Daddy Poll...

[EZEtoGRU]

I think your average gay man first sees face, crotch, butt, and eyes....or some combination thereof.

 

Whilst I am an admitted size queen and that is important to me, the attitribute I most look for is masculinity. If that is lacking, I instantly lose interest no matter how big the cock, how great the ass, or how handsome the face.

[Guest countryboywny]

1. face

2. build

3. ass

[Steven_Draker]

It would be disturbing if someone sees your ass (or crotch/cock) before seeing your face.

 

You have to question yourself whether you hang out in an orthodox venue.

[operalover21]

It would be disturbing if someone sees your ass (or crotch/cock) before seeing your face.

 

You have to question yourself whether you hang out in an orthodox venue.[/color]

 

Yep. I never look at a guy's crotch when first noticing someone. I just can't imagine. It's face, eyes, build, butt if he's walking away but I, honestly, can't imagine starring at a guy's crotch. I'm probably in the minority but that's never bothered me.

[nate_sf]

1. face

2. build

3. ass

 

Ditto!

[+ sf westcoaster]

1. face

2. build

3. clothes

[KMEM]

Build, face, the rest.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[+ Oliver]

1....butt

2....legs

3....butt

 

What if he's facing you???

[+ Oliver]

1. Chest!

2. Arms

3. Then face

 

But, as with sf westcoaster, if the clothes are a turn-off and the guy is scruffy, none of the rest will help.

[Phil_musc]

What if he's facing you???

 

Find some unobtrusive way to walk around him, of course. I would recommend the old "I'm conducting a survey on where men keep their wallets. In the hip pocket? In the rear pocket and if so which side?" Really, this is no problem to work around. And of course if you're uncomfortable scoping out a new acquaintance's crotch/cock attributes, try innocently dropping something that you have to kneel down to pick up. That should give you all the information you need for the time being. You laugh (probably) but really in most situations where gay men gather, just about any excuse to check out a guy's crotch and ass will work - no explanation is needed - everyone will know what you're really up to anyway.

[leigh.bess.toad]

1. Face

2. Build

3. Hands

 

Although for me, I also notice if he has a sense of humor first. To me, its very important.

[instudiocity]

1. Smile - Eyes, Lips and Teeth

2. Build

3. Sense of Humor

[jawjateck]

What if he's facing you???

 

The front side is irrelevant. Just spin him around and check out what's truly important.

[TopAz]

1. Face

2. Butt

3. Legs (Thighs/Calves)

[zeyfur]

Build

 

Chest

 

Arms

[Muscle Lover 2]

Build/Physique

Face

Legs and feet

[+ nycman]

Smile

Arms

Ass

[JoeBlow]

1.Teeth/Smile

2. Torso

3. Butt

[Okliehomo]

1. Teeth

2. Face

3. Ass.

4. Ass

5. Ass.... etc...

[Lohengrin1979]

1. Face, eyes in particular

2. arms, both biceps and forearms

3. package