height, weight, proportion) requirements and ethnic sensibilities from escorts used to bother me. Hell I've been with escorts that would make disparaging comments about minorities over dinner, hateful, nasty things. Talk about a buzz kill. I don't care much who someone voted for, but there is that 'line in the sand' where I say to myself, "tell me he just didn't say that"....I just find it all a bit sad.

 

It is certainly the prerogative of the escort to put into place any limitations that he might have, and it is my prerogative not to hire him. It's not unlike any other business, it is my choice if I want to make the purchase. I would suppose that in the end, a client would want to know about these limitations up front, but there are just far too many escorts doing business without any pre-conditions. I used to like what Maxwellissmart would post on this topic. He appeared open to almost anything and seemed to encourage diversity.

 

Personally, if someone wants a face pic, I have the same attitude as d2b....you want to date me, then I'll send a pic, hell I'll send a resume and a financial statement, if that going to make you happy, otherwise...'sayonara' baby.

 

 

If they demand a pic from me my reply is usually I will gladly provide a pic if you want to date me, but otherwise no thanks.
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Personally, if someone wants a face pic, I have the same attitude as d2b....you want to date me, then I'll send a pic, hell I'll send a resume and a financial statement, if that going to make you happy, otherwise...'sayonara' baby.

 

Right there. If I am paying for it, this is the relevant face pic from my side of the transaction:

 

http://michaelgraham.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/one-hundred-100-dollar-bill.jpg

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Right there. If I am paying for it, this is the relevant face pic from my side of the transaction:

 

http://michaelgraham.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/one-hundred-100-dollar-bill.jpg

 

LOL! Good one!

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Right there. If I am paying for it, this is the relevant face pic from my side of the transaction:

 

http://michaelgraham.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/one-hundred-100-dollar-bill.jpg

I have not seen you in a bit Adam. i see you let your hair grow out and seem to be dressing a bit sharper. Congrats.

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