Topher Dimaggio. Does he escort?

[anotherjohnindupont]

I've been intrigued by this guy, he's a younger-twinkish version of a local escort I see often in DC.

[rickx]

Bump

[dutchal]

Last big news on him was: https://thefightmag.com/2018/02/queerty-andrew-christian-suspends-model-topher-dimaggio-indefinitely-amid-sex-assault-accusations/

[Poincare]

He is an accused rapist....I saw him in a gay bar in Las Vegas...quite short...and much less attractive in person....a hard “no”.....so much better out there....but to answer you’re question...I’ve never heard that he escorts

[ScottyTX100]

Known “circuit boy” with an attitude whose basically burned all his bridges. Nobody can stand him.

 

Very much a diva on the porn set. Nobody’s told him that his 15 minutes is over. Maybe he gets it now.

[BabyBoomer]

He made his return to porn earlier this year working for TIM.

 

~Boomer~

[Realalist]

I totally forgot about all the drama surrounding him. He's been scrubbed clean from just about everywhere.

[hypothetically]

He's been scrubbed clean from just about everywhere.

 

Except for the bottom of the barrel, where TIM does most of it's casting. But I also realize that's a "niche."

Edited November 20, 2019 by hypothetically

[Epigonos]

Have a good acquaintance who is an activist gay shop owner in Puerto Vallarta. A couple of years ago he was very involved in organizing the Puerto Vallarta Gay Pride activities. Dimaggio was invited down to ride on the main float in the parade. By the time he left to return to the States he was persona non grata big time. He was a total pain in the ass diva from the moment he arrived until the moment he left. My friends reaction was "never again would he spend time with that asshole".

[caliguy]

He is an accused rapist....I saw him in a gay bar in Las Vegas...quite short...and much less attractive in person....a hard “no”.....so much better out there....but to answer you’re question...I’ve never heard that he escorts

1. "Accused rapist" is meaningless if they didn't report it to the police. 2. Some here are pointing out that he's a smug douchebag. Attacking his looks is making you look like one as well.

[hypothetically]

Attacking his looks is making you look like one as well.

 

Pointing out that someone is “short” and saying someone is “much less attractive in person” is HARDLY attacking. No one called the boy a gremlin.

 

He is attractive, yes. But generally speaking, as I have not had the “pleasure” of meeting Topher, beauty equates to what when you have a rotten personality? Answer me this.

[former lurker]

1. "Accused rapist" is meaningless if they didn't report it to the police. 2. Some here are pointing out that he's a smug douchebag. Attacking his looks is making you look like one as well.

 

Let me try to be clear. Topher is hot looking, well built and handsome. What has been said about him is not that he's smug, it's that he's self-centered and treats others with disrepect. I've never met him, never will, but I've read enough to form an opinion. Whether it's his alleged cheating on his BFs and lying about it, or the multiple accusations of sexual assault including of rape, a picture of him comes into focus.

 

As for your first point, it says more about you than you might intend. Rape is seriously unreported, especially when the rapist has a high profile and perceived influence over the victim's career. Most of the complaints about Topher are from lesser known/lesser established models/porn actors and the rapes are reported to have occurred when Topher was at his peak. Men especially are reluctant to report having been raped. And there is also the sense among many gay rape victims that their sexual identity will subject them to neglect or worse by law enforcement.

 

Absent reporting to police, there's no prosecution and no potential for conviction and punishment by the law. But we don't need to withhold judgement. We aren't jurors with Topher's freedom in our hands.

 

Finally, Andrew Christian's response to the allegations is telling. Topher was among his most high-profile long-term models. You don't walk away from him if you believe the allegations are utterly without merit.

[caliguy]

What has been said about him is not that he's smug, it's that he's self-centered and treats others with disrepect.

 

As for your first point, it says more about you than you might intend. Rape is seriously unreported, especially when the rapist has a high profile and perceived influence over the victim's career. Most of the complaints about Topher are from lesser known/lesser established models/porn actors and the rapes are reported to have occurred when Topher was at his peak. Men especially are reluctant to report having been raped. And there is also the sense among many gay rape victims that their sexual identity will subject them to neglect or worse by law enforcement.

t.

Smug definition: having or showing an excessive pride in oneself or one's achievements. Didn't you just agree with me?

 

Second, I've heard the accusers. The first one let him with one condition. Don't cum in me in which Topher went right ahead and did the opposite. At any rate it sounds more like angry regret. Then a few others came forward. Topher made me pull my pants down and show my ass on the dancefloor! It all just became a me too joke.

[caliguy]

Pointing out that someone is “short” and saying someone is “much less attractive in person” is HARDLY attacking. No one called the boy a gremlin.

 

He is attractive, yes. But generally speaking, as I have not had the “pleasure” of meeting Topher, beauty equates to what when you have a rotten personality? Answer me this.

I never said he didn't have a "rotten personality". However, pointing out someone is too short and not that attractive sounds like an attack to me.

[marylander1940]

Escorts, pornstars, models, actors and folks who are famous because of their looks usually have thick skin when it comes to criticism.

 

The names/adjectives some have called providers on here... reminds me of:

 

[hypothetically]

I never said he didn't have a "rotten personality". However, pointing out someone is too short and not that attractive sounds like an attack to me.

 

Christ. Comprehend. Read slow.

No one said you said he had a rotten personality. My statement that began “generally speaking” simply posed a question per how “beautiful” one could possibly be if they had a rotten personality.

 

But if you couldn’t gather that from a simple sentence then I also wouldn’t expect you to wrap your head around the fact that calling someone “short” in the context that @Poincare did is not an attack. I’m 5’8” (ish), if someone on the forum said I was short I wouldn’t think someone was attacking me. If someone said I was “less attractive in person,” while an opinion, it is not an attack. The person wouldn’t be saying I was ugly, but rather, my photos did not live up to their expectations. Again, an opinion but certainly not an attack. Why I am explaining this to someone likely twice my age, I do not know lol.

Edited November 20, 2019 by hypothetically

[former lurker]

Smug definition: having or showing an excessive pride in oneself or one's achievements. Didn't you just agree with me?

 

Second, I've heard the accusers. The first one let him with one condition. Don't cum in me in which Topher went right ahead and did the opposite. At any rate it sounds more like angry regret. Then a few others came forward. Topher made me pull my pants down and show my ass on the dancefloor! It all just became a me too joke.

 

I did not. While he is smug, he's accused of far worse. The "consent" you cite was expressly limited, and Topher went beyond that limit, hence rape. You must have some Superman-like sense of hearing to detect "angry regret" rather than anger at a sexual violation beyond his consent. As to the others, they described classic sexual harassment and assault. Not so funny.

 

At least you have dropped the line that it didn't happen if it wasn't reported. You deserve credit for that.

[former lurker]

Christ. Comprehend. Read slow.

No one said you said he had a rotten personality. My statement that began “generally speaking” simply posed a question per how “beautiful” one could possibly be if they had rotten personality.

 

But if you couldn’t gather that from a simple sentence then I also

wouldn’t expect you you to wrap your head around calling someone “short” not being an attack. I’m 5’8” (ish), if someone on the forum said I was short I wouldn’t think someone was attacking me. If someone said I was “less attractive in person,” while an opinion, it is not an attack. The person wouldn’t be saying I was ugly, but rather, my photos did not live up to their expectations, again, an opinion but certainly not an attack. Why I am explaining this to someone likely twice my age, I do not know lol.

 

At 5'8" you would be looking down at me. When I was a child, 5'8" was within the range of average height for adult men. My nephew is the only one in the immediate family to crack 6' (he's 6'2"), but that's from his mother's family (likely his maternal grandfather, who we've never met).

 

Your post piqued my curiosity, and I noticed your links a the bottom of your post, so . . . I looked. You're strikingly handsome. And your posts here make you even more attractive.

[hypothetically]

At 5'8" you would be looking down at me. When I was a child, 5'8" was within the range of average height for adult men. My nephew is the only one in the immediate family to crack 6' (he's 6'2"), but that's from his mother's family (likely his maternal grandfather, who we've never met).

 

Your post piqued my curiosity, and I noticed your links a the bottom of your post, so . . . I looked. You're strikingly handsome. And your posts here make you even more attractive.

 

Thank you @former lurker, I appreciate that :)

[+ jeezopete]

Why I am explaining this to someone likely twice my age.....

 

And then you went & called someone OLD!! Can this get any nastier?? LOL

[marylander1940]

And then you went & called someone OLD!! Can this get any nastier?? LOL

 

[former lurker]

And then you went & called someone OLD!! Can this get any nastier?? LOL

 

I don't read that as nasty. His point was that comments about people's appearance can be negative opinions without being an attack. I suppose he would expect someone decades older than him to recognize that one's physical appearance can be judged, as escorts' appearance generally are, without it being an attack. In other word's, a relatively old guy disparagin a young fit guys' appearance might seem odd outside the context of escorting or porn.

[ScottyTX100]

Not that I advocate the use of violence in reporting this but Topher’s mistreatment of others is so profound, he was pushed into a fire pit at a bar where he was appearing several years ago.

 

I sure hope he’s taken the time to work on a back-up plan. He’s old news in porn, and now that the Andrew Christian gig is over, he’s run out of cards to play.

 

 

His reputation is so bad in West Hollywood, I doubt he could even score a sugar daddy situation.

 

One of my old boyfriends is an Andrew Christian model and his opinion about Topher is unprintable, and it certainly isn’t out of jealousy because my boyfriend has nothing to be jealous about.

[marylander1940]

Not that I advocate the use of violence in reporting this but Topher’s mistreatment of others is so profound, he was pushed into a fire pit at a bar where he was appearing several years ago.

 

I sure hope he’s taken the time to work on a back-up plan. He’s old news in porn, and now that the Andrew Christian gig is over, he’s run out of cards to play.

 

 

His reputation is so bad in West Hollywood, I doubt he could even score a sugar daddy situation.

 

One of my old boyfriends is an Andrew Christian model and his opinion about Topher is unprintable, and it certainly isn’t out of jealousy because my boyfriend has nothing to be jealous about.

 

Some on here might be offended you're pulling a hearsay...

 

I do believe what you post is accurate.

 

I guess if Topher never had the stomach to escort 10 years he won't do it now but if might change. I don't understand guys who do porno but don't escort, specially considering unfortunately their career will in the future stop them from getting other jobs. I guess not everybody is cut off to escort even if he take Viagra! Just guys can't do it!

[caliguy]

Christ. Comprehend. Read slow.

No one said you said he had a rotten personality. My statement that began “generally speaking” simply posed a question per how “beautiful” one could possibly be if they had a rotten personality.

 

But if you couldn’t gather that from a simple sentence then I also wouldn’t expect you to wrap your head around the fact that calling someone “short” in the context that @Poincare did is not an attack. I’m 5’8” (ish), if someone on the forum said I was short I wouldn’t think someone was attacking me. If someone said I was “less attractive in person,” while an opinion, it is not an attack. The person wouldn’t be saying I was ugly, but rather, my photos did not live up to their expectations. Again, an opinion but certainly not an attack. Why I am explaining this to someone likely twice my age, I do not know lol.

Gee. Aren't you charming... You don't have to attack my intelligence and age to make a point. Btw. I'm not even twice your stated "RM age" so I'm not sure what that's all about. I'm totally fine with saying he has a rotten personality btw. Some commenters here as well.