Scripted Encounters

[chrismac]

Rick "JADW" Munroe's recent post on Humiliation brought to mind a somewhat related topic I find interesting, which goes out to escorts and clients alike:

 

Clients: do you ever want to script an encounter with an escort (or anyone, for that matter)? Ever get to a point in the session or date where you want to say, "no,no,no" (as you pick up the script from the endtable) "What you say here is, 'show me your hole you little man-slut'"? If, in your pre-session communications with escorts do you as for certain things to be said? Do you worry about "over-scripting" a session, such that it won't seem natural, but rather like a poorly-directed porn flick?

 

Escorts: in order to make the session with your client more enjoyable, do you encourage a bit of scripting? Not memorizing lines, but the general jist? Aside from asking about clothing fantasies and physical fetishes, are you known for being verbal? If not, why? If you do accommodate a client's need for verbal stimulation, do you sometimes find it difficult to pull off it it doesn't fit your personality (i.e., like an escort known for being a surfer type being asked to play the role of a leather daddy)?

[Guest Hijnx]

Good topic. Personally, I don't like to set too many expectations via a script or trying to plan too much before a session. I actually enjoy the process of trying to determine where we are going in a session, especially non-verbally. The basics ie., Top/Bottom, are set up in advance by virtue of the guys I pick. But I've really enjoyed the places that we've ended up going. The greater the skill of the escort, the more attune he is to where the session is going. If he needs all the details in advance, then I'm usually not interested anymore.

The exception is with a guy that I've known for a while, and we try something new. But, I always end up kind of laughing or thinking its silly, and we throw the idea out and just rut like dogs.

[Bilbo]

With so many good surfer dudes out there, why would you hire a leather Daddy to impersonate one? Or vice versa - especially as that could be dangerous? Inquiring minds want to know.

[chrismac]

>With so many good surfer dudes out there, why would you hire

>a leather Daddy to impersonate one? Or vice versa - especially

>as that could be dangerous? Inquiring minds want to know.

 

That's an excellent question. I was just using that as an example of the absurd; if an escort were asked to be verbal in a way that was completely unnatural for him, would he do it, or would it be like asking a surfer dude to put himself in the role of leather daddy, or vice-versa?

 

Personally, I think the role reversal would be HOT!! }(

[+ Lucky]

Personally, I don't think a script is spontaneous enough to have the fun I want. I just tell the guy, whom of course I already trust to do the role, that he is the drill sargeant and I am the recruit. Do not break character from the time you get here to the time you leave, unless absolutely necessary.

Works for me!

[+ Charlie]

This is exactly the answer I would give. Too little direction about the scene and you don't get what you want, but too much directed script and there is no thrill of surprise. By the way, I like a verbal top, but he has to sound natural, otherwise I'd rather he just grunted.

[Guest jeffOH]

I had a cross-dressing client who had a different scenario each time I saw him. In one scene, I was "April's" pimp who was waiting for "her" when she came home from a trick. I was to demand my money and then smack her around, tie her up, put this gag on her(with attached tube to piss in), rip off her pantyhose and fuck her. She was out driving around and I was hiding in the kitchen when she came home. As it turned out, I didn't notice the "script" on the table, but apparently my improvisation was better than what she had put together.

 

I have a potential client(who is black)who wants me to be very rough with him, humiliate him and call him a "nigger" while I'm fucking him.

He's sent me a short story which is similar to the scene he'd like to experience.

 

A general outline of a scene a client would like is cool, but a detailed script can be a bit tedious and sucks the spontaneity out of the experience.

 

Give me the highlights and I can take it from there!}(

 

JEFF

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